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UK appearances at Japan Expo Marseille 2025

UK arrived safely today in Marseille, France, to prepare for various gigs throughout the convention which will be held from the 21st to the 23rd of February.

Among his gigs, some of them will be happening on Ichigo Stage and possibly broadcasted live on the convention’s official Twitch account. Here is the link to the channel : https://twitch.tv/japanexpo

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UK will be attending Japan Expo Marseille from February 21 to 23 so if you live in France near Marseille please stop by and attend to his live 🙏🏼💖

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Mirror, mirror on the wall

What does this connection reflect back to you ? What do you see in each other that either uplifts you or drags you down ?

To find out, select one of the following groups. You can either choose based on the imagery or the number. This reading’s content might be triggering. Read only if you are okay with it. Keep in mind that this is a general reading.

Group 1

5 of swords, knight of cups, Self love, Death rx, Sugilite - Stretch the limits of your imagination - You are not your emotions, Memories comfort us "I seek out happy people who inspire me to be great."

This reading feels very personal. I felt a pang in my chest as I was shuffling your cards. And the more I saw the picture that was being depicted, the more I felt like crying. I feel like a lot of you have spent most of your life repressing your emotions and feelings for the sake of others within connections, whether those were platonic or romantic. Specifically, I picked up on wounds surrounding a masculine parental figure. When interacting with this person, the truth reflected back to you is that you shouldn't have to fight for someone's attention or love. This connection helps you heal a feeling of unworthiness that stems from your childhood. It also reflects the fact that a relationship shouldn't be thriving at the expense of your own well being and happiness. That a connection should be a safe space where you can feel free to be yourself and expand in a way that feels good for you. That you shouldn't have to pretend to be someone else to be accepted.

What you see in this person is that a partner is supposed to uplift you, not hinder you. You see that going after your dreams and doing the things that make you happy isn't a crime. You learn that your emotions are valuable and are nothing to be ashamed of. In this person, you find a shelter. A place where you can lower your mask and shield to be your unapologetical self without fearing retribution. In this person, you see a friend. Someone that is willing to listen to what you have to say and help you see things from a brighter perspective instead of finding every reason why this could go wrong. You learn that your opinion matters. That your interests aren't useless. That it is safe to cry, to be sad or angry, to feel unmotivated or scared or uncertain. That you shouldn't have to apologize for how you feel or for who you are. In them, you find a confidant.

The reality that this connection reflects back to you is that your friends, your family, the people you admire and give your attention to may not be having your best interest at heart. Nor do they provide for you the safe space you need. That they take more than they give and never say sorry. This connection teaches you the importance of your own love and perception of yourself. The importance of re evaluating your boundaries, of being authentic and surrounding yourself with the people that are going to value your true essence instead of trying to dim your light and shape you into something you are not.

Extra - What do they see in you? | Page of cups, The Sage, Black Tourmaline - Protect your light, Relieve the pressure, "I am ready to go big rise up and step into my power."

They see a person with a kind and pure heart, who yearns to love and be loved equally. Someone with big dreams and goals that they never dared to achieve. A soft hearted individual whose potential goes beyond anything they could ever imagine and is afraid to share it with the world. They see a lot of sadness too. Fear even. But more than that, they see a lot of wisdom and grace. A level of maturity that cannot be rivaled. They see someone that has been holding back for far too long and deserves to be able to let go of everything that has been hurting them. Someone that needs protection because of all the pain they've been through. Someone that's tired of fighting and screaming for peace. They see someone who's afraid of opening their heart to love again, who would rather guard their heart strongly even if it meant being alone forever rather than risking getting hurt again. But at the same time, they see how much you crave to put an end to all of that because at the end of the day, you're just like any human. You want that fairytale ending.

Group 2

"I celebrate all the grateness in my life." 3 of wands, 7 of wands, Sunstone - Take back your shine, The Weaver rx, Love rx, Stand up for yourself, Yes!

I get a lot of root and sacral chakra energy from this group, which to me may relate to fears surrounding stability, material possessions, intimacy and the body. In past connections, you or your person may have dealt with a lot of people that abused them either for their possessions, their status or their body. You may also have dealt with people who cheated on you or people who did not accept your differences but still took advantage of you. I don't know why, but I kept wanting to mention the other person instead of focusing on your energy. So maybe you and your person have dealt with very similar wounds and situations in your life. The truth that is being reflected back to you is that being different isn't always a struggle. That in a connection, your boundaries should always be respected. That not wanting the same things as your partner doesn't make you a bad person. That you have the right to say no. You are also learning that you cannot control every aspect of the connection. That sometimes, in order for things to be working, you'll have to let your ego aside and find a common ground that is comfortable for both parties. You're also learning that needing space or going after your goals are things that can be beneficial both to you and your partner, that you shouldn't have to choose between both. You're learning that being on your guards all the time isn't in your best interest and that in order to receive you must be able to give as well. The truth reflected back to you is also that not everyone is out to get you.

In this person, you see a call for the unknown that challenges you but also motivates you. You see an opportunity for change and wisdom. You see an invitation to appreciate life at the fullest and an encouragement to open your heart to the present moment. This connection teaches you to take a leap of faith and walk forward with confidence, even if you do not know what the future holds. It teaches you to see all the little things in life that are worth rejoicing about and fighting for. It pushes you to embrace all your quirks and faults, even those you think your partner wouldn't like. To look at the future with hope in your eyes and disregard any person that might stand in your way or try to get you to doubt yourself. This connection inspires you to stand tall and proud and cultivate optimism. It helps you feel safe in your body and comfortable in your shoes. For some of you, it has opened your eyes about your sexual preferences and your identity. Some of you may have realized that you were queer thanks to this connection. For others, you are healing wounds regarding physical intimacy : you may be learning to embrace the fact that being physical with someone is something that isn't your cup of tea and that there's nothing wrong with it. Some may be discovering and exploring new aspects of their sexuality that they didn't get to try before because they were taught to be ashamed of their body, of their desires. This connection leads you to uproot any belief system that was hindering your light and drive. Also, you are learning to love your body more and cultivate your creativity.

Extra - What do they see in you? | Treat yourself eat whatever you want, 4 of wands, Reflect, Cavansite - Expand your consciousness, "My high vibe thoughts create health in my body peace in my mind and love in my heart."

They see someone with such energy and love for life that they can't help but smile. They also can't help but to recognize your strength and limitless potential. This person sees you as their equal. They see in you someone that has all the qualities in life to be successful but also all the qualities that they look for in a partner. They see your trustworthiness, your ambition, your optimism and creativity and they love it. They admire your wit and communication skills. They see your strength and your ability to persevere though the road is difficult. They see a person that will never give up no matter what people throw at them. And because of that, you have all their respect and support. They see how hard you try to make a name for yourself and embody the best version of you. They see your charisma, your curiosity. Every aspect of you that makes you you, in simple words. They just love all of you and they want that for themselves.

Group 3

"I breathe calmly and easily. I am safe in this moment." Page of wands, The Star, Versatility, Speak Truth, I can only count on myself, Stand up for yourself, Hiddenite - Claim your happy place

Through this connection, you're slowly realizing that you were made to believe that in order to make it through and thrive, you should hide your light and pretend like you didn't exist. Especially for those of you who were assigned female at birth. The truth that this connection reflects back to you is that it is safe for you to exist, make noise and take room. In this case, I am picking up on rejection wounds. You are also learning that you don't have to carry your load all alone. That asking for help is more than fine but more importantly that you don't need others to be told who you should or should not be. For a lot of you, I feel like a parental figure was very controlling around you and didn't let you make your own decisions. They always tried to make you feel less than or lead you to believe that you couldn't succeed without them. You are healing those wounds through this connection. It also reflects back at you your own creative power and wisdom. It shows you that the truth of your destiny lies within you and not outside of you. It encourages you to speak louder and find your voice in life's chatter. To write your own story.

It reflects back to you how people around you trigger your foundations and create a space for you that is unstable, unsafe. How their own lack of discernment and self confidence is affecting you, your dynamics with the world and your power to manifest your desired reality. It shows you that you don't have to abide by the rules to be respected and recognized. Actually, you don't even need to be recognized by anyone except yourself. This connection shows you the value of your own beliefs and desires, and gives you the strength and determination to fight for them.

Extra - What do they see in you? | Ace of cups rx, The Explorer, Turn your tongue 7 times in your mouth before speaking, Sodalite - Deepen your intuition, "I seek out happy people who inspire me to be great."

They see a lot of curiosity and drive to become a better version of yourself. They also see your fighting spirit and rebellious tendencies. They see that you want to surround yourself with things and people that make you feel good. That you are constantly seeking to improve. That you have gathered a lot of wisdom through experience and you're able to use it whenever trouble arises. However, they also see that you've put up walls around your heart that a hard to see through. They are aware that those walls, built to protect yourself, also prevent you from finding true happiness. They see that you are not emotionally available right now and that is a fact they cannot ignore. This person understands your need to protect yourself and admires this aspect of you. But they are also worried that this defense mechanism will stand in the way of your connection. They see that they should have to be very careful around you if they want to be able to earn your trust.

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A portrait of your fated lover

Group 1

Cards : Agate - Find your solid ground, Knight of pentacles, Treat yourself eat what you want, Underworld, Newborn butterfly, Majestic stag " I honor my self worth by asking for what I want."

There's a predominance of Earth energy in this spread, especially Taurus energy. I also picked up on Venusian energy so Libra may be significant as well. This person's energy feels very feminine. I think it is safe to say that this person is a lover by nature. They are very caring, kind, generous on a daily basis but those qualities will be even more highlighted when they are with you. They have a very empathetic nature as well. Their sensitivity shows in the way they talk and in their gestures. They walk very slowly, their touch is deliberate and careful, their tone is reassuring and warm. They are very encouraging and supportive of others as well. I feel like your trope with this person would be friends to lovers. Connection to and through music seems very significant. Music could be part of their hobbies but it could also be their job. They need time to trust people but once their mind is made, this person does not back down until they get what they want. They have a steady and secure approach with relationships. They take the time to get to know the other and make sure that both partners are on the same wave length because they value stability and authenticity. When they are dating, they are in for the long run. They're not interested in short term connections. This person is family oriented and also career oriented so they would appreciate a partner that is respectful of their goals.

They definitely are a foody ! In the past, they may have struggled with their body image and physical health. They could have struggled with eating disorders. But now, this person is very conscious of what they eat. However, they do not deprive themselves of what makes them happy. They've worked really hard on their sense of worth and can now proudly say that they love themselves. They've gone through an important transformation in their life. This could have involved a physical glow up. But I feel like their mental state changed drastically as well, as I get the impression with the underworld card that they overcame a period of depression. With the energy of the stag, I feel like this person has stepped into their true power after many trials. I also pick up on the fact that they feel grateful for these challenges because they're aware of the role they played in their progress. They learned how to set their boundaries and ensure that their needs are met. They may have been neglected in past relationships.

They enjoy spending time alone in nature to get back to their center. If in the past they used to be surrounded by many people, they learned the hard way that sometimes being alone was better than being in bad company. This person now values their alone time and makes it a part of their routine. Speaking of routines, their energy feels quite organized and stable. This person likes for things to be explicit. They like to know in advance what their schedule will be, what people expect of them, what resources do they have and so on. Unpredictability may scare them. Physically, I feel like they're quite tall and fit. They put a lot of work into their health and their appearance. They dress aesthetically. Their physical traits are natural for the majority : they don't dye their hair, they likely do not have any piercing or tattoo, if they've had any surgery it isn't something that is appearant and it was likely done for health purposes only. They may not wear make up or if they do, they use very little amount of product. I get a very clean vibe from this group. Honestly, I feel like your person could be modeling for an ad. For some of you, that may be part of their job. Anyways, they are definitely good looking and I feel like you'll particularly enjoy looking at their face. They may have straight hair with bangs that hide their eyes. They may like to wear hoodies and beanies or caps a lot. I feel like their fashion style is rather genderless. What stands out the most is how clean and tidy it looks all together. They may go for a casual chic vibe more often.

This person has a very romantic vibe. They could mostly show affection through physical touch, acts of service, gift giving and quality time. Though they may be very artistic and don't have any difficulty communicating in their daily life, I feel like in an intimate setting they have a hard time finding their words. They may not say "I love you" very often but their actions will show you without a doubt that they do. They'll bring you your favorite food when you're feeling a bit down, surprise you when you least expect it because you deserve it, anticipate your needs, make significant gestures to help you on your journey. Their love feels slow and steady. They'll build a cocoon around you that you'll never want to leave because of how safe you feel in it. You'll never have to fear this person's reactions or wonder whether they're faking it. Everything they do is very genuine and deliberate. If they tell you they like you, they mean it. If they gift you something, they meant to. They don't have any second thought, any ulterior motive than to take care of you, nurture you and love you wholeheartedly.

Channeled song (s) : Jimin - Lie, BTS - Butterfly Extras : niche interests, book worm, ASMR enthusiast, workaholic, gamer, middle child, ESFP, ISTP, ENTJ

Group 2

Cards : 8 of pentacles, Chrysocolla - Be your own mama, I've got superpowers, The Observer, Sturdy crab, Eternal roots "Guidance is available to me now. I know that angels, ancestors and spirit guides are always at hand. I do not walk alone.

Okay, this is definitely my psychic / healer group. This person is a good mix of Earth and Water energy, especially Taurus, Scorpio and Cancer. This person has a hard time looking at themselves in the mirror. They struggle with their body image and they are not comfortable with showing their body. They are very modest and this could also be because of their cultural background. They are a hard worker to the point that when they're up to something they have a hard time stopping. They may stutter or have a hard time finding their words in public settings but in private they can be pretty elaborate. This person had to grow up very quickly and parent themselves. They could be working in a medical field or a position that requires them to care for others : teacher, paramedic, massage therapist, psychologist and so on. They use their hands a lot or they have the ability to provide healing through touch. They may also do a lot of manual activities as a hobby. They could have the ability to read into energies. This may or may not be a conscious thing. This person is possibly religious and/or interested in the occult.

They have a hard time trusting other people. They have a sturdy shell that not many have been able to see beyond. This person is alone most of the time. They have a hard time making connections. They may struggle with ASD. This person could be neurodivergent. They need a lot of quiet time to recharge. They could also struggle with mental health issues. This person has been through a lot, that's for sure. And despite all of that, they are the kindest and sweetest person you'll ever meet. In group settings, they tend to be like a mother. They cater to everyone's needs exept their own. They encourage and compliment others, make sure everyone's eaten and drunk their water, that everyone's had a proper sleep and is feeling good. But they forget themselves in the process. Physically, they have rather long hair. They can be quite curvy but I feel like what stands out the most about their appearance is that they hide behind a lot of clothing. They wear oversized clothes or clothes that aren't revealing. They may layer clothes a lot. If they wear skirts or dresses, those are quite long and flowy so that it doesn't stick to their body. Even in Summer, this person is covered up. This person masks a lot of their true self in public. This could be litteral in the sense that they wear an actual mask in public, maybe for health purposes for some. But it could also be metaphorical in the sense that they wear things or act in ways that is not relevant to who they are as a person. This is likely a defense mechanism and they may do so because they feel pressured. Of course, it could also mean that this person wears a veil in public.

In connections, I feel like they show their affection in all ways. They have no problem changing love languages to adapt to their partner's needs. This person feels like a chameleon a little. I think this could be related to their ability to mask certain aspects of themselves but also to their high levels of empathy. I am not given many details about their physique but more about their personality so it could also mean that looks don't matter to them. They also feel very balanced in their feminine and masculine. It could be possible that this person is gender neutral. I see a lot of green on the cards which relates to heart chakra energy. So this person has a lot of heart that they put into everything they do. They are a very genuine person that only wishes to love and be loved. Their shell isn't easy to crack but once you've earned their trust, you can be sure that they will treat you like royalty. They are 100% a giver and tend to be on the submissive side. In that sense, they feel a bit similar to group 1's person. Family is important to this person. They may wish to have a family of their own in the future. Like group 1's person, they are not into short term connections. They date for the long run. They look for a partner that can be understanding of their shadows and will not run away when things get difficult. This person is dealing with an abandonment wound. In past connections, they were mostly left out and never chosen. They may have been bullied as a child. This person is extremely loyal and dedicated to their lover. You will never have to doubt about this person's dedication and intentions.

Channeled song(s) : Mario theme, Naruto OST, Saliva - I walk alone (Dave Bautista entrance theme) Extras : words of affirmation, cultural differences, kinky 24/7, first born child, golden retriever vibes, ASMR enthusiast, ISTP, ENFJ

Group 3

Cards : Copper - Energize your whole world, Strength, Hierophant, Do what you love, Cunning fox, Forgotten arch "The more I honor my inner light the more I brighten the world. I choose to shine."

This group gives of fire and earth energy, especially Taurus, Leo and Sagittarius. There are two things that are striking about this person : their eyes and their voice. They are smart AF. If you were to debate with them, you wouldn't be able to win. They are very convincing people. And also very charming. They ooze confidence. This is someone that is very active physically, both for health purposes but also for fun. They are very passionate, bed time included. They are also very funny. They make a lot of snarky comments and sexual inuendos. They speak and type really fast. They cannot stay still. They have many interests and can pretty much do anything. They're an all rounder and a fast learner. They are very skilled and popular among their peers. They have core values that they would defend no matter what. They cannot stand injustice. This stems from past experiences, including romantic ones. They could have been cheated on by ex partners. This person may have been told quite frequently in their life that they were "too much", "too loud", "too noticeable". Which may have birthed a lot of resentment in this person as well as anger issues.

Physically they are quite bulky and impressive. They intimidate people just by their looks. There's something about them that's very warm. It could be because of their fashion style, their shining smile or their incredible charisma. They are intense. Not only because they are constantly on their guards and ready to fight but because their personality is complex and they have a lot of depth. This person may be religious. Or at least they're very traditional. If they define themselves as a man, they may be a bit of a machist. They have a very dominant energy. I feel like they're the type to believe in that alpha/beta/omega dynamic between people. And they want to be perceived as and embody that alpha energy. They come off as very masculine in their energy. So they may struggle with expressing their feminine side more. This person is likely to show affection through actions than words. They are definitely sensual and kinky. They have a lot of stamina. They are stubborn AF. But they're also incredibly uplifting and inspiring. This person is the type that would push their partner to be the best version of themselves and help them embrace their own light. I feel like they would challenge their partner, tease them a lot, bring out the more competitive side of them because they themselves are very competitive. They aren't afraid of depth and shadows so if their partner had any rocky past I feel like this person wouldn't mind. They're the "only matters the here and now" type.

This person has a very curious mind and I feel like that applies sexually. They may like to spice things up quite often. They may enjoy spicy food and boosting their stamina with certain herbs deemed as aphrodisiacs. They could believe in superstitions. Again, I get a very committed vibe from this group. If this person dates someone, they do it with the hope that it will lead to something long lasting. They are the most likely to commit very early on in relationships. They do not like to dwell on the past. I also feel like very early on this person will make you feel like royalty. They definitely pamper their partner and spoil them. Even though they may not be into PDA, I feel like this person will deliberately at times use physical touch to show others you are off limits. They definitely are the jealous and possessive type. They may be a bit rigid at first in connections and they need to be sure their partner is as serious as they are if they want to be able to release the need to control.

Channeled song(s) : The Final Countdown, Doodle - Changbin Extras : book worm, cultural differences, gift giving, kinky 24/7, drama queen/king, INTJ, ENTP, INTP, INFJ

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Who wants to match your freak ? (18+)

Minors do not interact.

Group 1

6 of pentacles, The Explorer, Don't care if you don't like me, Smart walrus, Herbal witch, Labradorite - Protect your magic, Today I consciously choose to think loving thoughts & take compassionate actions & bring forth peaceful energy

They could have various social media accounts that they post on but may not have many followers. However, they don't seem to care whether people like them or not. This is someone you could have met or that you will meet in either one of the following settings : work environment, community service, charity, social gathering, while traveling. They could own a pet dog. They are likely to be athletic and enjoy outdoors activities. They may come off as rough but they are in truth a big softy. This person may be into spiritual practices. They may like flowers. In terms of zodiac signs, I pick up on Virgo, Pisces and Sagittarius. Canada could be a significant place for your connection with this person.

The person we're speaking of has a very soft energy. I feel like they are more emotional than what they may portray in public. They could be interested in artistic forms of expression. I pick up on a labrador type personality when it comes to how they act in romantic relationships. They are likely to be a giver and more on the submissive side in general. Creating and cultivating an emotional bond is important for this person to feel safe and enjoy sex. Even though they have their own preferences, this person isn't afraid to explore other ideas for the sake of the relationship and the happiness and satisfaction of their partner. They are very loving and caring in the comfort of their home. I get the message that you may first consider them as your friend before being in a relationship with them. You may not suspect that this person has romantic feelings for you and is interested in having sex with you. I feel like their sexual side will even surprise you, as this person may have the habit of coming off as disinterested in such things. They may come from a different culture. I also pick up on age gaps. They also will likely fight for your attention. If this person feels threatened by another suitor, they'll likely become jealous and do everything in their power to ensure you only look at them. They tend to be rather possessive in connections. They may need a lot of reassurance from their partner, possibly because they were cheated on in the past. They tend to be a loner. They don't have many friends. This person shows love through quality time and acts of service mainly. They have a hard time expressing their love through words. They may be a bit avoidant, emotionally unavailable.

They enjoy spending time in nature and are quite reserved. We definitely have a lot of introverted types in this group. Their MBTI may be INFP or something similar. I get a very dreamy vibe from this group. This person will make you feel very protected and at ease. They'll appeal to your nurturing and emotional side. Sex with them will be very sweet and healing, romantic and emotionally fulfilling. You may overcome a lot of fears around intimacy with this person and work on your body image. Even if they may have a lot of kinks, I feel like this person will like to take their time with you so they don't scare you. Honestly, this feels very innocent so I wouldn't be surprised if many of you were having your first time with this person.

Extras : only child, niche interests, coffee addict, acts of service, dad's favorite, ENFP, cultural differences, workaholic, quality time

Group 2

Memories comfort us, knight of wands, Connect to heart, Complex octopus, Magnesite - Get your mind right, Forest fairy, My genuine desire to serve clears the path for me to step into my purpose.

In terms of zodiac signs I pick up on Sagittarius, Scorpio and Aquarius. This person could be someone from your past. They could be living at a distance from you. They may enjoy traveling and/or may come from a different culture. They are a very loyal person. They may own pets. They can work with children or want to have children in the future. This could be someone that you would describe as your "soulmate". They have a very charming energy. This person is incredibly smart, potentially more than the average person. They are very good with their words. This could be someone that tends to overthink and/or has struggled with mental health issues. You could have met or will meet this person in one of the following settings : learning something new, traveling, serving your country or your city, researching for a new career path. They could have green eyes.

When you are with this person, you may feel very energized and inspired. They may give you the impression that you've known each other for a very long time, even if you've barely met. Being with them will feel funny and will make you want to explore new horizons. You may share a lot of memories with this person. The chemistry with them will be off the charts. You won't have to second guess this person's interest for you because they will make it very obvious. I feel like they're the type to bluntly hit on the person they like, making them laugh and smile. They seem to be rather extroverted and sociable. They are not the type to shy away from a crowd, which feels completely different from group 1's energy. I feel like this person's physique would look very tense. They may be quite slim and tall, and look like they're restless. This person may walk a lot, pace around when they feel bored or when their mind is all over the place. They may struggle with ADHD. You will instantly feel attracted to them and won't be able to stay away from them for very long periods of time because their energy will feel very addictive to you. Sexually, this person seems to be more dominant. They'll show affection through words of affirmation, physical touch and quality time mainly. This person is likely to have many passions and skills. Some of which they may use to impress you and win your heart. They'll openly flirt with you very early on through text but also out loud because this person feels like they don't have time fussing over trivial things. When they want something or someone they go for it without thinking twice. They are very convincing and most importantly bold. They may be into quickies.

I feel like this person will be very communicative with you in general but especially in a sexual context. They may enjoy dirty talking and sexting. They may send you naughty pictures and texts and ask of you the same. They will be very clear on what they expect in the connection as well as what their own limits are. Communication seems to be very important to this person. They get jealous very easily. They are competitive and like to tease their partners a lot. They may play hard to get.

Extras : dad's favorite, only child, workaholic, ESFJ, strict household, acts of service, struggles with anxiety

Group 3

Epidote - Upgrade your version of you, 6 of wands, Movement, Game over, Cunning fox, Bard, Let me be still today and listen to the truth in silence

I get a very fiery and airy vibe from this person, I'm picking up on Leo, Sagittarius and Gemini energy mostly. They are very charismatic and may be in the public eye. If not, this person is appreciated by many and they seem like the kind of person that knows everyone. They are very active and their physique is athletic. They have a nice body and sense of style. This person is effortlessly charming. They could be into gaming. They love competition. They are witty and adaptable. They quickly pick up on social cues and they have a very creative way of solving problems. This person is into music. They may be a musician, a singer. They may enjoy writing as well. They are the type of person who's constantly improving. They get bored easily. They may have a bit of a bohemian vibe. This person feels rather masculine but their emotional side and artistic interests balance out that energy. Again, with this person I feel like they would make their interest pretty obvious to you. They don't seem to be the type to be shy or beat around the bush. This person feels quite straight forward and stubborn. They easily get things done. They may face a lot of envy from others. As a student, they probably were among the best in all subjects. As an adult now, they are very successful in their career. This is someone that follows the beat of their own drum. They have a pretty good awareness of their own self, they are ambitious and don't back down easily.

This person is more likely to pursue than be pursued. They are a bit of a switch in the bedroom but they would rather be on top. They may be fascinated by snakes or have a snake tattoo. They wear a lot of accessories, especially bracelets and watches.

Extras : ENFP, ESFJ, ESFP, ENTJ, INTJ, loves children, middle child, drama king/queen

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Situationship : what the heck is going on?

If you need clarity about a situationship, this reading is meant for you. We'll try to look at the energies on each person's side as well as spirit's advice.

Group 1 - Spirited away

Your energy | "I'm ready to go big, rise up and step into my power." / The Revolutionary, The Pillar rx, Drama free, 2 of swords, The Fool

You may have struggled with letting go within this connection quite a lot but now, you've reached a point where you are detached about the outcome. You could be feeling tired of running after this person only for things to remain the same. You may have decided to turn your back on them but a part of you may be hesitating. You're wanting to start anew and rid yourself of all the trouble and drama that's happened into your life ever since this person came in. You wish to go back to a calmer and brighter energy. You may even consider finding someone else because you feel like this situation isn't going anywhere. If not, you at least feel like you should move on and reclaim your energy to focus on yourself. If this energetic description matches the state you are currently in, this is a good indicator that you picked the right group. If not, you may consider choosing another group.

Their energy | "I honor my self worth by asking for what I want." / Say it out loud, Inhale exhale, The Universe, Get wild, The Sun, 9 of pentacles

I get two different vibes with this spread but this doesn't mean that both cannot be compatible. Firstly, this person is in a very good mindset in general. They are feeling very confident and motivated, especially when it comes to relationships. They are likely single and ready to mingle. However, I feel like right now they enjoy their own company and do not consider committing any time soon. Secondly, they seem to be in a playful energy, looking for more casual connections. They are currently feeling in a position of power. They know that they are attractive, they're aware of your interest and they feel pretty good about it. I feel like this person mostly cares about their own satisfaction and pleasure. They could be attracted to you, yes, but that attraction is mainly physical and serving their own interests. For some of you, this person could even be relieved that you are no longer giving them attention because it allows them to focus on themselves and others things and people that they find interest in.

Spirit's advice | Power, The Fool, Better alone than in bad company, "I communicate with ease and grace, people are willing to embrace what I have to say".

Spirit is encouraging you to follow your intuition by moving on from this person. It is clear that you don't seem to be happy with what is going on and endure the consequences alone. Their advice is to start anew without them in your life because their presence causes more harm than good. They invite you to be clear about your intentions moving on, should you meet someone else you are interested in. Very early on, your needs and expectations should be voiced out to this person so that your boundaries are clear and there is no misunderstanding. Also, this will ensure that you find someone that matches your expectations. Should a person not meet those, it is important that you love yourself enough to move on. They also encourage you to communicate with the person you were thinking of to express how you feel within this situation, as this can help you heal. You don't have to directly speak to them to be able to do so. You can write a letter to their higher self that you will dispose of later on or talk to them through visualization. Of course, directly confronting them can also be an option if you feel like it.

Group 2 - Kiki's delivery service

Your energy | Abuse of power, Self love, Knight of cups, I welcome healthy loving relationships

I feel like you've cut ties with this person and are currently focusing on yourself. You have felt like this person disrespected you and overstepped your boundaries by being unfair towards you, possibly leaving you in the dark or being intrusive or mean. You decided that you deserved better than that and stopped communicating with them. You are currently working hard to heal yourself and get back on track. I don't feel like you are dating anyone currently. You are busy giving yourself the love that this person wasn't willing to give you. You may be re evaluating relationships in your life because of your experience with this person. I don't feel like you have any regrets cutting ties with them. If this sounds like the state you are in right now, this is a good indicator that you picked the right group. If not, you can choose another.

Their energy | Surprise, 5 of wands, Underworld, I celebrate greatness in my life (rx)

This person clearly did not see that coming. Right now, they are going through a very difficult phase because they do not understand why you are gone. Maybe you cut ties without giving them an explanation or, if you did, they are still in denial of what happened. They regret that things didn't work out in their favor. This person is feeling pessimistic right now, if not depressed. Your loss has impacted them greatly. They feel like all the positivity in their life has been ripped away from them. Your decision was an utter shock to them. They may be trying to persuade you to change your decision. If not, I feel like they'll keep their distances but you won't leave their mind before quite some time. I get the message that they replay in their head what happened, thinking "what could have I done differently".

Spirit's advice | Share wisdom, White Numen, Party in your heart, "My friendships support me, nourish me and inspire me"

There could be a possibility for you to remain friends with this person but that is only up to you. I feel like many of you may not want to remain in contact with this person. Other than that, spirit encourages you to meet up with friends and family to clear your mind and raise your vibration. It is now time that you focus on your goals and aspirations, that you celebrate and have fun doing things that you love and make you feel good about yourself. You are also encouraged to ask for advice to your ancestors. If you're interested in dating again, spirit invites you to make new connections. There could be in your friend group one or several people that would be a better match for you.

Group 3 - Princess Mononoke

Your energy | 5 of swords, Get Creative, Spread the love, Compassion is my compass. I am willing to hold space for the experience of others.

You are confused about this person's motives and actions, you feel lost as to what to do but a part of you wants to have faith in the future when it comes to your connection with them. You are trying to remain optimistic and understanding of whatever this person is going through. You may have decided to give them a little space by being less present in their life but you don't want them to think that you don't care anymore. So you may be coming in and out of their life or having very casual interactions with them by being friendly, asking about how they're doing once in a while, sending them encouraging messages if they post something on their socials. You fear that if you don't show up, this person may forget about you. You feel the need to fight for their attention but a part of you also understands that they may not be in a state where they can embrace your love and compassion for them. If this resonates with you, then this is a good sign that you chose the right group. If not, you may want to pick another.

Their energy | Please leave a voicemail, 7 of wands, Transmute, All is well everything is working out for my highest good. (rx)

This person is going through a lot right now. They are really stressed and worried about various things that may or may not have a link with your connection. They are indeed not in an energy that can allow them to fully enjoy your connection and be present, give you the attention you hope for. I don't feel like they do not care about you or that they don't have feelings, it's just that there is too much on their mind right now. They don't have the time and energy to sit down and bask in their feelings for you, to fully understand what you mean to them. They may be feeling very vulnerable right now and not wanting you to see that aspect of them. Which could explain why they are being distant. It could be that when you try to reach out to them, they leave you on read or give you very short replies. Sometimes, they may appear as aggressive or cold towards you for no apparent reason.

Spirit's advice | Relieve the pressure, The Explorer, Queen of cups, My productivity stems from inspiration. When I focus on what brings me joy my tasks become effortless.

You are encouraged to take this time of no contact to look within and ask yourself what you want out of this connection but also to focus on other areas of your life. Spirit invites you to see things from a higher perspective by taking a breather. In your situation, forcing things will not help you. There are other elements that need your attention, possibly passions that you may have left aside. You are encouraged to explore other relationships if that is something you feel called to do. Or just generally give your mind something to focus on other than this person. A period of separation would be beneficial to your connection. Not only will this help you regain your confidence and energy but this will also give the other person the time and space they need to heal and solve whatever issue they are facing.

[just-a-ghost00]

Their unfiltered thoughts of you (possibly 18+)

Group 1

" Forbidden fruit want a bite | Take it on the chain, I know I like that"

You have rights, Stop doing so much, Turn your tongue 7 times in your mouth before speaking, Nature is your ally, I don't care to be perfect, I dare to declare my love, back of the deck Sleep on it

They see you trying so hard to resist whatever is going on between you but also to appear in a better light, to impress them and they wish you would stop doing that. This person feels like you are not being true to yourself and lying to yourself by resisting your "nature" so to speak. For some of you, looking at the song you picked, I get LGBTQIA2S+ coded references. They think that even though you pretend not to be interested or try to convince yourself that a connection with them isn't possible or isn't want you want, they are intimately convinced that your fantasies are other wise. You occupy this person's mind a lot. They dream of you frequently, they consciously and subconsciously think of you, they fantasize about you. They wonder why you are trying so hard to be someone that you are not (in their opinion). Whether this is the truth or not, this person is holding back onto what they're thinking because they feel like you wouldn't appreciate it. Also, they are getting frustrated over the fact that you are enduring a lot of pain and going through many unfair experiences yet, you don't seem to complain nor to stand for yourself. People around you are treating you poorly and this person is a witness of that and they think that you do not deserve what you're inflicting on yourself by staying in such an environment. They see your pain, your sadness, how uncomfortable it makes you feel and they wish you would speak up about it.

Another thing that is on this person's mind is how beautiful you are when you are not pretending. When you actually listen to your heart and do the things that feel right for you. When you are being in your natural element, letting your light shine through. This is when this person loves you the most and admires you the most and they wish you could see that about yourself. They are mad because it's like no matter how many times they express it, you don't seem to belive their genuine care or to accept their compliments. I pick up on someone thinking that they are not their person's type and trying to change things about themselves in the hopes that they would appear to their person more. And the other is like "why would you do that when I like you just as you are". Like maybe you're trying to dress a certain way or to do things you don't usually do or to refrain yourself of doing things you used to like just because you think this person will like you more. Another possible scenario would be if you're pursuing other people that don't seem to like you while ignoring this person who's genuinely in love with you though they may not be your usual type. And this person is like "I'm not perfect too, we all have our faults but that doesn't make us bad people and we are still worthy of love anyway". This person would like for you to understand that they don't need you to be perfect or to look a certain way for them to love you. They wish that you wouldn't compare yourself to others or speak badly of yourself. That you would look at yourself with loving lenses, just like they do. "What you think isn't beautiful in you is what I find the most attractive" is their message. This person loves you especially because of your giving nature and how understanding you can be. Your personality and good deeds matter more to them than your appearance. "You don't need to prove yourself."

I asked for more details because this really got me curious so I used my tarot deck to get further clarification. You got the Empress, the Hierophant, the 8 of pentacles, 9 of swords, 5 of cups, knight of wands and 2 of swords at the back of the deck. We have a confirmation that you are constantly on this person's mind to the point that they overthink about your connection. They have a lot of desire for you but more importantly they consider you as their equal and a suitable partner. They acknowledge your efforts, your beauty, your strength and resilience, your passion, your ambition. They really have a high opinion of you and I think it is safe to say that when this person thinks of you, they think of commitment. They are focused on you. They only have eyes for you, other people do not matter to them. They feel sad and hurt because you do not see yourself the way they see you, don't seem to understand how they feel about you. They feel disconnected from you in a way because of that. This person specifically likes your hair, your eyes and your chest when it comes to your appearance. They think you are very feminine and caring. They think you would make a good parent. Their worry for you is stronger than their attraction. When they think of you at night, trying to get into the feeling and connect with you, their fantasies are troubled with a myriad of questions and doubt, worries. More than anything they fear for your health and safety. I feel like for many of you this is a long distance connection. They wish they could be by your side and provide you with the love and support you need. They want to care for you and make you feel like you are on top of the world because they think you deserve it. They want to pamper and spoil you, especially if they know you've been through a rough time.

Group 2

"Said she want more than a tip | I ain't talkin' 'bout guidance"

It's not a big deal, I don't understand yet I'm a genius, Just fuck it, Yes! , I am always a child, Do not disturb regeneration in progess, The die is cast

I'm picking up on cultural and possibly religious differences, language barrier that are interfering in your connection. Based on the circumstances it would seem like you and this person would not match or your connection wouldn't work out however this person does not care. Your differences don't matter to them because they are the reason why they were drawn to you in the first place. In certain instances, this person is thrown off by you and how different you are but they don't want that to stand in the way. So even if they don't understand all of you and have a hard time grasping your essence, they still like you and wish to be closer to you. You are not your person's usual type or you do not fit the criteria their family set as to who they should marry. This person wants to say "I don't give a damn about others' opinion of you", "I don't care if my parents don't approve of you", "I don't care if people are gossiping about our connection", " I am not ashamed of being seen with you", " I am not afraid of your light". They are puzzled by you but they just love the feeling and keep seeing you through these colored glasses because you just put sparkle in their eyes. They feel very happy and liberated with you. Being in your presence is very healing for their inner child. This person thinks that they would risk it all for you because they know you're worth it, even though they can't predict everything and control the outcome of this connection. They want to believe in magic, want to believe that it's possible. They want to be free of judgments and just let go of the need to control, to fully embrace their feelings and emotions. They think of diving deeper into this connection and surrendering to your energy, leaving it up to fate because they just feel so good and they don't want to miss on the opportunity of being happy and exepriencing something wonderful. Again, I get LGBTQIA2S+ coded messages from this spread. This person feels like they could come out of their shell and show their true colors thanks to you. They want you to be your true self with them and they wish to do the same with you.

I asked for further messages by shuffling my tarot deck. You got the 10 of swords, Strength, page of cups, 10 of pentacles, Fool, 7 of cups and 4 of pentacles at the back of the deck. They think that you've been through so much pain and hardships to get where you are and they acknowledge your hard work and dedication. They understand your fears and need for space but they wish you would open your heart to them a little more. While they may have been drawn to your rough edges at first, this person is concerned about your well being. They wish that they could ease your pain and soften your heart, help you seeing relationships under a better light. This person wants to prove you that you can trust them and believe in love again. They want to be the person that shows you that romance isn't a lost cause and still exists. They see how hard you are working to build yourself up again and reclaim your power and not only do they admire you but they are also grateful for your resilience and determination to keep fighting for yourself. They think that you are brave and precious and should be protected at all costs. This person gets turned on by your bratty nature and your resistance towards them. They are actually fond of the way you push them away because they understand that it is a defense mechanism and that in reality you do not wish to harm them. They are also touched by your grace and love for life though you've faced many challenges in your life. However, they feel like you are hiding a lot from them and it saddens them. They wish you would show them all of you, even the parts you are insecure about. They find you beautiful and they wish to embrace your scars and kiss your tears away. This person's energy towards you is so loving and caring. It's like they're whispering "let me love you", "it will be okay". They could be wanting to use physical contact as a way to relieve you from your stress and worries, to comfort you when you are feeling down.

Group 3

"I will show you heaven | I'm not the devil "

There's a common theme here in all groups about not being comfortable enough to show your true self to others. The person on your mind is aware that you are not happy where you're at right now and that you are trying to hide from them the true you. Which they do not understand. This person is aware that you are not feeling your best, afraid of being hurt or manipulated or left out in the cold, that you have a lot of doubts and need to heal a lot of wounds. Yet, they also don't understand why though you are also very aware of those things your actions don't seem to align with your desire to move on. They wish to say "why do you put yourself through so much struggle", "you don't have to be alone in this", "things could be different if you took a step aside". This person wishes that you understood that their intentions are far from hurting you and that they want you to go at your own pace. That it's okay to feel uncomfortable at times and that it doesn't make you a bad person in their eyes. They see that you isolate yourself willingly instead of asking for help. Which they don't get because they think you deserve better. They wish that you would share your worries with them, even though it makes you uncomfortable, rather than keeping everything to yourself. They want you to know that the real you is safe with them. That they would never judge you and that they want to know the real you. That they are willing to be patient and help you, should you ask for it. This person doesn't want you to hold back when you are communicating with them. They want to stress that they do not hold you accountable for the things you might have phrased in an odd way because you didn't know how to convey your feelings. They wish to say "I got your message, I get your point and I am not hurt nor mad". They want to reassure you that you didn't do anything wrong. They wish that you would talk to them more about how you feel, how your day went, what troubled you or upset you. That you would be kinder to yourself, especially when you're feeling insecure. "I don't want you to shy away from me under the excuse of not wanting to burden me or disturb me in my tasks", "I can always make time for you even if I'm busy", "your feelings and opinions matter", "I care about how you feel and what you have to say", "don't think that I do not see you nor hear you". Sometimes, they do not understand why you're upset or sad and since they cannot read your mind, they would like you to share with them why because they do not see and experience things the same way you do.

I asked for clarification with my tarot deck. You got Queen of cups rx, King of pentacles, Moon, 3 of swords, 6 of wands, 4 of swords, Strength at the back of the deck. The complexity of your emotions, your stubborn attitude and cold exterior are some of the reasons why this person is touched by you and drawn to you. They think that you mask your pain and discomfort behind indifference or drowning yourself in work. That there are a lot of things about you that you hide and do not show to others because you fear intimacy. They think that you would be so much more succesful if you allowed yourself to express and feel your emotions. This person admires your independance and masculine energy. You come off as very bold and confident in their eyes. They look up to you a lot. They like your mystery and your maturity. You are hard to control and be tamed. You're a free spirit. This person likes the fact that you do not mindlessly give yourself over to them. They are feeling challenged by you. But at the same time it frustrates them because they feel like you're putting them at a distance. This person wants to create an emotional connection with you and they feel like you do not want to let them in. They find it hard to get past your defenses. They wish you would lower your guard.

[just-a-ghost00]

Things about you that turn them on and other kinky stuff (18+)

Minors do not interact.

Group 1

Imagine, Just the present moment counts, Dopamine ? Dopa-go, Drama free, The Warrior, Compassion, The Sage, Movement

For this group, I am getting Scorpio, Taurus, Aries and Sagittarius energy. One thing that turns them on is your spontaneous nature. You seem to be the type of person that acts first and thinks later. They also like your creative side. These are qualities that they imagine you also use in an intimate setting. This person thinks that these aspects of your personality are beneficial to your sexuality, because it enables for fun and stress free interactions. They also get turned on by your curiosity, your boldness, your ambition. They like the fact that you do not give in easily. To this person, you're a challenge that they would love to win over. You're a free spirit. You like to learn and explore. You're not afraid of trying new things, voicing out your opinions, telling people off when they cross the line. Because of that, they feel like they've met their match. I'm hearing "is somebody gonna match my freak" and I feel like this person feels positive that you would rise up to the challenge. They get turned on by a person that resists them, leads them to question themselves and push beyond their own limits. They also like your brains. They are likely sapiosexual and get turned on by the way you talk, the knowledge you have. They love your maturity. If you happen to be older than them, bonus points for you. If not, you may catch their eye even more if you are knowledgeable about something they're interested into, if you have goals and passions you are working hard on.

If you're a sports enthusiast, they definitely appreciate that and enjoy looking at your body. When it comes to physical traits, they find you incredibly sensual. Regardless of your body type or your gender, they definitely get turned on by your physique. You seem to be their type physically or you look like you would compliment them well in bed. They like that you are very giving and empathetic. They could have a breeding kink or fantasize about conceiving a child. They may view you as someone that is naturally sensual because of who you are as a person. Specifically, they may consider you to be more attractive because of your differences. So if you come from a different culture, if you have a very different lifestyle and personality, they are more likely to get turned on by you. Your independance and uniqueness are the main reasons why they would be attracted to you and the more you cultivate that, the more they'll fall for you.

When it comes to their kinks, you got the 8 of pentacles, 2 of pentacles, knight of cups. They could fantasize about having intercourse in a work setting. They enjoy having to work hard or making you work hard for their attention. They definitely could be into orgasm denial. They may fantasize about having an affair at work, juggling between their private life and your connection. They imagine getting drunk with you then going down on you, maybe going to dinner before hand to create a romantic atmosphere. They imagine how their body fluids would look on your body. Eye contact plays a role in their kinks as well. They may enjoy seeing their partner's eyes get a bit glossy because of how good they feel. They could imagine you whimpering, fantasize about you crying because of overstimulation. They also fantasize about healing you and helping you relax after work by having sex with them.

Group 2

I'm not okay, guilt free, let's be crazy, treat yourself eat whatever you want, the explorer rx, the revolutionary, reflect, get curious

With all these food references, I wouldn't be surprised if this person's main kink is oral. They may fantasize about using food in the bedroom or having intercourse in the kitchen. When it comes to things about you that turn them on, they like your self indulgence. They get turned on by the fact that you value yourself a lot and don't pay attention to people's opinion. You just do what you like and have fun, take as much pleasure as you can. You just enjoy life at the fullest and they love that. They love to see you eating. They get turned on by your facial expressions and your mouth. They probably imagine it on their body parts. They also get turned on by your innocence and your emotions in general. They like that you are such an open book. They think it's cute and tempting. Especially if you are younger than them. They love your body. Especially your navel area and below, your back, your ass. They love looking into your eyes and they get turned on when your eyes sparkle or look lost. They love when you pout. They get turned on by your passion and your childlike enthusiasm about the simple things in life. They get turned on by how similar you are. They like to see your reflection in mirrors. They like to look at your pictures, especially if that is something you don't do often. You seem to be someone very shy and reserved however your bold side tends to show more when you're around them, which is something they are very fond of. They love your sense of humor and your quirky side.

They definitely think about eating you out, especially if you’ve been feeling a little down lately. This person wants to help you forget about your troubles by giving in to temptation with you. They get turned on when they see you being free and letting go of the need to control, showing your true nature without fear of judgment. When you are being unhinged and confident, honest about your feelings and desires, unashamed of your choices. If you’ve talked about sex with this person, they definitely admire how easily you can talk about such subjects despite being shy or reserved. It’s like, they expect you to be this sweet innocent soul that is clueless about what is going on but you turn out to be a fierce and cunning individual. Wolf in sheep’s clothing I hear. They love your duality. This is definitely something that gets them going. They think it adds a little extra spice to the mix. They get excited even more because they know they are probably the only person that can see that side of you.

When it comes to their kinks you got 3 of pentacles, High Priestess and Hermit. If you're a religious person, they fantasize about having sex with you before commitment. Similarily to group 1, they may fantasize about having an affair in a work setting. They fantasize about isolating themselves and keeping you to themselves, keeping your connection private. For some of you, this person could be influential, have some sort of public presence. Most of their fantasies happen at night time. Just imagining how your body looks like is their biggest kink and fantasy. I feel like many of you could be very modest or struggle with your body image. I feel like for many of you, you probably never had any sexual interaction with this person in particular. So they don't know what to expect and they spend a lot of time imagining how your first time could be. They have a thing for butt cheeks.

Group 3

I deserve abundance, It's not the end just the beginning, I don't care about being perfect, spread the love, Take risk, Self love, Get creative, Withdraw

They really love how well you take care of yourself and prioritize your needs. This person is attracted to your looks of course but mostly to your personality because you are fierce and independant. You're very outspoken and strong minded, you have strong boundaries and respect yourself a lot. You take care of your body, possibly work out a lot, you pamper yourself and pay attention to your image. But you also nurture your mind and soul. There is a joyful innocence to you that touches this person's soul. They love your perseverance, your genuine care for people. They get turned on by the complexity of your being, the level of audacity and strength that you have. It is very simple : you do not need this person. And because of that, they find you a hundred times more attractive. You are very aware of your seductive power and use it wisely. You know when to push and pull and you do so with so much grace that this person can't help but to be hypnotized by you. They love your curves, especially your hips. They also get turned on because of your sense of fashion. They find that the way you dress is aesthetically pleasing and very well planned. You seem to be quite straight forward and proactive when it comes to relationships and sexuality. This daring side is also very attractive in their eyes. Your energy feels a little similar to group 2 but the difference seems to be in the fact that they get to see your bold side a bit more than your vulnerable side. You're like a sheep in wolf's clothing. This person is aware that your rough side can be a bit of a façade, which they find endearing. They like that you confront them and are smart enough to keep your distances, to clearly express your limits. They know that you are smart and can see through them. They admire those qualities. There's a little foxy vibe to your attitude that they think is quite charming, refreshing.

When it comes to their kinks you got Queen of pentacles, Death and The Star. My oh my are they kinky. This person has the heaviest energy when it comes to sex. They are the most likely to be interested in BDSM. The imagery on the cards tells me that breeding and conceiving a child are heavily on their mind. They also have a voyeurism kink. They like to watch but they also like to be watched. This person could enjoy taking pictures and videos to save for later. They definitely enjoy watching their partner touching themselves. They’re into body fluids as well. They could enjoy choking. They’re very physical. Touch is very important to them. They would tease a lot, grab a lot. They can fantasise about spanking you, biting you. Spoiling you before and after they go down on you. This person has power dynamic kinks and is likely to worship their partner in bed. I feel though like they enjoy being in a position of power more than they enjoy being on the receiving end.

[just-a-ghost00]

Your spiritual and creative stamina seems out of this world! 🤯 I'm a Tarot reader myself, but I honestly find reading for multiple group's energies & multiple decks (even more than 3-6 cards within the same deck) to feel exhausting sometimes. I tend to stick to 1-on-1 and simpler spreads which is not bad, but I want to improve my stamina. How do you honestly do it? Your output (and enjoyment) of doing these PACs is honestly admirable & inspiring. 🥰

Hello. First of all thank you so much. To be completely honest with you, I have no idea how I do it either 😂 Yes, it is draining. It’s just that certain days I feel really energetic and have a lot of messages I pick up on so I try to do as many readings as I can because I know I wonˋt be in the same energy later.

[just-a-ghost00]

Upcoming readings

Things about you that turn them on and other kinky stuff - Monday January 13

Their unfiltered thoughts of you - Thursday January 16

Situationship : what the heck is going on - Sunday January 19

Who wants to match your freak? - Wednesday January 22

A portrait of your secret admirer - to be scheduled

A portrait of your fated lover - to be scheduled

[just-a-ghost00]

Signs they are flirting with you

This reading is meant for you if you are wondering about a crush / situationship 's energy towards you. If questions like "Are they being friendly or is there more?" ever cross your mind, this is your reading. Please keep in mind that this is a collective reading, so it may not 100% resonate with you. The decks used are the following : I don't care oracle, Threads of fate oracle, Spirit Junkie oracle & White Numen tarot.

Group 1

Yes ! , Dopamine? Dopa-go! , Nature is your ally, Don't do this today if you don't want to, King of swords, 2 of swords, King of cups, Boundaries rx, The Weaver, Speak truth "Every cell in my body is conscious and communicates with each positive thought I have." | "I can't control the world but I can control how I choose to perceive it."

They are known to be a perfect introvert by their peers, family and friends. They value their own peace of mind, private space and security above anything else. This is someone that, on a daily basis, do not appreciate people overstepping their boundaries or being intrusive and that will not hesitate to tell people off. I wouldn't be surprised if many people around them think that they are rough around the edges or view them as a mean person. However, if they come across a person they are interested in, this person will definitely come out of their shell.

When they like someone, this person becomes an extrovert. They tend to show off and act a bit impulsively. They go out of their way to make the person feel at ease and put themselves forward. They want to impress with their looks, their skills, the best aspects of their personality. So they will do their best in showing their most vulnerable sides because as much as they want to impress, they value authenticity. Another giveaway is their way of speaking. When they are interested in someone, their tone gets softer, they show more vulnerability and emotion, they tend to encourage and compliment the person when they wouldn't do that with other people. In the beginning stages, they may vary between being sarcastic and very teasing to being very caring and encouraging. Eitheir way, communication seems to be at the heart of this person's love language. In the presence of a person they love, they will tend to see the brighter side of things and strive to be a better person. They will do their best in overcoming their fears and pushing the limits of their boundaries for the sake of the person they love. They are likely to compromise and adapt to the other person's needs because they care about the other's well being in the connection.

If they are interested in you and trying to flirt with you, they are likely to reveal to you aspects of themselves they don't show others. They could share with you their passions, talk about their past, reveal to you their fears or dreams. They will show that they care by creating space for you in their bubble. They will want to make you a part of their daily life in a way or another, even if it may scare them or make them uncomfortable. They may tend to look at you a lot and compliment you about your looks. They may watch your socials frequently. They may show signs of possessiveness / jealousy in group settings by trying to keep your attention on them, being tense / colder when someone is interfering in your conversations, for instance. They may attempt to make you laugh and smile by being quirky or daring. They may also want to isolate with you by suggesting activities that happen in a calmer / more intimate environment such as going to the theater, having a walk in nature or just staying at their place to play games or chill out.

If you're in a long distance connection and maybe met in a group setting, this person could be trying to message you in private conversations.

Group 2

8 of pentacles, ace of cups, Chariot, The Observer, Nature, Universe rx, Surprise! , Party in your heart, No obligation to take advice from others, I deserve abundance " I am willing to see my sameness with others. This opens my awareness to oneness." " Owning my power inspires others to do the same. I am not afraid to shine."

This person is naturally very confident and outgoing. When they are interested into someone, they try to share that mindset and positivity with the other person. They will show their interest first by making significant gestures to make the connection progress. For instance, they may give thoughtful gifts based on what they know of the person, make arrangements for them. They will take interest in the things that you like so that you have more common ground and will want to get you to do the same. This person is definitely the type to match their outfit to that of their partner or have private jokes, set each other's faces as their phone background, having playlists that remind them of their person. Very early on, if they know that they like the person and there is a possibility for it to be reciprocated, they will work very hard to take things to the next level. If you're living at a distance, they'll do everything to get closer to you, both metaphorically and physically. They'll make a lot of research to ensure they do the right thing. It could be them learning about your love language or actually trying to speak your language if you come from different cultures, learning about specific health topics because they know it could help you.

Another sign is that they'll do their best in planning activities that you can enjoy together and that will make you feel good about yourself. They'll want you to be your natural self with them so they'll choose things that won't necessarily require you to wear your newest outfit and up your makeup game. They'll implicitely and / or explicitely get you to understand that you don't have to be hard on yourself when you are with them. They'll take a lot of mental notes about things you like, things that make you uncomfortable so that they can give you the best experience. And you'll very quickly notice the change. This person seems to be very obvious when they are interested in a person because of their natural extroverted self. Of course, they're the type to show off more than usual but also to be a model by nudging you to be more vulnerable very naturally. In group settings, they may be the first to talk about personal subjects to make you feel at ease, the first to do an activity so you don't have to stress about it. They may voluntarily make mistakes, act silly so you don't feel alone. If someone is being rude to you, trying to make you feel uncomfortable or intimidate you, if someone is making an ambiguous comment or giving you unsollicited advice, this person is likely to smartly interfere in your favor. They'll give you a lot of attention, make sure you feel included and cared for.

I feel like this person may have a group of friends that tend to be nosy about their relationships. If they like you, this person will always choose you, no matter others' opinion of you. So if you notice that they seem to interact with their usual friends a little less and they give you more time and space, it can also be a sign of their interest.

Group 3

"Every cell in my body is conscious and communicates with each positive thought I have." | "I can forgive people quickly, release resentment and set myself free." Hierophant, 3 of cups, 5 of swords, Speak Truth, Versatility, Power, I'm not okay, No justification needed, You're here, Just the present moment counts

This person is naturally very sensitive and caring. They tend to be friendly quite easily but they still have a bit of shyness in them. If this person is interested in you, you will notice very quickly that you are at the center of their attention. They'll listen to you and will want you to share with them your worries, hopes and ideas. They'll talk to you a lot about everything and anything, just to be able to be there for you and spend time with you. You won't have to justify whatever you're going through or fight for their attention. You won't have to worry about whether they can understand you or not because even if they don't, they'll show a lot of understanding. This person will tell you things like "you don't have to apologize", "you don't have to give me a reason why you were late or why you didn't answer my message". You won't have to pretend being someone else with them. When they're with you, they may look sad or conflicted, like an inner battle is going on (likely them fighting the urge to hug or kiss you on the spot). They'll do everything for you to feel safe with them and protected. They'll try to be your best friend first. To be the person you come to when you need help or comfort. They may tend to get shy around you. When they are with you, you will be the only thing that matters. They won't accept any interference. They'll likely turn off their phone or put it on airplane mode. They'll pay attention to everything you say, ask questions, give you opportunities to elaborate.

This person will do everything they can not to see you in group settings because they want you all to themselves. If you happen to be in a group setting, they'll retract and remain neutral. They may even pretend to be disinterested in you. They'll show affection in private settings only. If they see you with someone else, they'll look upset. They may argue with you, tease you verbally a lot to get reactions out of you. This person may hit on you quite strongly sometimes, especially if they're feeling bold because someone else is showing interest in you or maybe if they're a little drunk. Their body will show what they fail to convey. You could notice their body getting tense, a certain nervousness in their posture, their hands may look like they're trembling. They could wet their lips a lot, bite them. They could cross their legs to cover for the fact they're turned on. They may avoid your gaze.

[just-a-ghost00]

Yes, I’m very curious! (Direct to your Page’s Title)

Are you doing any readings at the moment? Free and paid ones? I am curious about the person I’ll be with in the future, so FS tarot reading it’d be. Just read yours and I picked up a number intuitively. The way you read is so full of present and detailed information that I’d like to get an insight from you. Thanks.

I don’t do personal readings as of now.

[just-a-ghost00]

Hello can you do more pacs about crushes and people you are not in relationship with but have some one in minds or situationships and also admirers ? Your work is lovely 🌹🏵️

Hello friend ! I am taking your suggestion into account. Currently I am busy with work so I don’t have as much time to post. But when I have the opportunity I’ll try to post some.

[just-a-ghost00]

Who is your future spouse?

I'll be trying to get significant details about your spouse using 3 different decks. I'm not asking any specific question about looks or personality but rather just letting spirit guide us towards any detail they deem worthy of our attention. As this is a general reading, you may not resonate with every single detail but the general picture or overall vibe may speak to you to some level. For once, I decided to do 4 groups instead of 3.

Group 1

"I see grace and possibility in all of life's challenges." "There's no such thing as mistakes. Everything happens in divine order. I am being guided to learn and grow." "I accept the gifts I've been given as a high service to the world."

White Numen tarot : Queen of cups, 5 of swords, The Fool, knight of pentacles, 6 of cups

I don't care oracle : Take care of yourself, Close your curtains close your eyes sleep, Got a drink? Cheers! , Box with the pillow

Starting with the image you picked, I'm getting a strong message of using music and art in general as a form of escapism but also a mean of harmless self expression. Your FS may be struggling with a sense of loneliness that they are fighting off through a strong interest in any form of artistic expression. The bunny makes me think of innocence and creativity. The fact that it's a plushy makes me think of childhood and frailty. This passion that they have is something that stems from childhood and that has allowed them to hold on through hard times. I can't help but to be reminded of Stray Kids Lee Know when I look at this image. So maybe your FS has a similar personality or background to Lee Know's. Your FS could be a Kpop enthusiast. They could be an artist or enjoy doing art as their hobby. They are a rather sensitive and soft individual. They have a very comforting presence. There's a sadness to them that feels a little bittersweet.

They've been through a lot, not only romantic wise but also just on a personal level. Despite everything they've been through, they still have a lot of faith in the Universe and in mankind. With time, they've chosen to see their struggles as opportunities for growth and to cherish every experience that they get to live, even though some of them are uncomfortable because they're aware that in everything lies a blessing in disguise. They are very spiritual and they have a strong mindset gained through years of pain and struggle. They're an old soul and chances are that they have a lot of interesting stories to tell about their past.

Speaking of the past, you may share several past lives with this person. If you don't believe in this concept, you just may feel like you've known this person before when you've just barely met because they are so genuine and empathetic that it feels like they know you at your very core. For some of you, they could be a childhood friend. This person could also work with children or just be very popular with babies and kids. Another thing I am picking up on is that though this person is very mature and has gone through a lot, they look very innocent and youthful. Many people underestimate this person's age because of how childlike they may appear physically. Like, their skin is very soft and supple, they have no grey hair nor do they have wrinkles, they may be quite petite compared to other people of their age.

They've struggled with their mental health quite a lot. They're constantly thinking and bickering with their own self. They may be neurodivergent or struggle with a form of mental disorder. Another thing is that they have a very striking effect on people because they're hard to grasp. Their personality and the way they show up is so unique that they can't be categorized, "put into a box". This person just takes pride in not fitting, not conforming to any standard or norm. They don't like to be trapped in outdated perceptions of life and society. They are very protective of their freedom of expression. So chances are they have a very particular sense of style, a very specific way of expressing themselves in public, a particular posture that makes them stand out from other people. Like for example, they're the only person in their family that doesn't conform to gender norms. Actually I feel like the notion of gender isn't relevent to this person. However, they appear as quite feminine in their energy.

One thing that is very striking about them is how detached about material life they are. They do not care about possessions, wealth. This person is very generous and humble. They could give away their own clothes on a whim just to help someone else, buy a random person a meal just for the sake of making a good deed. They do random acts of kindness, not just with people they know but with anyone they come across. They give to charities, they leave food on the street for the homeless or for stray animals,they share important information on their socials in case it may be useful to someone. They're just really selfless. The reason behind that is because this person comes from a rather "poor" background. They know what it's like to be lacking something and they believe that any good deed done will come back to them. They have this mentality of not doing to others what they wouldn't appreciate themselves. So they're definitely not the kind to look down on other people or to hate on others.

This generosity can also be shown in their emotions and how they express themselves. They do not shy away from telling people they love them. They are very demonstrative and openly communicate their feelings, even though it makes them vulnerable. They wear their heart on their sleeve. They're incapable of lying. In connections, this person pours their heart out and they give their all. They're incredibly loving, kind, compassionate and patient. They show a lot of empathy and understanding towards others but they tend to be extremely harsh on themselves.

They struggle with a lot of anger issues as well as overthinking. They tend to burn themselves out thinking and worrying about others, helping other people to the detriment of their own health. They're in desperate need of love and rest and they have a hard time slowing down to focus on themselves. This person is not used to receiving and giving themselves the love that they willingly and selflessly give to others.

They're a cat lover. They may or may not own a pet cat. They have a cat like personality. They're more of an introvert but they tend to put on an extrovert façade to please others, especially their family and friends.

This person can be quite easily sociable with people however there aren't many people that they feel close to. In social settings, they tend to stay aside and only interact with the crowd here and there, out of politeness. They may struggle with the feeling of not belonging. They may feel like they do not fit in because of their unique sense of self and their strong morals. Again, I get strong neurodivergent vibes from this person but I also get a theme of cultural differences. This person may have grown in an environment where only a specific demographic was represented and they were the only source of diversity. Now that could mean all kinds of things but to give you an example maybe they grew up in a city where most people had fair skin and they were the only child with a different skin color. Or like maybe when they were a kid they were the only boy/girl when all the other kids were of the opposite biological sex.

Speaking of cultural differences, at the beginning of your reading, I had the impression that they lived in a different country than yours and that feeling is further confirmed with the spread. They could possibly have a similar background to yours but the only difference is that they grew up in a different setting. Like for instance, imagine two people that are both of European descent but one of them grew up in Spain while the other spent on the other side of the globe for some reason. Another thing I was picking up on was two people being born from two different ethnicities. So I feel like you and your future spouse will have a lot in common in the sense that you may have been through similar hardships in your life though you come from completely different areas of the globe. You could bond over things like : being the "black sheep" of the family, being the "generational curse breaker", being the "weird child" or the "rebellious child", being bullied in school because of your looks/sexual preferences/culture/religion or any form of difference that made you stand out, feeling like you don't belong, wanting to be someone else or somewhere else, feeling like you're not from this planet, having a weird interest in astrology and space facts, believing in ghosts and/or UFOs.

Group 2

"I communicate with ease and grace. People are willing to embrace what I have to say." "I welcome healthy, loving relationships." "I celebrate my progress. Awareness, not perfection, is the goal."

White Numen tarot : The Magician, 8 of wands, Queen of cups, King of wands, Ace of cups

I don't care oracle : Sorry not sorry, Spread the love, Yes! , Smile smile more even more!, You are not your emotions

This person is very chatty and an excellent communicator. They have a very eloquent speech and a beautiful voice that may be envied by many. They enjoy singing and whistling. They can easily talk anyone through anything. They have a bit of a snake charmer vibe. They're a smooth talker and many times got out of trouble because of that. They have a fascination for birds and/or their nickname revolves around a bird. I'm thinking of Woody Woodpecker, Tweety, Daffy and Donald Duck, Zazu, Iago. Like either that or they are named after a bird or compared to a specific bird. Specifically, there are peacock feathers depicted on the relationships card from the Spirit Junkie oracle. So peacocks could be relevant to this connection somehow. Either they get compared to a peacock because they tend to show off around potential partners or because they have a really flamboyant nature and attidude. They also could be compared to parots or phoenix.

This person exudes a lot of masculine energy. They may be depicted by other people as a playboy/playgirl, as a macho if they're perceived as a man or if they're perceived as a woman their feminism may not be well perceived by their peers. I feel like they get a lot of backlash from others and get wrongly accused of being so many things because of how unapologetically themselves they are. This person has a lot of self confidence and they have strong values. They draw a lot of attention but also a lot of envy and jealousy. They may be in the public eye.

They are extremely harsh with themselves and have perfectionist tendencies. They're a workaholic. They're extremely prideful and take a lot of pride in their accomplishments, especially on a professional level. They are the type to never regret a choice they make, even though people do not share their opinion on the matter because once they've set their mind on something it is very hard for them to change their perspective. They are incredibly stubborn but also incredibly resilient.

They are very popular and sociable, however they just don't let anybody in their close circle. This person has strong boundaries and they do not hold their tongue. They've put themselves in trouble more times than they can count because of their blunt approach. People around them may say that they are haughty or that they have no respect for their elders, that they do not take criticism well or that they are full of themselves. But the truth is this person is just very protective of their own space and they were raised in a background that taught them to always speak their mind when something doesn't feel right. They cannot stand injustice and you can be sure that this person will always stand up for what is right, no matter their differences with the people involved.

They have climbed the ladders of society through their hard work. They "came from nothing" and "became somebody" because of how dedicated they were to their craft. This earned them a lot of respect but also a lot of advantages and money. This person is now wealthy and leaving very comfortably but this wasn't the case when they were a child. They became so succesful that they may now be their own boss. They earned enough money to be able to open their own business or work independantly. If this person is an artist for instance, they fund their own work with their own money. They may own their own label or they're just a solo artist because they've gained enough of an audience and enough resources to be able to do so. This is just one example among many. They could be working freelance on different projects or own a brand of some sort. It could be anything really. If not that, then they have a higher status within their work environment compared to when they started.

For most of you, I feel like your FS is older than you. There's a stark contrast between you not only because of your age but also because of your maturity and life experience. I feel like you would be very intimidated by this person at first but also, because of everything I mentioned before, you may start off with a bad impression of them because of how other people depict them or gossip you may have heard. You could start off as rivals or "ennemies" so to speak. Also, I get the feeling that when you first meet them, you will think that they are disinterested in you or that they don't like you.

Despite their intimidating façade, this person is actually incredibly kind and loving. They are very sweet and sensitive, but they don't show that aspect of themselves to a lot of people. They have huge trust issues and they struggle with intimacy. They are hyper independant and they tend to repress their emotions, especially their sadness, through humor. They're the type of person that will act like a clown and make jokes to distract themselves and others from the fact that they are not okay. If you talk with this person and start to get deep by bringing up intimate subjects, they are likely to swiftly change the subject or disguise the truth by joking around. They may exagerate certain traits to make themselves appear stronger or cooler and take away the vulnerable aspects of the story. Let's say this person got into a fight and was hurt in the process. Maybe the true reason why they got into this fight was because they were drunk after breaking up with their past lover and a person's attitude didn't sit right with them in that specific setting. When they tell you the story, they may omit the fact they were at their lowest and emphasize how brave they were to stand up and interfere because a person twice their size was bothering another customer. That kind of thing.

This person has a problem with expressing their feminine side and showing emotion. They do not talk about themselves much or if they do, they always make sure it isn't too personal. They tend to mask a lot of their pain, a lot of their fears. They hide behind a mask to cover up for the fact that they are in truth really sensitive and insecure about themselves. I get the message that this person struggles with their feminine side because of a masculine figure in their life. Growing up, they were taught that they shouldn't cry or let people see their "weakness". They were taught that showing affection wasn't safe. They were criticized for their soft nature and had to become tougher with time to be able to make it through. Again, I get a neurodivergent vibe from this person, which is similar to group 1. Maybe you felt drawn to that group as well.

They are very passionate and invested in whatever is going on around them. I feel like they are very active political wise and that ties down to their issues with injustice. This person either does a lot of community work or advocates for a lot of causes. They may use their influence and means of communication to raise awareness around certain subjects. I'm specifically picking up on mental health issues and struggles surrounding one's body image, speaking up against racism, bullying, sexual harassment at work. They have a lot of love to give and a sensitive side to them that they don't get to express very often but when they are in such setting that is when they can truly be themselves and wear their heart on their sleeve. You may see this person's gaze light up when they talk about subjects that interest them, things that are dear to their heart. I see this person doing a lot of random acts of kindness but on the lowkey. Things that would go unnoticed or that wouldn't seem that grand but that actually matters. Like putting flowers on someone's grave even though they didn't know them as a proof that someone cares about their passing. Leaving anonymous positive notes in books that they borrow from the library so that the next person is comforted and knows that they matter. Silently watching over children on the streets to ensure that they are safe and no one bothers them. Taking away an object that may be a source of danger for others. Giving away personal belongings by living them in random spots for other people to find them. Pretending like they're clumsy to get two people that like each other to be physically closer in the hopes that it will get things started.

I feel like this person's main love language is acts of services but sometimes they may also express their love in funny/quirky ways or unusual ways. Here are some specific things I am picking up on : making a list of all the things you like so that they know what to do when you feel down or how to surprise you on a specific event, using your go-to words or catch phrases on you to make you smile or laugh, taking interest in the things you like and trying them out to the point of being very specific about it and knowing every detail of it so you don't feel like you're alone and they can better understand you even if it makes them uncomfortable, including you in the things they do by leaving very specific tasks up to you even though they are perfectly capable of doing it on their own because they know it makes you happy, anticipating your needs in ways you wouldn't expect by keeping certain tools or products in close vicinity just in case, mimicking your stance/ your walking pace or any trait that you may be feeling insecure about so that you feel less insecure about it, making sure that you are not being left out during any social interaction and bringing the focus back to you in case you were interupted, countering your every self criticism with a reason why that exact thing is actually a good thing, expressing their opinion of you and how they feel for you in indirect ways by talking about things you remind them of (characters in movies, songs, things that are meaningful to them like a loved one for instance).

Looking at the picture you picked, I get the message that this person values beauty and the aesthetic of things and people. They give a lot of importance to appearances. They could be into home decor and interior design. They could also be into fashion. They may collect a lot of objects because of their aspect. Especially statues, paintings, traditional objects from different countries, floral ornaments. They like scented candles and incense. There is a specific flower that this person likes or they could have been named after a flower. Or they could be born on Flower Day (May 20), Rose Day (February 7), Valentine's Day (February 14), Yellow rose day (May 14 in Korea). Or overall as most flowers bloom during Spring, this season may be their favorite or may have some significance to your connection. I'm not sure what the flower on the picture is, but its shape and color reminded me of blue Hydrangeas.

Group 3

"I release my need to be right. I am defenseless and at peace." "When I lead from a place of love people respect me." " I bring peace wherever I go." White Numen Tarot : Magician, queen of wands, Judgement, Sun, 3 of swords

I don't care oracle : Close your curtains close your eyes sleep, Stop doing so much, Infinity x Infinity , I'm not okay, I am always a child

This person loves animals. They are very popular with animals. They may want to own a pet but they may be allergic to pet fur or they just don't have the opportunity to have one because of their lifestyle. They can both embody a cat like and a puppy like energy. They are very balanced and can both embody feminine and masculine energy very well because they've done a lot of shadow work.

They grew up in an abusive household and/or have dealt with a lot of abuse in their life. This lead them to becoming "mature" too soon for their age. They had to parent themselves and now as an adult they may be described as immature by others because they didn't have the opportunity to do what other children usually do growing up. They had to deal with many responsibilities very early on in their life, either because their parents didn't show up the way they should have or because they left home pretty early on for various reasons. Because of that, they have a hard time letting go of the need to control and asking for help.

One of the ways this person copes with whatever issues they have is by being active. They have a lot of various interests and they look like they never rest. This person's schedule is packed and timed perfectly. They always got something to do, someone to talk to, something to work on. They may struggle with insomnia. One of the reasons why they keep themselves so busy is to cover up for the fact that they feel lonely and scared on their own.

This person looks for meaningful and deep connections. When they feel comfortable with people, they can rant for days about the things that they like and be very quirky but if they do not have a good impression of you they'll remain as cold as an iceberg and you'll never get to see their depth. One of the ways you will be able to tell that your FS likes you is that they will act differently depending on whether they're with you or someone else. They'll do things with you that they wouldn't do with others. Show you sides of themselves that no one has seen. This person including you in their bubble will be a huge sign of their affection and trust. Especially, you meeting their family will be a huge thing because I feel like no one has gotten that opportunity before.

They are very confident in themselves, especially when it comes to their work and studies. They can ace anything you leave up to them as long as they know they've got your trust and things are explicit. However, if they feel like you're being shady or that you doubt them, this person's productivity will be affected dramatically. They struggle with impostor syndrom. They're also very quick to judge characters and they tend to have a strong intuition. So whenever this person tells you that they have a bad feeling about something, they are likely to be right.

They do not realize it bu they hold more power than they think and they are more popular than what they expect. This person is so humble that it would never cross their mind to put themselves forward and talk about their accomplishments. This is because of their upbringing. This person was lead to believe that they were not important and that no matter their achievements or efforts, they would never be enough to be taken seriously. Honestly this person has been through so much in their life that it's a miracle they still find the drive to carry on with a smile on their face. They are incredibly strong and admirable but they would never think that of themselves. They are their own worst enemy and critic. They don't like to be the center of attention but no matter what they do they just cannot escape it.

I feel like right away in your connection, you will intuitively feel very drawn to this person and very early on realize that they are your FS. Their will be something about their eyes that will immediately spark your interest. And everytime you will look into this person's eyes, you will not be able to hold their gaze because of the intensity of what you feel when looking at them. This may be something that they tease you about later on in your connection. I also pick up on a setting or an action that is unusual when you meet them. There will be something that will set you off about this person or maybe you will do something that they are not used to. And that will be the spark that ignites the whole thing. The reason I am saying that is because on the "I am always a child" card, the character depicted is walking barefoot on the street and one of their foot is in the mud. They are very neetly dressed and yet, without a care in the world, they are risking getting all dirty and being laughed at. It looks a bit out of place or out of the ordinary. Here are some things I am picking up on that maybe will speak to you : being the only person that didn't follow the dresscode at a party, walking up the stairs with a bunch of heavy grocery bags when you could have used the elevator, being the only person in the gym that sings to their workout playlist and gets hyped up while everyone else is just quietly sweating it out, being the only person that dares to talk back to the other or makes a comment about a specific touchy subject, being the only person to actually be educated about a specific topic that they're interested into while the others just have a surface level understanding of it, not showing them any sign of interest when other people are desperately trying to get their attention.

Looking at the picture you chose, this person could live by an important body of water. This could also be a sign that they are a very emotional individual. They may be into water sports like surfing, swimming, scuba diving. They could enjoy fishing. They may eat a lot of sea food. When travelling, they may prefer warm places such as islands over the country side or places like mountains. They may prefer Summer over other seasons.

Group 4

"My high vibe thoughts create health in my body, peace in my mind and love in my heart." "Let me be still today and listen to the truth in silence." "The more I honor my inner light the more I brighten the world. I choose to shine."

White Numen tarot : King of wands, 9 of wands, 7 of wands, knight of pentacles, 5 of pentacles

Sorry not sorry, Turn your tongue 7 times in your mouth before you speak, I've got super powers, Tomorrow is another day, Don't be fooled by my appearance my soul is resplendent

Based on your picture, the first thing I pick up on is that you may firstly interact with this person at a distance, either being penpals or through social media/dating apps. The picture also gives me a feeling of nostalgia. This may be someone that you reconnect with after a long time being a part. Daisies is the birth flower of people born in April. So it could be your or their birth month, or you could meet during this month. This person could be a childhood friend or your relationship could start of as friends and evolve into something more over time. I also can't help but to think of Disney's Daisy and Princess Daisy from the Mario lore. So your person gives off a very innocent vibe upon first glance but they turn out to be stronger and smarter than they appear. Though people may think of them as superficial, frail or shallow they are actually have a lot more depth and are very sensitive. This person may tend to be underestimated or overlooked, people may wrongly assume their character because of the way they look. Which feels a bit similar to group 2's person's energy so maybe you felt drawn to that group as well.

Your FS is a very spiritual person and they developped that spirituality through hardships and adversity. They possibly dealt with bullying as a child. This person was lead to believe that they didn't deserve affection, care, help. They spent most of their life being on their own and having to protect themselves because the adults around them where not creating a safe space for them. They have huge trust issues and are hyper independent. They do not know how to ask for help and do everything by themselves. They're the type of person that wants to be recognized solely for their skills and hard work. If someone were to help them or gift them something, they would think that they are not worthy of it because they haven't worked for it or earned it. Their notion of value is distorted because of the way they were raised as a child.

They are originally a very bright and cheerful person but life turned them into a bitter and cold person. Many times in their life, they were shown aspects of humanity that made them lose faith and hope. They were constantly lied to, disregarded, manipulated. People abused their kindness and generosity, treated them badly under the disguise of friendship or love. This person grew to believe that love wasn't meant for them. So when you meet them, they'll likely avoid you and run away from you at first. They'll have a hard time believing that your feelings for them are genuine and they may keep you at arms length for quite a while.

They fear intimacy. This will show in their distate for physical touch and public displays of affection. In their constant need for space and independance, for control within the relationship. Ironically, though they need a lot of space and free range of action, they will show a lot of possessiveness and jealousy especially if you are separated. This connection really gives me ennemies to lovers vibe. They will hate to love you and love to hate you. The beginning stages of your relationship may be quite rocky because of this person's fears and issues. However, because they will be very attached to you and protective over you they will understand the need for them to heal those aspects of their personality for you connection to be healthy and lasting. This is also because they have a strong sense of responsibility and want to be perceived in a good light by their loved ones.

This person is very charismatic and sensual. Chances are that a lot of eyes will be on them and a lot of people will want to pursue them, even while you are dating. They face a lot of envy and jealousy generally speaking but they will face even more adversity once they are with you. Which could interfere in your connection. There will be a lot of gossip about you, especially career wise. People in their work sphere specifically will not understand why your dynamic is working when you seem so different from one another. This will stem mostly from a lack mindset. Even their family could get involved in the drama. Since this person is very popular and likely succesful in their work, people may say things like you could be a threat to their reputation or question your motives for dating this person.

Even though their attraction for you will be very clear and obvious, this person will do everything in their power to ignore it and resist the pull to the point where it may look completely crazy to you and ridiculous. You may think "why is such a mature person acting in such a childish way, this is so unlike them". They'll make choices and actions that you will not understand and could attempt to sabotage the connection. But the more they will try to run away from you the closer they're gonna get because the Universe will not be having any of their BS and you won't either. Every time they will try to ignore or avoid you, they will be reminded of you or forced to face you in some type of way. This person could be trying to flirt with other people to forget about you, they may even straight up date another person thinking that you would disappear from their life. But the people they will interact with will be very similar to you or coincidentally they will be in your circle. If this person is working in a similar occupation, circumstances will have them working with you. They could choose to move out in a new location thinking they would avoid you but it turns out that you frequently go to that place because a family member lives nearby or your doctor's office is located in the same street. If you are a parent, maybe their kid goes to the same school as yours. And so on and so forth. Every time they turn on the radio, they'll hear songs that remind them of you. They'll see or hear your name quite often or will be confronted with something you like every day.

Specifically, I pick up that this person could be a coffee addict but maybe the way they like their coffee is very different to yours and this may be something you passionately debated on. They also have a thing for plants and flowers. They wear glasses or they have a bad eyesight. You could have "argued" about being too blunt and not knowing how to read the room. I don't know why I keep writing in past tense. Maybe for some of you that's a confirmation you already know this person. If that isn't your case, maybe this will be something that happens later on in your connection. I really get the feeling that something about this person will just get on your nerves when you first meet. Like the way they talk or how they dress. Maybe the setting in which you meet will give you a wrong impression of this person. Especially if a lot of people are badmouthing them and spreading false rumors about them.

This person is a loner. They spend most of their time alone, either at work or in their personal life. They are very guarded and introverted. They barely leave their home unless it's very important. They may have a fear of crowds and enclosed spaces. However, when they are able to trust someone they are very kind and giving, a total opposite of what people may depict them as. They have a very healing presence that stems from all the hardships they faced over time. This person uses their own experience to help people heal and expand. They could be a therapist, a reiki practitioner, someone that uses alternative medicine like herbology, crystal healing and such.

They have a lot on their plate. They struggle with mental health issues and it isn't something they openly talk about with anyone. However, if this person sees someone going through hardships, they will be the first one to reach out and provide help and support. This person believes in the law of attraction and also in fate. They know when to pay attention to the details which could also explain why they are so succesful in life but people may not see that side of them and just belive that your FS has it easy because of their wealth, their background, their looks. When in reality, this person is the most hardworking individual you'll ever know. And when you get to see that side of them, you will really admire and respect them.

[just-a-ghost00]

What they wish to tell you

Decks used : I don't care oracle, White Numen tarot, Spirit Junkie oracle

Group 1 ⭐️

"My productivity stems from inspiration. When I focus on what brings me joy, my tasks become effortless actions." The Moon, 4 of pentacles, 5 of cups, Abuse of power rx, Party in your heart, Surprise rx

They wish to tell you that they're afraid and unhappy. That they feel powerless within this connection. They feel like they've lost all chances of being with you and that scares them. I get a lot of sadness from this spread. Sadness and regret. They feel unsafe. Like all the fun has been taken away from them. They can't seem to rejoice about the things they used to like or to marvel at life. They have a hard time focusing on daily tasks, seeing the glass half full. They feel uninspired, unmotivated, lost because things aren't as they used to be. They feel like you've changed, whether that's the truth or not. They feel disconnected from you, from people in general. They have a hard time thinking positively. I feel like they struggle with mental health issues at the moment. At the back of each deck we have The High Priestess, Dopamine ? Dopa-go ! & My friendships support me, nourish me and inspire me. This person feels like they are not supported by the people around them. They have lost the will to fight for what makes them happy, what they believe in. They're going through a dark night of the soul and they're in a lot of confusion right now. That's also something they try to hide from people around them, including you. They put on a façade but the truth is they wish they could tell you how empty they feel without you. This person wishes they could go back to the times where things weren't as complicated and they could enjoy themselves freely. This person feels like they cannot be themselves freely with their loved ones. For some of you, the person you're thinking of may struggle with their sense of identity. I was picking up on the LGBTQIA2S+ community. For some of you, if your person is a masculine, they may struggle with expressing their feminine side because of societal expectations or pressure from family. I was specifically picking up on Drag Queens and Kings. But more than that I just feel like your person is currently struggling to find their path in life and may be questioning themselves a lot. Which is a very tiring and uncertain time of their life. And they wish they could talk about it with you but for some reason they struggle to do so. Their heart feels very guarded. They are very insecure right now. They have a hard time showing compassion to their own self for what they are experiencing. They may be blaming themselves a lot when they have nothing to be ashamed of. I feel like if this person could change their surroundings maybe they wouldn't be going through such a difficult phase.

Group 2 🍾

"I accept the gifts I've been given as a high service to the world." Death, The Chariot, 3 of swords, Stop doing so much, There's no planet B! , Stand up for yourself rx

The person on your mind wishes to tell you that they feel stuck career wise and they don't know where they stand anymore. This person doesn't feel happy with their professional life as of now and they are afraid to leave whatever situation they're in because they have no idea where they would go or what they would do in such case. This person feels like they don't have what it takes to start over again. They wish they could move on and find something better, get closer to you possibly but they lack the strength and courage to do so. This person feels burnt out by their responsibilities and engagements. They're also afraid of criticism from their peers. On the back of each deck we have knight of swords & Close your eyes, close the curtains and sleep & "Attacking others is an attack on myself. I choose to release this now." They wish to tell you that they do not dare to speak up their mind for fear of rejection. They're afraid of their own light and power, as well as the effects their choices would have on the people around them. They're afraid of the unknown, of "losing" what they're used to. They're afraid of change. They're losing sleep over the fact that no matter how hard they try, no matter how much they think about it, they can't seem to find a way out or a way to change the outcome. On one hand, they know that where they're at right now is detrimental to them. But on the other hand, they feel like if they left whatever situation they're in right now, they would be wasting something beautiful and they could not go back. This person is afraid of taking responsibility and they feel very bad about themselves right now. They're in a dilemma and though they sincerely wish to put an end to this cycle, they can't seem to get themselves out of it. They wish they could tell you how exhausted they are and how hurt they are but they keep it to themselves because they do not wish to burden you with their struggles. Also, for some of you, your person sees you working really hard for your dreams and they're afraid that you're overworking yourself. They wish you would take the time to rest and take care of yourself.

Group 3 🎀

"My friendships support me, nourish me and inspire me." 10 of wands, 2 of wands, The Magician, I dare to declare my love, Please leave a message, Spread the love

I really like the energy of this spread. It's such a stark contrast to the other groups. They wish to tell you that, though they have a lot on their plate, you do not leave their mind and they still have a lot of hope for your connection. You are a source of motivation and inspiration to them. You are the reason why they get up in the morning and do their best every day. They wish to tell you that whatever you are going through, they still appreciate you and care for you. That should you need them, even if they're busy with their own things to deal with, they'll make time and space for you, to comfort you and guide you. They wish to tell you that you are so dear to them and that they're working really hard to be able to be closer to you. That may be true especially for those of you that are in a long distance connection. This person hopes to travel so that they can meet you. They're constantly day dreaming about you. They wish to tell you that you're all they care about and that they only have eyes for you. At the back of each deck we have Ace of pentacles, You are here & "Compassion is my compass. I am willing to hold space for the experience of others." The "You are here" card show an arrow pointing to the Earth from an outer space perspective and the Earth is right at the center of the galaxy from that angle. So they wish to tell you that you're at the center of their Universe. You occupy their thoughts at every moment of their life. I get the same vibe from the compassion card. They are willing to adapt and change things in their life so that you can better fit into their world. With this ace of pentacles, they wish to tell you that they would like to start anew with you or give your connection a new turn by making you an offer. I feel like this person would like to be in a relationship with you, regardless of what people may think and despite the challenges this may rise. It's like, no matter what, they're willing to make it work because you mean so much to them. Honestly this is so sweet.

[just-a-ghost00]

Their current feelings for you

Group 1 - Jeanne

45. Spiral of abundance , 23. Inner Jewel, 31. Inner Equinox, Loyal dog, Newborn Butterfly, Smart Walrus, Forest song "My kindness is a gift I bestow upon the world."

This person really feels the most at peace and safe when they are with you. You bring out their inner child and generate a lot of happiness in their life. They really value and treasure your presence but they are also aware that their happiness shouldn't solely depend on you. This person is choosing to trust you despite their fears and share with you their most vulnerable sides, their kindness and generosity, not only out of loyalty but also because they believe that it would be beneficial on the long term. Their feelings for you are pure, they are only filled with good intentions because this person knows what it's like not to receive love and feel like people cannot accept you for who you are. Even though you may trigger this person sometimes through your words or actions, they would rather try to deal with it on their own without you knowing or trying to talk it out in a healthy manner rather than lashing out on you. This person wants to protect you and nurture you, to guide you but they also feel a bit guarded because they are not used to the dynamic of your connection. This person may struggle with receiving compliments or random acts of kindness. They may be used to having to work hard for attention or to receive help from others. They may be used to people unfairly treating them. However, you do quite the opposite. Through your interactions their wounded inner child is allowed to heal and show its true self without fear. Which can both be pretty exciting and scary at the same time. You may sometimes feel like this person isn't truly reciprocating your feelings or not being sincere. The truth is they need a lot of time to open up about their feelings and show people their love. If you are able to provide them the time and space to do so, by encouraging this person and paying attention to what makes them uncomfortable, respecting their boundaries, which I feel you already do to some extent, this person will slowly but surely let you know how much you mean to them. Honestly this energy is very sweet and peaceful, it was such a lovely reading to do. I feel called to mention that one of the reasons why this person loves you so much is because of your "disinterested" actions. Let me explain with a few examples. Maybe in the past, this person only received compliments from people when they wanted something out of them. So these compliments weren't genuine. However, you compliment them because you want to and feel like it. That kind of things. I feel like this really changed this person's views of connections.

Group 2 - Luca

"When I lead from a place of love, people respect me." 34. Creativity storm, 46. Energyfall 36. Fire of transformation, Loyal Llama, Guardian Bear, Tranquil Sloth, Silent Watcher

You intimidate this person a little but more than anything they feel inspired by you and energized in your presence. You give them a lot of strength and courage to deal with their daily life and challenges. You motivate them to be a better person. They may observe you from afar to learn from you but also out of shyness because they find you very attractive and they can't help their reactions when they're around you, if you get my drift. This energy is quite similar to group 1 in the sense that they also seem to be feeling at peace when you're around, as if all their problems melted away. They find a new sense of confidence because of your support, your guidance, your kindness. This may be something they actively voice out. I feel like this person has already mentioned in front of you that they felt driven to do their best because of your trust and faith in them. They consider you a vital part of their support system. But they also are very fond of you and I feel like they view you as more than a friend, though they may not express it. They get protective over you quite easily which is something they may hide behind nonchalence. Like, they may give you a whole meal to ensure you've eaten enough because they know you're feeling unwell and reply with "I bought this by mistake and I thought maybe you'd like it" or something like that. They find excuses to do things for you while trying to do them undercover. But they may not be very subtle about it sometimes. But maybe because this is something you're not used to, you may think that you're imagining things. Well, this is your confirmation that you're not crazy. I feel like for most of you this connection is quite recent. So you may be in the early stages of a relationship or just secretly crushing on one another because you both are shy koalas.

Group 3 - Chloe

"My happiness is a direct reflection of how quickly I can shift my perceptions from fear to love." 17. Spark of gratitude, 12. Emotional storm, 15. Dance of the elements, Wise Owl - Wisdom Perception Discipline , Newborn Butterfly - Renewal Transformation Adaptability, Cute Penguin - Whismy Community Loyalty, Bird

This person chooses to see you under your best light, regardless of your shadows and past "mistakes", regardless of their own fears and shadows. More than anything, they feel incredibly happy and grateful for your presence in their life. You take them off guard and make them feel giddy, like a teen that would love for the first time. They can't help but to love you for who you are and want to be close to you. They feel so warm and fuzzy whenever you're around. Their thoughts of you are pretty positive and innocent. They just admire you and are in awe with your personality and looks. They wish to see through you and know what you think of them. This connection is fairly new to them. They've never felt this way before. They are not used to such happiness and soft feelings. I feel like this person has been through a lot in their life and they're not used to surrendering control or letting themselves be vulnerable in front of others. But with you, they feel like a child again and everything feels like an adventure. They can appreciate life again because of you and that is something that is incredibly precious to them. Ever since they met you, they start to see life from a brighter perspective and become more of a "the glass is half full" type of person. They can truly have fun and relaxed because they feel more confident in your presence. You make them feel safe, heard and seen. They don't have to try as hard when you're around because you accept them for who they are. I really like this spread because it's just so pure and soothing. It's like in their eyes there isn't a single thing about you that is wrong or that should be changed. They love you unconditionally.

[just-a-ghost00]

Connection check in part (2)

To check part 1, click here.

Your current energy

A. B. C.

Their current energy

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Their current energy - Group 1

I get a very calm and steady vibe from this person regarding you and the connection. I feel like their expectations, intentions and feelings towards you are very clear in their mind and heart. The energy feels very balanced and mature. I get the impression that they feel very good in your presence and treasure the bond you share. When it comes to you, they are very open minded and have a "go with the flow" attitude. They do not overthink your intentions or feelings because I feel like they are pretty confident about their own and they have a lot of trust and faith in the Universe. This person has a very spiritual vibe. They cannot focus on their daily tasks because you are constantly on their mind. This person spends a lot of time day dreaming about you, visualizing how being with you would feel like. I get the impression that they would be okay with taking things further if you verbalized it. However, I get a frustration feeling coming from this person with that "turn your tongue 7 times in your mouth before speaking". I feel like this person is upset that you do not trust them. I'm getting the message that any fear you may have about this person is not true. For instance, if you're thinking "they must not like me because I'm too this or not enough that", spirit wants you to know that you're wrong. What you dislike about yourself may very well be what they love about you. This person would like to communicate with you more. They have a lot on their plate that they want to share but I get the feeling you're not letting them in. However this person knows that they cannot force you so they are chosing to surrender and let you see for yourself how serious they can be. They want to give you the time and space to figure out on your own how they really feel and think about you. They do not intend to run away. It's like they're saying "I'm here and I will not move, if you want me I'm okay with it and if you don't that's also cool". This person is ready for any outcome within this connection because they've made their peace with the fact that they cannot control everything and that you have free will. Though, they have a very precise vision of where they want this to go and I feel like they will do everything in their power to get there. This person is determined and rather than feeling defeated by your resistance, it actually motivates them to try harder. They have their eyes set on you and they do not intend to give up any time soon.

Their current energy - Group 2

The person that's on your mind is chosing to set their fears and doubts aside, to ignore people's opinion and give your connection a chance. I feel like they are slowly but surely opening their heart and trying to come to terms with the idea that love doesn't have to be a struggle all the time. That not everyone in this world is trying to harm them and that there is good both in and around them. I am mostly getting air sign energy from this spread but I also pick up on Pisces and Taurus. I get the energy of someone finally accepting their dreams and letting themselves experience everything they didn't dare to do before. They're finally embracing themselves and letting themselves be seen for who they are. They are done fighting, resisting love and finally letting themselves receive. I feel like this person struggled with their self worth and they are healing that part of them through this connection. By chosing to love you and giving this connection a chance, they are also chosing themselves. They are turning the tables over and doing what feels right to them for once, instead of following others' unsollicited advice. I feel like this person never once did something for themselves and now they are finally making their own well being a priority. They are finally daring to dream and imagine what this connection could become but also what they could become. They are cutting ties with toxic patterns and people that did not serve their highest good. This person is also realizing that whenever they were acting off within this connection, it was because they were projecting their own fears onto you. They understand that though they may be different from your past connections or from what you are used to, it does not make them any less worthy of your affection. They are finally seeing their own beauty and chosing to let that beauty be shown. They are healing their heart at their own pace. For some of you, your person may be taking their distances with you to further connect with their own truth. They need time and space to see the good in them if they wish to let you in. I sense a desire to start anew and take back one's power. The energy feels very peaceful here. Almost dreamy. I feel like this connection is taking a new turn now that they have gained clarity and done some shadow work. They have a lot of affection for you but they may have realized that what they loved in you was also within themselves and that they should honor that as well.

Their current energy - Group 3

Blue could be your person's favorite color. In terms of zodiac signs, I'm getting Gemini and Taurus mainly, also Leo was mentioned on the Azurite card. There's a lot of throat chakra activity going on here. There may have been communication blockages within this connection in the past. Your person has realized that they treated you poorly in the past. That their fears played a huge role in the connection's imbalance and communication issues you were facing. Through your interactions and the effect of this connection on them, they have been faced with a lot of their shadows. They needed a lot of courage to be able to overcome their fears around intimacy, being vulnerable and truthful around you. This person may have told you harsh truths or spoken badly of you behind your back and they regret their actions. This person understands that their judgment of you was false and when they were being judgmental towards you was because what they saw was a reflection of a part of themselves they couldn't embrace. This person was afraid of the depth of this connection and the depth of their own feelings in your presence. They were not capable of embracing the light that was shining on them thanks to this connection you shared. They were just not ready for it. With that understanding of the dynamics of your bond, this person is now choosing to be mindful and to see the truth. They are chosing to leave the past behind and move forward, renewed and rejuvenated, ridden of all their fears and judgments. Whether they choose to give you a chance or to go their own way, this person is not the same anymore. They are letting in more love into their life and softness that they didn't allow themselves to feel nor express. They may want to communicate with you about their awakening. I also get the feeling that spirit has been working behind the scenes to help this person get out of their state of confusion and see the connection clearly. Illusions were destroyed, their ego was quieted down for their heart to be allowed to shine through. When you met them, this person may have been struggling with depression, which you could have been aware of or not. I feel, thought, that your person did not want to admit that they were not okay. But interacting with you, they came to see that some things in their life needed to change. Some cleansing was needed. Most of it was in their mind I feel. It's like they failed to perceive you or themselves in a good way because their mind was clouded with negative self talk and false perceptions of love and relationships. Maybe they rejected you because of cultural differences or other factors. I'm specifically picking up on differences in communication styles or language barrier. Also, I'm getting a strong feeling that this person's friends played a huge role in them rejecting you. There were people around them that did not see your closeness in a good light and they attempted to get your person to hate you. Like spreading false rumors about you dating other people or saying stuff like "I heard group 3 doesn't like you, they spoke badly of you to their friends". But somehow your person came to understand that this wasn't true. I'm not sure what got them to change their mind about you but I really get this strong impression that they see you in a different light and have taken a new found interest in you.

Decks used : Crystals oracle, Threads of fate shadow edition, I don't care oracle deck, Soul truth oracle deck, Enchanted forest oracle cards, Beast Soul oracle cards, White Numen Tarot light edition, Spirit Junkie Oracle, Des potes en ciel Oracle