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Merlin 3x02 The Tears of Uther Pendragon Part 2

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you ever have situations that make you want to take people by the shoulders and go "you are not 15 any longer. this behavior is no longer quirky and cute. it is exhausting for you and everyone else to act like a teenager you haven't been in a decade or longer. knock it the fuck off"

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Outfits Angelina Jolie wore in Mr. & Mrs. Smith (2005)

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I don't mean any of this in a weird way but if we're interested in breaking down binaries, we can't cling onto the binary of cis versus trans. If gender expectations are as constrictive as we say they are, then this imagined class of people who are okay with gender expectations 100% of the time with no complications is just that. Imagined. It's similar to "neurotypical" as an imagined class of people who are completely comfortable with the social and mental expectations of their jobs and would never understand what it's like to get overwhelmed or feel out of place. The unintended implication is an obsession with labelling and pathologizing that says that it's not gender or workplace norms that need to be interrogated, it's you.

The truth is that you can be outside the binary without formally committing to calling yourself nonbinary. I am a cis gay man who feels most comfortable and affirmed when I'm free to wear earrings and garments I bought in the "women's" section. I tell people my pronouns are he/him because it's the simplest explanation, but they/them and even she/her are comfortable, even validating, in the right circumstances. There are a lot of cis gay men just like me. Am I actually nonbinary and just in denial? No. Being a gay man is deeply meaningful to me. Am I encouraging nonbinary to start calling themselves cis and questioning whether they're actually nonbinary? No, and I feel more comfortable in my own manhood knowing I have the option to leave. I just want us all to define ourselves on our own terms. I want celebrate common ground and shared queerness with trans people and not have to overstate our differences. We treat it as a political and moral obligation to fine tune our labels for the sake of establishing who's allowed to say what, who's allowed to relate to who, and I have to ask: Are we committed to breaking down boundaries or not?

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cinematic parallels .• * :☆: °

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every time the mcr song gets to the guitar solo i remember that love is real. love is stored in the ray toro

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Art by The Unclean

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and can we just talk about how badass the name donovan rocker is??? and it suits lou so well. i know everyone on this show has a Cool Name but this one is just soooo… you know?

like yeah. that’s a rocker.

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strong, confident, and stupid is the total package in a woman if i’m being honest

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“i must be faking this for attention” thinks the girl who isn’t even telling anyone about it

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I need to know what year this is because i’m actually so feral for this era of frank.

please for the love of god if you have more pictures GIVE THEM TO ME.

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sorry if i was weird last night it’s just that i’m weird pretty much every night actually

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Hannibal's love confessions to Will

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ill be real the "poly people are uglyyy" thing just feels like cope? like theyre in a polycule. they have directly proven that multiple people find them hot enough to want to be in a relationship, often sexual, with. you have what? one single Monogamous Jessica, and you're terrified she'll leave you as soon as she sees a rooster with bigger tail feathers?

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I had to learn literature for my exams but I decided to draw this tiny cutie man