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Finally took the plunge. I'm now on bluesky, as well.

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I Want You to Feel Loved

I worry often about how I come across in my captions and with my writings.  The last thing that I want is to be insensitive to a whole host of identities and varying lifestyle choices.  I trust that many of you are encouraged, but I also don’t want to be discouraging to someone else.  I also don’t want to sound like I’m just “full of crap”.  I desire to be genuine, which is strange because of my anonymity.  LOL.  Now, to ease any pity for me, nobody has ever said anything negatively toward me.  I just want to be more for all of you than another fantasy caption maker…and, of course, we love all of those girlies too! 

One of the driving forces behind my Tumblr page is love.  I want anybody to feel welcomed, seen, valued, and heard.  Yes, there are some sexy push-the-envelope captions, but for the sake of keeping my Tumblr “safe”, I gravitate more to the ideas of positivity and encouragement without images that NSFW.  I believe we all need more encouragement.  There’s a place and time for more elicit fantasies.  I know, because I enjoy that too–and quite frequently. But in the other hand (pun intended), we should want to be a reason that others feel loved.  We all need to know that we belong with some people, that we have a greater sense of value, and that we have something to offer.

We should want to be givers: givers of self, givers of love.  Be a reason that someone feels loved.

CandieHart

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I believe you’re right!

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They Don’t Understand

For the very few people who know me and now know of my passion for femininity, the consensus is, “I don’t understand” or “I don’t get it” or “It doesn’t make sense.”  And, for anyone who doesn’t have such desires, I can see why.  Now, this doesn’t mean that the persons don’t love me, don’t accept me, or aren’t willing to understand in time.  It could be a shock factor.  Maybe in their mind, most things in life are black and white, male and female, left and right.  But then something or someone comes along and shows that life has color, that “gender” is ambiguous, and that social makeups are much more complex than pros and cons.  They don’t understand because it doesn’t fit their narrative.

No matter how many people can fit into your circle of accepting friends (if you’re so lucky to have that), somebody, some people, won’t understand.  It won’t make sense to them.  It’s just a perversion or a fantasy.

Listen to me, girlies: Girliness only has to make sense to you.  That’s what makes it right.  Get it out of your mind that you are so wrong for wanting it.  Erase it from your heart that you’re a degenerate because you like to wear pieces of material that have been fashioned for a particular gender other than the one assigned to you.  If it is in you, a part of you, your whole being, or whatever, it just needs to make sense to you. 

Have a precious day, my friends.  You’re very special and I want special lives for all of you.

CandieHart

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I miss Hugo. I got a spider plushie after the winter set and named it after him.