jahierre
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“A little bit of everything, infused with a handful of ME”
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jahierre · 2 months ago
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As I'm getting older, I'm starting to lose my understanding of love. Love used to be more simple and understandable, but now my head cannot really picture it clearly.
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jahierre · 2 months ago
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I confuse people. i have a happy personality and a sad soul. i'm bold but shy. i love deeply but sometimes i feel heartless. i'm healing and hurting at the same time. i'm dedicated to growth, but i self sabotage
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jahierre · 2 months ago
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Made to love, but not to be loved; made to understand, but not to be understood; always the poet, never the poetry.
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jahierre · 2 months ago
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jahierre · 2 months ago
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Dear Diary,
I haven’t been feeling like myself lately
Got me questioning if I really know myself
I think I really hate me
Cause why’d let them drag me thru hell
All in the name of love
Why’d I go high and above for people who wouldn’t even leave me crumbs
Why’d I go high and above for love from people who wanted me under their thumb
Are youuuu dumb?
I often ask myself
Now, I was genuine
I now realise that not everyone deserves that from me
And ever since I’ve been so lonely
yet so still and at peace
In hopes that this is a good start…
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jahierre · 2 months ago
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Anaïs Nin, from Incest - The Unexpurgated Diary of Anaïs Nin (1932-1934)
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jahierre · 2 months ago
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jahierre · 2 months ago
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Something bout Chocolate Skin in Leopard Print…😍
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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Kiss, Kiss, Kiss, Kiss
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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Tired of wasting time, so I’m just gonna put my art out there and we’ll see how it goes…
Constructive criticism is welcomed, don’t be mean HO
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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People always say: "Not everyone is gonna like you, and that's ok, nothing to take personally, it doesn't matter" yet it still sucks. It sucks when it's your teacher, it sucks when it's your boss or co-worker or family member. It even sucks when it's a friends friend or someone we barely know. It hurts. And you do not have to gaslight yourself into thinking that it doesn't hurt when it does. You're allowed to be upset when life is hard. You're allowed to feel an emotion, even more when it makes perfect logical sense. We talk to a friend about our feelings, journal, reflect, use coping skills. We find peace after a while, that's a more realistic solution. You got this. It will be ok.
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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A play pretend
Sense of duty demolishs who you were
I've seen it happen
It makes your mind weak
It makes you mad
Losing yourself is painful
Yet the world do not see the demise
If there were to be funerals for how many people had died inside
We wouldn't be able to keep the details
Yet people prefer the facade
For they can't handle the truth
People die knowing they haven't lived
Some wish for death
Its peace and stillness
Its safety
That's how poisonous the world has become
People wish death
I've seen them live,push through life
Not for themselves though,for others
Life has become not an act of living
But an act of acting
So many masks
So many facades
And when they see a real face
The envy enrages them
That's how the life stays
A play pretend
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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Common Sense for women in their 20s
Define your raison d'être
Journal regularly, in fact daily
Figure out the right hairstyle for you
Buy clothes that fit your body type
Learn to do you own makeup if you'd like to wear it
Observe, observe, observe
Try to participate in the society
Know that not everything is within your control
Do not live in fantasy or fear, they are distractions
Read books
Learn to form you own opinion
Do not force friendships
Do not stress the small stuff
Spend time getting to know your self
Know women's history & History and use it to your advantage
Have some intellectual rigor
Create your own community
Find a third space
Take your vitamins
Your wellbeing and wellness should be your priority
Have role models for every area of your life
Have discretion
Do not be quick to anger
Have mentors and be a mentor to others
Your social skills will take you far
Be responsible, the world is not so forgiving to women
Know when to stand out
Know when to fit in
Curate your life to fit your goals and desires
Understand strategy and how best to use it to your advantage
Get acquainted with what maks the world go round
You have to climb socially
You need allies in areas where you want to win
Be kind
Be content with what you have, otherwise you will pay the price
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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Green Flags in Communication 💚💬
"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."
This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.
"I don't want you to feel alone in this."
This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.
"I've been struggling with ___”
This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.
"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."
This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.
"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"
This is an example of constructive communication.
"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"
This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.
"I appreciate when you ___.”
Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.
"I didn't handle that well."
This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.
"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."
Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.
"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."
Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.
"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"
It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.
"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."
Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.
"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."
Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.
"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"
Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.
"I trust your judgment on this."
Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.
"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."
Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.
"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"
Validates the other person's feelings.
"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."
Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.
"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."
Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.
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jahierre · 3 months ago
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