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the boy who i love is now in love with you

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Remember that while you’re wasting time,

Others are doing what it takes to claim the spot you want.

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LIVING THROUGH YOUR ALTER EGO | IT GIRL DIARIES

Many girls have told me how challenging it is to become an "It Girl," mainly because of the many changes it requires. It's understandable; you can't just wake up one day and become a completely different person, leaving behind who you were and all your old habits. I used to feel the same way, believing I could never become the woman I aspired to be. But then, I made a plan—to start living through my alter ego and over time, I didn’t just pretend to be her—I truly became her...

Here is your Guide for an Easy Start to Living Through Your Alter Ego :

Step 1. | Create your alter ego ( this is who you want to be. Decide what they do, how they think, what they look like and what their daily routine would be. Give them a name )

Step 2. | Create a Vision Board that resonates with your alter ego ( you can find many ideas on Pinterest or head over to my Pinterest here, for a already drawn up vision board, I've create many )

Step 3. | Wake up everyday as your present self and then, start implementing small routines throughout your day that your alter ego would do. Always start small. ( remember, it's harder to wake up and just be different person )

Step 4. | Choose atleast 1 small routine that your alter ego would do and make that a consistent daily routine for yourself ( skin care routine, hot lemon water every morning, reading, walking or doing your makeup ) It doesn't have to be something big and drastic, just something small to give you direction and discipline.

Step 5. | Gradually add in more routines as the days go by. Think of your current reality as plain white cake batter and your alter ego's life as pink food coloring, everyday you add more food coloring into your batter and in the end, you will just have pink cake batter.

Step 6. | Try this for 2 months, this will give you enough time to take things slowly.

Tip : Everytime you've successfully remained consistent with a routine from your alter ego, cross it off your vision board, because this means it is no longer a vision, it is your reality.

( use your vision board as a to do list on this journey )

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xoxo, @colebabey888

www.thedigitaldollar/gumroad.com

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