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Idina Menzel & Michael Bublé - Baby It's Cold Outside

Happy 💋 Kissmas Tumblr

Keep each other warm cuz " baby its cold asf outside". Just sayin....

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"The world is made of faith & trust & pixie dust". ~Peter Pan~ rulez of wizdom.

Hello, wonderful friends! It is I, Teds, your friendly neighborhood teddy bear, here to chat about something that warms my fuzzy heart age regression! Now, I know some of you might be wondering, “Is age regression normal?” Well, grab your favorite blanket and snuggle in because I am here to tell you that not only is it perfectly okay, but it is downright awesome!

First off, we explore what age regression means. For many, it is a delightful journey back to a time when life was all about play, imagination, and the occasional cookie. As a little, it allows you to connect with that inner child who craves safety, joy, and a sprinkle of mischief. Just as I love to snuggle and listen to stories, age regression lets you tap into those sweet moments of innocence and fun.

Now, to address the elephant in the room or should I say the giant teddy bear? Some might wonder about the psychological implications of age regression. Is it normal? Well, just like a teddy bear is meant to be cuddled, age regression is simply a part of the beautiful spectrum of human experiences. Many individuals find that embracing their little side helps them cope with stress, anxiety, or the pressures of adulting. Who wouldn’t want a break from being a responsible grown-up once in a while?

The truth is that age regression is a common experience and it can provide comfort, relief, and a safe space for self-exploration. Just think of it as your personal playground where you can express emotions, let your imagination run wild, and embrace the creativity that often gets stifled in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. And there is no need to feel guilty about it! It is a healthy way to connect with oneself, release tension, and find joy in the simplest of things.

One of the best parts about age regression is the community that surrounds it. You will find many others who share your experiences and feelings, creating a supportive and loving environment. Just like my cozy hug, this sense of belonging can be immensely comforting. Sharing stories, engaging in fun activities, and making lasting memories with fellow littles helps foster a deep connection that can heal and uplift. There is a certain magic in coming together and celebrating what makes us uniquely ourselves.

In addition to the wonderful community, age regression allows for exploration beyond the confines of traditional norms. It opens up new avenues of self-discovery, encouraging individuals to challenge societal expectations and redefine what it means to be playful, creative, and free. Embracing this aspect of oneself can be a powerful act of self-acceptance and love.

So, if you find yourself enjoying a moment of age regression, know that it is a beautiful expression of your true self. Embrace it, cherish it, and let it fill your days with warmth and joy. Life is meant to be lived fully, and sometimes that means donning a pair of fuzzy socks, enjoying a bubble bath, or building a fort out of pillows!

Remember that age regression is not just normal; it is a fantastic celebration of the playful spirit within all of us. Whether you are a little, a caregiver, or simply someone who appreciates the joy of life, there is room for everyone in this big, fluffy world. Celebrate your inner child and embrace the magic that comes with it. Hugs and high-fives to all!

Until next time, keep smiling and let your inner teddy bear shine bright!

Teds’ Tag Along Thoughts

Teds here again, and I invite you to join in the conversation! Age regression is such a whimsical and heartwarming topic, and I want to hear from you.

Have you ever felt hesitant about embracing your inner child? If so, what helped you take that first step toward celebrating your little side?

Remember, there is no right or wrong answer, everyone’s journey is unique!

Also, what does community mean to you in your age regression experience? Do you have friends or groups that understand and support you? How does that connection enhance your little moments?

Please share your thoughts, questions, or even stories!

Until next time, keep those loveable hearts wide open and remember that every connection can be a cuddly adventure!

❤Teds❤

©aplushperspective2024

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Daddy's Home! Need I say more.

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You may unravel me, but beware of my bite.

These two sing a smokey sexy duet. Thank you @withnailrules for this hawt lil diddy.

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My PSA To Hug a Stuffie Today

Tattered stuffies They languish on bedroom mantles With an indeterminate shelf life Bearing a crown of yucky dust bunnies It is the armor worn by the neglected Forgotten stuffie Some are buried In a toy box grave hidden beneath plushy, More huggable treasures Their once magical allure Dulled from being handled too frequently Perhaps not enough Tattered stuffies Their ghosts reside in the echoes of playful laughter They yearn to be fondled, To feel the tickle of a finger They ache to hear the thump of a beating heart While pressed against a warm chest They remember way back when... Their fur was used to blot away Contrite tears from a well-deserved spanking Or their crayon scribbled Invitation to a tea-less tea party Formal dress required But these are just wistful imaginings Not entitled to those of the inanimate kind They are stuffed with cotton & whimsy But void of soulful wonder They do not envy their newer comrades As they will one day Fall victim to the same sobering fate Or to something far more sinister Banished to the land of "Un-Re-Useables (RIP Theodore Rooseyfelt III) A place one should never form their stitched mouths to say out loud There are however the exalted few That have attached themselves to sentiment A most valued but intangible possession They dutifully take their posts In pampered bliss against soft pillows As they live vicariously through fuzzy wuzzy memories The forgotten stuffies watch intently from their dusty shelf tops Still hoping with wobbly eyes For a hug that may never come

No harm came to a stuffie during the writing of this post.

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Leader Of The Band (live)

Love unconditional 💕 nuff said.

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Wild Rivers - Thinking 'Bout Love (Official Video)

Just thinkin 'bout luv....hope yall are having a luvvy dovey sweetest day weekend. Remember to ❤️ yourself first and the rest will follow.

Have a listen to Wild Rivers before you go. They will git you into the rushy flow of kissy face feelz.

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I consent to having candy, and I consent to shutting my pie hole. It's a win-win for everyone! Suckers hehehe...

I am so glad to be back with you for another Teds' Talk!

Last time, I told you about my not-so-great adventure with Percy the unicorn and Lilly Leap the frog. Well, let me tell you, it was BIG twouble! I had to eat broccoli for dinner and sit in the corner for what felt like FOREVER. All this happened because I got carried away and forgot something super-duper important: consent!

Now, consent is a people word that means everyone involved gets to say “yes” or “no” to something, and they really, really mean it. It is like when you and your stuffed friends decide to play a game together. If one of you does not want to play, it is important to listen to and respect that. In the world of BDSM and kink, where things can get a little spicy, consent is extra important because everyone needs to feel safe and happy. If someone feels pressured or uncomfortable, it can ruin the fun, just like I ruined the ride for Percy and Lilly.

So, here is a neat way to remember what consent looks like with the F.R.I.E.S. method. Let me break it down for you, and I will sprinkle in some cuddly examples. Just like how I love French fries with ketchup or vinegar on them, this method is something to savor!

Freely-given: This means consent should be given without any pressure or sneaky tricks. Imagine Percy saying, “I will to take you for a ride!” and not because I pestered him until he gave in. That would not be fair!

Revokable: Consent can be taken back at any time. Just like if Lilly decides she wants to stop riding Percy and wants to take a nap instead, she can say, “I am done riding!” And that is totally okay!

Informed: Everyone should know what they are saying yes to. If I say, “Let’s play a game of dress-up,” it is important that my friends know what that involves so they can decide if they want to join in or not. It is like reading the game rules before playing!

Enthusiastic: Consent should be excited and full of joy! If Percy is bouncing with joy and says, “Yes, let’s ride!” that means he is really in the mood to play. If he just shrugs, then I know he might not be so excited, and that is a signal to check in with him.

Specific: Consent is not a blanket “yes” for everything. Just because Percy agrees to one ride does not mean he is ready to or wants to play wild rodeo unicorn! Each activity should be discussed and agreed upon separately, just like how each stuffie has their favorite games.

Now, let’s talk about limits, soft and hard. Limits are like friendly boundaries that help keep everyone safe and happy while playing.

Hard limits: These are things that are an absolute no-no. It is like when I say I do not want to be dressed up as a clown. If someone insists, I will definitely feel uncomfortable and run away to my secret hiding spot, don’t tell anyone but it is under the bed! Hard limits must always be respected.

Soft limits: These are things that someone might be hesitant about but could be open to exploring if they feel safe and supported. For example, Lilly might say, “I am not sure about jumping over Big Alphie, the elephant, but maybe if you help me practice and cheer me on, I might try when I am ready.” It is important to communicate openly about soft limits and respect them.

So, to tie everything together with my stylish bowtie, consent is the golden rule in any playful adventure, especially in BDSM and kink. It is essential for making sure everyone feels good, safe, and happy. Just like how I learned the hard way about respecting Percy’s and Lilly’s feelings, I don’t want any more broccoli, it is crucial to be aware of the F.R.I.E.S. method and understand limits. Remember, a fun and fulfilling experience happens when all friends feel included and respected.

Teds’ Tag-Along Thoughts

Hi again, friends! Remember, consent is the cuddly foundation that keeps our connections strong and our experiences safe. It is crucial to communicate openly and respect one another’s boundaries, especially in adult relationships. Just like I learned from my mishap with Percy and Lilly, understanding and honoring consent enriches every experience and keeps us safter, making it more enjoyable for everyone. So, let us snuggle up and think about our own experiences with consent!

What have you learned about consent and making a nice, soft space where everyone feels comfy and cared for? Have you ever had to put your paw down and say this is not for me?

Until next time, keep those plushie hearts open and those lines of communication clear!

Stay kinky and kozy,

❤Teds❤

©aplushperspective2024

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There is nothing better than Disney & Teddy snuggles!

Oh boy, let me tell you, today I’ve got this song stuck in my fluffy little head, you know the one: Let It Go from Frozen! I’ve been humming it all day, and it’s kind of perfect because it’s making me think about how awesome it is to just be yourself. My buddy Percy, the unicorn with the sparkliest mane ever, and Lilly Leap, the coolest frog around, are jamming out with me. We’re all swaying to the music and feeling the magic of it!

What really gets to me about this song is how it’s all about embracing your own quirks, your own individuality, no matter what anyone else thinks. It reminds me so much of my human, who's got this amazing balance of being both little and submissive. They shine by being exactly who they are, and it’s just wow. I see the same thing in all my friends, too, whether they’re plushies or humans. Every one of us has our own sparkle, our own way of being that just lights up the world in a different way. And isn’t that what makes everything so interesting?

So, tell me, what song makes you feel like the most empowered, unique version of yourself?

Let’s get that playlist going!

❤Teds❤

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Prince x The Revolution - Darling Nikki (QH) (Dirty)

Call me Darling...

Does anyone wanna play air guitar with me?

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Channeling my inner Dirty Diana cuz I am Michael Jackson bad..hehehe

Please be sure to visit Ted's @aplushperspective he loves having company!

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Isn't this super duper adorbs.

Well, hello there, peoples and fluff-filled friends! It’s Teds the Teddy Bear, and today, I’m here to introduce a song that always makes my stuffing feel extra cozy: Return to Pooh Corner by the wonderful Kenny Loggins. Now, if you haven’t heard this magical tune, you’re in for a treat, it’s like getting tucked in with a favorite blanket while being serenaded by the sweetest lullaby.

But first, I’ve got to tell you about the epic tea party I was invited to at Pooh Corner! Picture it: me, Winnie the Pooh, Piglet, and the whole gang gathered around the coziest table, surrounded by honey pots, mismatched tea cups, and a whole lot of laughter. I even brought my own tiny teacup, because let’s face it, you don’t show up to Pooh’s place without being prepared for a proper tea party.

We had scones (lots of honey, obviously), shared some grand adventures, and Pooh even let me borrow one of his extra scarves when the breeze picked up. It was the perfect blend of warm nostalgia and the feeling that, no matter how much time passes, there’s always room for a little more wonder.

And that’s exactly what "Return to Pooh Corner" feels like, a gentle reminder that it’s okay to return to those soft, sweet moments that make us feel safe and loved. Whether you’re a little, middle, or just a lover of beautiful melodies, this song will wrap you up in a big bear hug of comfort.

So, grab a cup of tea (or honey), snuggle up with your favorite stuffed friend, and enjoy "Return to Pooh Corner". I promise, it’s a musical journey you won’t want to miss.

❤Teds❤

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Lesser Spring

Autumn, Is a lesser Spring A most fragile awkward bloom Falling memories of momentary splendor Dripping rusted color It's lush verdure fades Forcing tender verdant blades to bleed inward The blustery blow of blighted breath Dries out insipid skies Fleshy pigments crushed haphazardly Into crackled dust, A seedling's Birthright & sacrament to lesser Spring

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The Velvet Season

You masquerade as Autumn

Sneaking kisses into the mild

Damp air

Fondling the fine hairs on fading

Farmer's tanned arms

You are the Velvet Season

A silk wrapping

of intricate design

You are the time

When leaves don finer vestments

Gilded in gold & flushed crimson

You are a sweet concoction of burning cedar

& gooey marshmallows during bonfire nights

While cold toes find refuge in the clumpy sand

I have harvested your ripened fruit

Bit deep into its fleshy goodness

Lapped up the sticky juice

Dribbling down my chin

I wave my blue & red stained fingertips

Proudly in the air

in honor of your sumptuous gifts

Hoping you will stay forever in season

Please stop by @aplushperspective and read some of his beartastic posts! If not he will put me in the corner.

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Saturday Sun

@withnailrules ty for an amazing song

"So Sunday sat in the Saturday sun & wept for a day gone by."

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Plushies have disagreements, too!

Hi again everyone, I am Teds and I am back for another of my bearly patented Teds’ Talks but before getting started you might be wondering why a stuffed bear is here and talking about kinky things, I mean I am a stuffie, so what could I know about BDSM? Well, the thing is my human is a submissive little/middle and if you do not know yet, littles/middles need a voice of reason sometimes and that’s my job in the stuffie family here, my human’s voice of reason which means I have lead to learn lots and lots about BDSM and kink. Some of my knowledge comes from what I have seen with my eyes when I have been moved off the bed and other parts have come from talking with my human while the other bits come from my research. Yes, stuffies do research, really we do. What do you think we do while the humans are at work forced to be adults? Okay, we might play a bit and in my case, watch a few Lifetime movies. Are Lifetime movies a fetish? Because if they are, I think it might be one of mine.

Enough about me, it is time to get into this Teds’ Talk and this time we are going to talk about how you, yes you, are a unicorn! Unicorns are magical and awesome, just like you. I am sure some of you reading this are saying no, I am not enchanting and amazing but I beg to differ, you are. Do not believe me? Ask your stuffies, they will tell you the same thing. So now that is out of the way, how did I get the idea to talk to you about unicorns?

So this week while my human was at work, Percy the unicorn and Lil Lilly Leap, the frog but not related to Kermit, were playing and I wanted to join in. Sometimes I can be a bit of an under-thinker and this is one of those times. Lil was riding Percy around and I wanted to go for a ride too, so I just jumped on, grabbed Percy by the horn, and hung on. This did not make Percy or Lil Lilly happy and they were mad, mad at me. Both of them told me that Percy did not consent to me jumping on riding him and I said I just wanted to join in on the fun too. Percy was the most understanding but explained all I had to do was ask before I jumped on.

I bet you are thinking this Teds’ Talk is going to be about consent, but Percy and I are going to do a Teds’ Talk about that sometime soon. Instead, the chat today is going to be about about LLL and unicorns! See I told Percy and Lil Lilly that I was just feeling super lonely and I thought that just jumping in and playing would make me feel loved and not alone while our human is at work. As soon as I said this I hads an brain wave!

First I apologized to Percy and Lil Lilly since I realized just how naughty I was and that I was going to have to confess to my parent when they came home. Do you think I will have to write lines, sit in the corner, or have to have broccoli for dinner? Can you do a bear a solid and comment at the end and pick between corner time or lines in the comment you leave to my human because I REALLY do not like broccoli and I hope you could leave a note to help me beg for no broccoli!

Sorry, I keep getting sidetracked or maybe veggie-tracked, but back to unicorns. See in BDSM good people that are dating matches are like unicorns, magical, enchanting, and very, very, very rare! Just to be clear, good people are not rare but the ones that are dateable are. Because you are reading this, Teds knows you are a unicorn of a person, magical and enchanting but because all of us unicorns are rare and kinktastic, it makes us susceptible to how I felt when Lil Lilly and Percy were playing, lonely, and left out.

If you are involved in or exploring BDSM and are single, I bet at times you feel a little lonely and left out too. I call that having LLL which means Lovelorn Loving Little but I know not everyone is a little or submissive but LLL sounds fun to say, so that is my word for this state of mind. We see those amazing partnerships, especially online, and long for that, sometimes even thinking “If only I had that, then I could…” Now sometimes when are LLL we do something that helps us feel better at the moment.

What is it that sometimes happens when we are LLL? Well, we find someone, often someone who is kinda rando, and weird but not in a way that enhances our weirdness. Did I mention we are all weird? Yup we are, everyone is weird, and when we find that someone special, they dig our weird and we theirs but when we are LLL, we might just attach to not feel lonely. So I want to tell you that it is bestest to wait for another unicorn or unicorns, if you are poly, to enter your life rather than jumping into a relationship.

See here is what can happen when we partner up because we are lonely:

Loneliness often pushes individuals to place unrealistic expectations on their partner, believing they will meet every emotional need. From my spot on the shelf, I see this happen when people feel empty inside. They hope their partner will fill the gaps, but it rarely works out that way. The partner, being only human, cannot possibly meet such high hopes. When these expectations are unmet, frustration and disappointment usually follow. People tend to forget that love is about sharing the load, not putting all the weight on one person.

In trying to keep a relationship intact, people sometimes give up parts of themselves that matter the most. From my cozy corner, I watch individuals set aside their values or let someone, not deserving, push them into actions that feel wrong, especially in the world of BDSM. They believe this will hold everything together, but over time, it builds resentment. That nagging feeling of having compromised too much lingers, leaving them dissatisfied. Respect for one’s boundaries should never be ignored, as doing so only leads to a slow drift away from true connection and trust.

In the quiet moments, I often see individuals rush into relationships, driven by the fear of being alone. They overlook important things, like whether their partner truly complements them or if their own needs are being met. From my little perch, it is easy to see how this happens. The desire for companionship clouds judgment and people jump in, hoping it will fill the void. But when the initial excitement fades, the mismatched pieces become clear. Without taking time to reflect, they end up feeling even more alone within the relationship than they did before.

In the search for companionship, people sometimes ignore the signs that something is not quite right. From what I learn online while my human is at work, I watch them overlook behaviors that should raise concern, especially in the world of BDSM. It can be tempting to focus on the good, to believe that things will get better, but these warning signs often signal deeper issues. When those red flags are ignored, things can quickly spiral into discomfort or even danger. In BDSM, trust and respect are everything, and neglecting to notice negative behaviors can lead to consequences that leave lasting scars, both emotional and physical.

Another thing my research has taught me is that when someone feels lonely they start to compare a partner who is not the right one to some perfect idea of what a relationship should be. These comparisons create an unrealistic standard, one that the partner can never reach. Over time, this leads to dissatisfaction, as they become more focused on what they think they are missing rather than appreciating what they have. The gap between expectations and reality grows wider, leaving them feeling more alone.

So what should you do about being lonely and kinky?

It is simple to me, go look in the mirror and when you do, see the unicorn in it. Yes, that flawed person with those things we do not like about ourselves from stretch marks, freckles, scars, or all the other things we can tell ourselves makes us unattractive. Forget all that, or try as best you can, and I know you can do a little bit of that. Remember we stuffies are smarter than you might think! What you need to see is a unicorn and know that you deserve another unicorn to make yourself truly happy.

In addition to getting your unicorn on, perhaps explore building connections with like-minded lifestyle friends while single. Submissives can bond with other submissives, while dominants can seek out fellow dominants. This creates a supportive environment where people understand each other’s roles and desires, helping them avoid rushing into a relationship just because of loneliness. These friendships offer a sense of belonging without the pressure, allowing for growth and patience in finding the right partner when the time comes.

Singlehood offers a unique opportunity to focus on personal growth, both within the lifestyle and beyond it. Rather than rushing into something, this time can be used to understand one’s desires and boundaries in BDSM, exploring what truly matters. Outside the lifestyle, it is also a chance to develop hobbies, skills, and emotional resilience. Focusing on self-improvement in every aspect of life creates a solid foundation for when the right relationship does come along. In this way, singlehood transforms from a period of waiting into a time of empowerment.

While it is very human to have that deep desire to connect, to find the one who understands their needs. In moments like this, it helps to remember the words of Rumi: "What you seek is seeking you." It serves as a reminder that while the loneliness feels endless, the right connection is out there, also searching. Patience becomes a friend, and the search feels less like a chase and more like a journey toward something mutual. Trusting that what is meant to come will find its way can ease the ache, allowing space for reflection and growth until that connection arrives.

So, fellow unicorns, the key is not to rush into relationships out of loneliness. Like I learned with Percy and Lil Lilly, respect, patience, and understanding make all the difference. Remember, you are rare and magical, deserving of someone who truly sees and cherishes that. Embrace this time to grow, connect with others in the lifestyle, and trust that the right partner, or partners, will find their way to you. Whether it takes time or happens tomorrow, the journey matters just as much as the destination. Just like Rumi said, what you seek is seeking you. Stay magical!

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Teds’ Tag-Along Thoughts

Hey there, unicorns! Teds here, thinking about something important. Have you ever felt like jumping into a relationship just to chase away that lonely feeling, only to find out it was not the right fit? How did you handle that? Maybe you have learned a thing or two about finding the balance between seeking someone special and staying true to yourself. Chat about how to manage that pesky loneliness without rushing into things that do not quite fit. Share your stories and tips on how to stay magical and true to yourself while waiting for the right connection to come along.

©TLK2024

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I want to say thank you to everyone for supporting my music posts & pics. You make a gurl feel really good. I hope you are having an awesome Sunday. Sending love & light.

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