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YO GUYS. A baby Hetalia Kin Amino just opened up! Theres litterally only 3 members right now so join!!

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Please make this go viral.

It is so important I don’t even care if you delete what I write here, just help it be seen. 

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i have thought a lot about censorship and what is “appropriate”. not a lot of people know this, but lolita was written to show what we allow on our bookshelves: there being no swear words in it meant it was free from censorship. a book about child molestation was allowed because it didn’t explicitly use the word “fuck”. he wrote it to show we don’t really care about protecting children, and it ended up being seen as a romance.

someone once told me - actually, many people have - that lgbt content isn’t appropriate for children. any content. not just kissing. i’m drowned in questions: “won’t the parents have to explain it?” “kids shouldn’t be thinking about sex at this age, or do you think differently?” “what will the kids think?”

at six i saw disney movies. people kiss and get married. i didn’t ask “what does that mean.” i didn’t ask “are those people going to have sex?” i didn’t ask anything, because i was six, and no six year old thinks twice about these things. nobody ever “explained” being straight to me, it was a fact, and it existed, and i was fine with that. why would being gay require a thesis, i wonder.

someone once told me that the one of the reasons people hate lgbt individuals is because they can’t see us as anything but sexual. we’re not people, so much as sinners. that they don’t see love, they see sex. just sex. it’s perversion, not a matter of the heart. only of the body.

i think i was in my early twenties before i saw someone like me. 

how old were you, though, before you saw violence? before you saw sexual assault on tv? i think something like that is only pg-13, and if it’s implied, they can get away with anything. i remember watching things and learning about blood, but knowing sex - sex was what was really wrong. sex was always rated r. sex was always kind of a bad word. i was told a lot that i wasn’t ready.

i had a dream last night that i made a site where people could ask any question they wanted about sex and get answered by a professional. it was shut down in moments because 15 year olds wanted to know if it should hurt, if “double-bagging” was a real thing, if this, if that. we shudder. don’t let the children know about that! 

but at thirteen i had seen enough violence it no longer struck me. i couldn’t say “fuck” but i knew that if you break your femur, you can bleed out internally in under half an hour. in school i wasn’t allowed to write about loving girls because what would the administration think - but i could write about wanting to kill myself and people would say how lovely, how blistering.

i have thought a lot about censorship. sometimes people on this site try it with me: don’t write this, don’t be so nasty. some of it is intrinsic. we know as people with a uterus not to complain about “that time of the month”, we know better than to talk about sexual assault (how shameful), we know that talking about a vagina is somehow scandalous. i can say “dick” and nobody questions me. some people only refer to the bottom half of me by “pussy”. they won’t wrap a mouth around “vagina” like it’s poison to them. even discussing this, that the language halts, that there’s an intrinsic desire to say “girls” instead of “women” - feels naughty, illicit. not for children.

the other day someone suggested i make my blog 18+. i said, okay, it deals a lot with depression and other problems that might be for a mature audience. oh no, they said, that’s not it, i think that’s helpful. i said, okay. so what is it then. well, you’re gay. you write about loving women. and i said, i don’t write about sex often and they said. it’s not about the sex. but wlw isn’t for a general audience. teenagers aren’t ready.

oh.

lolita is recommended for high school and up. i think about that a lot. i know girls who love it, who say it speaks to them on a deep level. it’s beautiful prose, after all. that was the whole point of the novel. something that looked like a rose but was intrinsically awful. i think about how if i was a model they’d want me to look young, thin, prepubescent. how my body would be sold and how through the mall i walk by images of barely-clothed women while mothers cannot breastfeed in public without fear of retribution. 

i think about how i can write a novel about violence and it will be pg-13 but if my characters say “fuck” twice it’s inappropriate. i said fuck three times so far in this post, which makes it only appropriate for adults. 

i think about that, and how my identity is something that people suggest lines up with a swear word. that people shouldn’t talk about it. that it’s a vulgarity. bad for children, harsh, confusing.

fuck. i love women. which one makes this only for those over eighteen.

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Yuri!!! On Ice: Episode 12 my reaction (spoilers and headphone warning!)

HOLY SHIT THIS EPISODE ADDED TEN YEARS TO MY LIFE

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Victor’s first and last words of the season~

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i was crying

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i had to, more probably to come

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🌸 Minami Kenjiro aka Yuuri’s biggest fanboy 🌸

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i’m yoi shitposting instead of sleeping two days in a row, enjoy

(based on this)

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yo! uhh, if you’re aphkin could ya please like this post/hmu?? i’m looking for pmuch everyone from canon. thanks!

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Cars 3 prediction

McQueen’s driving in the woods. There’s no one around and his phone is dead. Out of the corner of his eye, he spots him: Shia LaBus.

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Best

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how d ARE YOU

so I noticed how in the new tumblr app your icon kind of fades when you drag it up… and I could only think of one thing.

I’m so so sorry

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Stardew Valley inspired portrait sprites of me and my pal @cheeziswin :vc

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HHOO SHIT BOI ITS GETTIN REAL

okaaay hhhh so like… first kin kinda sorta totally related to this character ever since i watched the show

like…at first i was like wow, everyone is so cool, then me and my friends like we do, “who would you be?”

“i was like shit idfk man, okay, youre england, bc youre tsuntsun, hate lots of shit, love tea and get pissed quick … this dude, youre canada bc…pF. thats obvious, so who am i”

they both said america and im like nO. that, burger stuffing, obnoxious lout interuptive oblivious bi-

and thats when i realized im exactly like that. so i started calling my friends matt and iggster igghead iggyboo whatever

and they called me jones. i loved it, i had never felt more at home in my skin.

i gotta say, America and England kin…that revolutionary war lesson in school is fukin tough isnt it ;-; whenever we talked about america winning i was like fuck yeah! and talking to classmates or the teacher id accidently say “I” instead of saying “America”.

anyways, we fell out of the fandom. my name wasnt jones anymore. and it felt…wrong….like i wasnt as happy in my skin.

This is my first kin…and i need help…

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“ALFRED, YOU TIT.”

Ahahaha, I needed to cheer myself up and that post always gets me going….