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John Falk Tomkinson as Les-Lee

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"Our society has mainly lost sight of Sophia and attempted to split her into various manageable parcels. Frequently reduced to God’s secretary who nevertheless still supplies all the efficiency of the divine office, she is from all time, the treasury of creation, the mistress of compassion."

- Caitlin Matthews (Sophia, Goddess of Wisdom.)

Something to remember for all the New Age Christians reducing Sophia to one third of the Trinity or simply as "the Holy Bride".

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"Therapy speak" is so stupid it's almost funny if it wasn't actually harmful

Gaslighting the way it's used online isn't true to what it actually means in a clinical context. Narcissists aren't as common as social media makes you believe they are. People can be not good for you and/or assholes without being close to what a narcissist personality disorder actually means.

A boundary is "if you aren't ready on time, I will leave without you", not "you can't ever bring up anything I did that you didn't like or else I will call you toxic".

Saying something like "I appreciated our season of friendship" is not a natural way to talk for most people, and it shouldn't be implied that this is A Healthy Way to talk to someone else. Human relationships aren't a letter from HR. A good therapist will help you find your own words to express your feelings and thoughts and wants.

TL/DR: "Therapy speak" doesn't necessarily mean the phrases and expressions are used correctly or even used at all in clinical settings

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Say it with me! Wheelchairs aren’t sad! Mobility aids aren’t sad! Mobility aids are instruments of freedom!

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the gimmick blogs are like tumblr’s rogue gallery. yes we’ve got some heroes, yes we’ve got some villains, but more importantly if you look over here you will see some freak who devotes all their time to counting the number of “t’s” in a post

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Pisses me off how good Shakespeare actually is. Like yeah he's actually that good. People hype him up like he's the best English writer ever, and yeah he's actually an S+ tier writer.

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it's the holidays, you know what that means

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@monochromereflections at least your blorbo isn't a cartoon fish

Accidentally wound up on "hear me out cake" tiktok, and I swear, if another one of these bitches puts down an at-most-unconventionally-attractive human man, Lady Dimitrescu or Nick Wilde/Robin Hood I am going to lose my fucking mind.

Saw one where the first person they named was Disney's Aladdin and I tapped out so hard I entered a fugue state and didn't regain full consciousness for like a solid hour.

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something i find frustrating about Life lately is how people just absolutely refuse to experience any discomfort. and i dont mean this in the boomer "wah kids have it too easy theyre all pushovers and pussies" way, but i mean people will go crazy over anything thats not totally 100% sanitised and comfortable and pure and whatever the fuck. a show has a sex scene and you dont like it? people used to just look away for a second and maybe cringe. now it's a whole thinkpiece. people would rather ghost their friends or let issues fester rather than ever address an issue in their relationship with them. they wont let their friends vent in case it makes them uncomfortable. like can you just buck the fuck up and let things be a bit awkward sometimes? it wont kill you.

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There's a phenomenon in left-wing circles where initially reasonable statements and concepts get repeated ad nauseum until they not only lose their meaning but transform into deeply bigoted ideas.

The idea "there is no single white culture," is true because white is a concept created to describe the powerful position in Western societies. There are many different cultures, who's members are often white. But this idea became "white people have no culture" which is just not true, deeply dehumanizing, and harmful, especially to people who look white but experience marginalization because of their culture.

Another example might be cultural appropriation, which perhaps should be understood as a misrepresentation or exploitation of the cultural practices of another, especially where the person exploiting does so for personal gain, without acknowledgment. But now, people have basically transformed this into "when somebody does something from a culture they weren't raised in" or "when a particular race or ethnicity behaves in a way that's different from how they normally do" which promotes racial and cultural stereotypes and attempts to control the behaviors of people based on their race, ethnicity, and culture.

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Gorani bride, Kosovo, by Aljabakphoto

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I don’t know how many boys follow me, but I gotta bet there’s some. I just wanna tell y’all to be careful.

Abusive girls exist and what they’re doing is seen as like “badass tough don’t take no shit” but your girl should not hit you. Ever.

She should not demand for you to hand over your phone to look through.

She should not yell at you and humiliate you either alone or in front of people.

She shouldn’t make you distance yourself from your friends or family.

She shouldn’t scratch you or twist your arms.

She should not call you names.

She shouldn’t tell you ‘she’ll kill herself if you break up’

These are just a few examples of abuse and it’s just seen as okay when girls do it and god knows I’ve fallen victim to it a few times, but you shouldn’t have to.

Never worry about not being in a relationship. If they’re worth it, they won’t hurt you.

No one has the right to hurt you.

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i randomly bring this up to people once in 2 years just to remind them love is universal

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coworker: hey you should come look at the results of a ph test for a customer’s water

me: I’m king of busy rn

coworker: no really just come here

the ph test:

my honest reaction:

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@monochromereflections learn Blackfoot and give us Albertan RDR2 yaoi

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Deeply suspicious of people who imagine themselves as future dictators of post revolutionary states rather than proles. Why would a leftist want to be a future bourgeoisie?