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"To The Person Who Never See My Worth

I won’t be there for you anymore when you are bored. No more midnight calls and sweet messages. You won’t hear my sleepy voice again when you call me while I am fast asleep. I won’t beg you anymore to listen to what am I saying because it is so boring for you. Some of your stories are dull too but I enjoyed every bit of it. You will never hear me laugh again while you crack your silly jokes. Yes, I won’t be there for you anymore.

Just so you know, it is so hard for me to do this. I’ve spent many nights overthinking on how to stop thinking about you. I’ve shed bucket of tears everytime you made me feel so disliked. I’ve wrote lots of long messages just to express my pain of being ignored by you. But I want you to know that I still love you that much but i guess it ends here. No more overthinking. No more tears every night. And for my future tweets, they won’t be about you anymore. I’m letting my feelings go because it is slowly killing my soul. I’m losing my happiness that is used to burn so brightly inside me.

Thank you for making me realize that I deserve better. Thank you for making me question my self-worth, I am working on it. Thank you for letting me enter your life even if it is just the outermost layer while I’ve let you touch my core. But the one thing I‘ve wanted to thank you the most is you make me happy , so thank you.

For the last time, I want to say sorry. Sorry for being so clingy and needy. Sorry if I assumed that you like talking to me everytime that’s why I message you every chance I’ve got. Sorry if I’ve fell to deep in this pool of emotion when all you’ve wanted is to chill and just enjoy the heat of the sun. I am so sorry.

Someday, I know someone will enter my life and loves being in it. Someone will enjoy listening to my stories about the movies I’ve watch and the songs I like. Someone will call me just to know how is my day going and will cheer me up if it is not so well. Someone will text me good morning and good night with a smiley. Someone will appreciate me and beg me to make more. It is so heartbreaking that you stop doing that things to me but someday, I know someone will see my worth."

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Errands of Social Media User

Social media is really an extravagant useful thing in our present lives. Using social media websites, we are updated on the current events happening inside our country or in other countries. Using social media helps us people to communicate to each other and by using it we are able to connect ourselves and deliver our own opinions, thoughts and ideas regarding the situation we are interested to. It is also a major portion in the world of the millenials because social media is really a thing for us, a member of the so-called 20th century youth because with the aid of it we were able to share and posts our own personal matter about life, about our studies, our concerns regarding the current system in the Philippines, our dramas and etc. Social media had evolved into something that seek greater recognition in different platforms.

We are in an advance world of technologies and social media is a big part of it. However in some ways, vices of social media leads to improper use of it. By spreading fake news, or by ranting inappropriate words than can be seen publicy. Social media can take one’s life if not prevented in an early stage because it may cause cyber-bullying or any other method to bash or crash someone. Frankly speaking, there are lots of people out there who are really concern to voice out their opinions even if its attacking someone’s rights and that is one of the most dangerous portion of the social media.

Moreover, by the use of social media we are acces8ble in current news or announcements regarding the situations and weather forecasts in the country that can be ultimately spread in a matter of minute. For example, the suspension of classes, from these, it will be no costs to announce the suspension of classes in some area in the Philippines because of the bad weather. Students, teachers, parents or even individuals were able to know and spread the news to others especially those students/peoole who are living miles away from the university or from the school they are currently in. By announcing this kind of news in the social media, the students we’re able to calm themselves on not to worry if they need to go to school anymore. As for me, I spend most of my time using social media such as twitter, youtube, instagram and facebook. Maybe it will took me 5-6 hours surfing and browsing on social media. As I browsed my timeline using my different social media accounts, I always by-pass some people in the comment sections on a specific topic who are picking fights about their inside opinions relating to that article they are interested in. They are not concern about their inappropriate languages just to justify their opinions and all I can say is that ” what a hypocrite people “. Why can’t speak in a formal manner? Why do people always choose violence over goodness? Picking fight in social media is not my thing. I’d rather read some comments and laugh and say ” Stop it hypocrite. You’re not helping.” Then ignore it once I read it.

Contribute to change the world. But never complain about the world if you don’t you make a single move.

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“The Impact of Culture on the Body Image and Self Esteem: The Importance of Beauty.”

Many aspects contribute to body image, including the environment in which we are immersed in as well as our biological make up and genetic predisposition.

Body image in literal definiton is about having the shape of perfect image such as in face, body size and in physical aspects. As you define beauty, it talks about Angelina Jolie, Marian Rivera, Gal Gadot or Kathryn Bernando etc. or even applying makeup, adding or removing clothing, building muscles, or piercing various parts of the body are examples of how people try to change their appearance in order to fit in, or in some cases, to stick out. However, everyone in this world has a variety of beauty. We are created differently from each other. We have different angles in eyes, nose, eyebrows and etc. Our body image is influence by different factors, one of it is our cultural diversity and traditions. Body image is our perception on ourselves, on our own body and manner.

Nevertheless, beauty isn’t about on physical aspects only. It also talks about the inner self of one’s beauty. We are beautiful in our own way, which includes our self esteen. We, ourselves, is the epitomy of our own characteristics. Being beautiful inside and out is a relevant factor in the human being in such way that showing our good manners towards other people and being fare enough even though you have a full pack aura because you have a beautiful face or style. As many people said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder meaning the real beauty comes from the inner soul of the person. However the impact of tradition and culture of person can affect the body image. Society triggers us to shape in many ways. The more we look at perfect images of others and then look to find those same idealised characteristics in ourselves and don’t find them, the worse we feel about ourselves. Society gives us a number of reference points that shape our perceptions whether positive or negative. When it comes to our bodies there are a number of sources that affect us more than others.

Moreover, positive body image involves understanding that healthy attractive bodies come in many shapes and sizes, and that physical appearance says very little about our character or value as a person. Stop comparing ourselves to other people to prevent insecurities and low self steem. We have our own beauty, body image in which we can be proud of. Broaden our perspectives about health and beauty. Encourage yourself that you are beautiful and believe in that. Have confidence to make healthy choices for your mind and body now and throughout your life.

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