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Would you like to take a trip to my secret garden 😘

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Please, spread this for those who might need it right now

U.S. suicide hotline: call or text 988 (available 24 hours)

U.S. trans lifeline: (877) 565-8860 (when you call, you’ll speak to a trans/nonbinary peer operator. full anonymity and confidentiality)

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – provides 24/7 confidential support and referrals for individuals and families facing mental health and substance use disorders, including panic attacks and anxiety.

LGBT National Help Center: (888) 843-4564

Trevor Project: Call (866) 488-7386, text START to 678-678, or chat online.

Take care of yourself and each other. Please stay safe ♡

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quick reminder that my own gay ass genuinely supports the hell outta each and every one of you. regardless if i know you or not, im happy to be living in this shithole of a life in the same world with you.

and im proud of you, i know in my heart just how beautiful, amazing, talented, smart, and worthy you are and i hope you can see that too🏳️‍🌈🌈

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Just having a femme day 😘

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WITH the dress and heels, of course! 💗🥰💗

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A musing on communication

So let me start by clarifying a few things. Most of these pertain to myself but they may be applicable towards speaking with other gurls. Second, some may assume there is conflict with my kinks or material I post. There is not, as kink is kink but the person is not the kink.

That said, I am making this as a handy dandy guide if you desire to start talking to me (or gurls in general as I'm sure some of them have these same beliefs). So let's start from the top:

A. Verbosity: Some gurls, like myself, desire to be the one who is led, including in conversation. As such it would be appreciated if you could be the one who can carry a conversation (honestly I am quite shit at starting and maintaining a conversation). Simply put, if you only say hey or hi, don't be surprised if you don't get a response. Here's some good ice breakers if you're not great with them.

"Those are cute heels where did you get them?"

"What got you into making the content you do?"

"Do you use filters?"

B) dominance vs aggression: it is a common thing, it seems, for people to assume being a jerk equals being dominant. This is not the case. As such if you start your conversation in these manners "I'm in [redacted] I would like to fuck you while you're wearing a cage and hijab" or "I would like to make you my second wife", expect me to not only ignore you but probably block you, so I don't have to deal with you. You see, my opinion is, this type of behavior is what someone young and inexperienced incorrectly believes to be dominant. Dominance is something that is earned, in my opinion, through through actions and building trust so that the submissive can feel secure with the dominant. That said.

C) kink is not an excuse. Acting a certain way towards someone because you assume they like certain things because of their kink is not a justification. If you desire to play with someone in the realm of that someone's kink it is something that needs to be earned. In my case nothing is more of a turn off then rolling into a conversation from the start by calling me things like a "little sissy faggot" or a "beta bitch" or assuming I want to be your "second wife" because I dress up in female Muslim clothes (I hate oathbreakers). I don't like being called those things in general, maybe I could accept it as dirty talk but only with someone who has built up trust with me to where I know that the behavior is not the norm for them. Long short you have to earn the right to treat me like shit and even then you may never even get that chance. Which leads me to -

D) stop making assumptions. No not every gurl likes big dicks (I actually prefer smaller ones between 4 to 5 in). Not every gurl is gurl mode all the time. Not every gurl is a slut. Finally, yes, gurls are human beings; so treat us like it.

The tldr of this, if you want to have good interactions online with gurls, especially this gurl. Try becoming friends with us first, be patient, be willing to take the time to build the friendship and the trust. And maybe, just maybe, we will want to tickle your pickle. But, don't be a butt hurt twat if we decide that we just rather be friends only.

(Afterthought: I am very shy so don't be surprised if I still don't communicate with you. I've been burned too many times by people pulling the bait and switch)

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Freshly shaved in a nightie is such a mood 😁🥵

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No worries she will be waiting!

@queendestiny6912

@sissygirl-olivia

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Amen 🙏

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✊ hell yes

Stand up for yourself!!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

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@sissygirl-olivia

@friendz0ned-b3ta-cuck @incognitoelizabeth @xxsissycaitlynxx @sissykyliecakes @goodgirlmadison