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And now for something completely different.
This is the ADHD Teapot. I made it in a ceramics class a few years ago. I use it to explain executive dysfunction to people who haven’t come across the term before (and those who think of ADHD mostly as Hyperactive EightYear Old Boy Syndrome).
So, most people’s brains are like a regular shaped teapot with a single spout. Let’s say that your time, energy, focus etc is the liquid you have in the teapot. Your executive function is the spout, that directs the tea into the specific cup you want to fill-aka the task that you’re meant to be doing. Spills happen occasionally, but generally most of the tea goes in the right cup.
If you have executive dysfunction, you have multiple spouts going in different directions. You can try pointing one of them at your chosen cup and you will probably get some liquid in there, perhaps you will even fill it right up (finish the task). But meanwhile, tea is also pouring out of several other places and not going where you want it. If you have another container nearby, perhaps some of it will end up in there. But quite a lot of it is going to end up on the floor and accomplish nothing.
And at the end of the day you’ll have filled one or two cups ( or sometimes not even one) compared to the five or six that somebody with the same sized teapot (but only one spout) has filled, and everyone wonders why you’re so bad at getting tea poured, and why you make such a mess in the process.
One day I’d like to spend more time learning pottery and create a really technically good fucked up little adhd teapot. But that’s a long way off since i currently live in the outback and the nearest pottery workshop is some 400km away. But I figure that for now, it might be a useful or interesting metaphor to somebody even in its rough draft form.
This post is the cup I filled instead of cleaning my house btw.
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How many first cousins do you have? (if you have a rough estimate just guess)
None
1-5
6-10
11-15
16-25
26-40
41-60
61-79
80+
I could not possibly even guess how many cousins I have
#15#what's funny is that on my mom's side which is the side I actually spend time with#literally all of them are at least 10 years younger than me#I was the only kid on that side of my family until I was nearly a teenager#weird dynamic#also nearly half of them are adopted or my mom's stepbrother's kids but they're family <3 they count
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With You
#omg!#destiel#destiel fanart#this was one of the first pieces of fanart I saw in this pairing after actually starting to ship it#It was actually my phone background for like two years#Adore it
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Me literally any time the finale comes up:
What finale? Oh you mean the finale where they rescue Cas from the Empty and Dean gives him a big fat kiss and then we get a great montage of things like Dean and Cas getting a cute little house for themselves and opening a bar and Dean spends his days dispensing whiskey and advice to the next generation of hunters and fixing up the house, and Cas helps out at the roadhouse but also keeps bees and tends the garden and makes great friends with the mailman and the librarian, and Sam and Eileen are still badasses and drop their kids off at Uncle Dean and Cas's house when they occasionally get the urge to go on a hunt but mostly they just organize the network and run the library and keep everybody safe, and Dean teaches Cas to bake pie and Cas reads to him at night with Dean's head in his lap and they have great big Thanksgiving dinners where everybody's invited, their whole entire beautiful hodgepodge found family--
Anyway yeah what finale
#it's a self defense reflex at this point#this is more real to me at this point than whatever actually happened in those last two episodes#spn finale#destiel
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supernatural bloggers can make such good posts when they aren't talking about supernatural although i recognize the non supernatural posts are still about supernatural due to the condition they have
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4.18 - The Monster at the End of This Book - for DESTIEL’S 2ND ANNIVERSARY EVENT by @destiversary - Day 1: Season 4
#this was so sexy of him#so flirty#this is castiel flirting#balls to the wall defying heaven with barely a veneer of respectabiltiy#while looking at dean like THAT
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Did you guys know there's nothing inherently wrong with selfish thoughts and desires and there's no such thing as thought crimes or thought sins and a balanced amount of selfishness is healthy and adaptive for living things to have and it's fine to act selfishly as long as you don't harm others
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I’m running a DnD campaign with my siblings and mom, who are all big MythBusters fans, so obviously I made Jamie Hyneman and Adam Savage NPCs. Adam is a human and Jamie (JAM13) is a robot. Adam claims to have built JAM13, and is not satisfied with his inability to emote properly, but is very satisfied with his walrus-like facial hair. JAM13, however, claims to have grown Adam from a test tube and named him after the biblical figure, and says he is “clearly a very primitive approximation of a human being.” Insight checks on who is lying are useless because both of them fully believe they’re telling the truth.
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adhd paralysis sucks bcuz im just sitting there and my brain is like
YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME YOU ARE WASTING TIME
no work done no rest gained. literally no point of this at all
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THE TREATY PRINCIPLES BILL IS BEING PRESENTED TO THE HOUSE TOMORROW!!!!!!!
EDIT: Here's a link with more info on the Bill and it's contents and breaches!
This matters to EVERYONE in our country! If you're Māori this is about our LITERAL existence, if you're Pākehā, tauiwi, tangata Tiriti this concerns you because Tiriti is what gives you the privilege of existing on this whenua! The Waitangi Tribunal has already said this Bill will be the biggest Waitangi breach ever. YOU have a responsibility to do something.
ACT, our coalition government, and the Ministry of Justice have been intentionally keeping this bill under the wraps. Mad mihi to the MoJ analyst who leaked that draft though (I'm sure they got sacked if not massive repercussions).
What we know so far is that Te Pāti Māori, Green Party, and Labour WILL NOT be voting for this and that ACT, NZ First, and National WILL be voting for this tomorrow. NZ First and National have said that they WILL NOT support this Bill after its first reading so it will go to Select Committee and then die at first reading.
National and NZ First have said they'll only support this Bill to first reading (thankfully) but there is always the chance of closed door promises & favours and we still need to advocate for this disgusting bill to die.
I'll post more about submissions when they open for Select Committee but I'm happy to help answer questions or help with that and the process.
But the racist idiots to email and drill in that you DO NOT want this Bill are...
ACT MPs
1. David Seymour (Email: [email protected] ) (the one bigoted brain cell behind this bill)
2. Brooke Van Velden ([email protected])
3. Nicole McKee ([email protected])
4. Todd Stephenson ([email protected])
5. Andrew Hoggard ([email protected])
6. Karen Chhour ([email protected])
7. Mark Cameron ([email protected])
8. Simon Court ([email protected])
9. Parmjeet Parmat ([email protected])
10. Laura Trask ([email protected])
11. Cameron Luxton ([email protected])
AND
- Prime Minister Christopher Luxon ([email protected])
- Deputy Prime Minister Winston Peters ([email protected])
If you're able to participate with any part of the hīkoi please do and please be safe!!!!
Toitū te Tiriti! Ake ake ake!
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siken saw his words being twisted and he’s having none of it god bless
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