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Beta Lotad

I figured I'd make models of some of the beta Pokémon from the teraleak since there are a lot of cute ones. First is beta Lotad! 🪷

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I love Clown Corps so much.

Thank you @demilypyro for introducing this masterpiece

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I have found this to add to my nefarious collection!

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Hey, you, do you want some actually useful chastity/self-control advice I learned?

Basically it boils down to the fact that there are suppsedly 8ish different types of intimacy in relationships (not just romantic ones, though the romantic ones have 8 and non-romantic ones have 7).

1) physical intimacy: basically the feeling of “I like this person as a human and want to be around them” and it gets stronger the more you get to know someone.

2) aesthetic intimacy: when you and the other person have stuff in common that you can talk about/have the same concept of what is good and beautiful

3) recreational/social/experiential intimacy: the feeling of spending quality time with someone doing something you enjoy

4) intellectual intimacy: sharing conversations with someone that are intellectually stimulating and enjoyable for you

5) spiritual intimacy: when you’re able to share your ethics, morals, and faith with someone positively

6) emotional intimacy: when you allow yourself to be vulnerable with someone else and vice versa

7) affectional intimacy: non-sexual physical contact with someone else (e.g. hugs or holding hands)

8) sexual intimacy: shared consensual sexual experiences with someone else

So while you may physically feel arousal, sometimes it’s actually your body’s way of telling you that you’ve also been neglecting some of the other 7 areas in your romantic and/or non-romantic relationships with others. And even if it is truly a sexually intimate experience your body is after, actively attempting to strengthen one of the other 7 in your relationships may actually help distract you from the 8th.

TL;DR: focus on other areas of intimacy in friendships/romantic relationships to help you stay chaste

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Self-Soothing

Self-Soothing skills are mostly physical techniques that use different senses. This is one of the distress tolerance skills. Different things work for different people, but the goal is to use one (or more) of the five senses to give yourself a comfortable experience when you are feeling in distress.

(These are also really great ideas for grounding!)

Here are some examples to try, but don't hesitate to add your own!

Vision:

Go visit a place you love (a museum, aquarium, maybe the beach, or a trail/view point you love.)

Watch a slideshow of your favourite pictures

Look at an aesthetic collage/board you made

Light a candle and watch the flame flicker and the wax gradually melt.

Find a video you like like a wood stove burning, or maybe rain or snow falling.

Touch:

Use a stim toy that you enjoy that has an interesting texture (slime, soft things, etc).

Pet or cuddle your pet!

Hold a favourite blanket, or maybe a stuffed animal.

Take a warm bubble bath

Lay in the grass

Hearing:

Put on your favourite music

Use an auditory stim toy you enjoy (pop tubes, snapperz, etc.)

Listen to nature sounds

Listen to your pet snoring

Go to a park and listen to the sounds of children laughing and playing

Taste:

Have a nice cup of tea, hot chocolate, coffee, etc

Suck on a hard candy

Chew on gum

Eat one of your favourite snacks

Cook a favourite meal

Go grab a favourite drink from somewhere

Smell:

Light a scented candle and focus on the smell

Use incense

Use your favourite body spray/perfume

Go for a walk somewhere where you can smell something you enjoy like the ocean, or fresh baking at the bakery

Bake or cook something to smell it in the oven

Set up a new air freshener

We sometimes feel like we don't deserve these comforts, or it's hard for us to self-soothe on our own without someone to help us. You absolutely deserve these comforts, and while it's valid to get help from others, being able to work on self-soothing for ourselves can be really beneficial to us and our relationships. I made a deal with myself that I will try self-soothing first and then reach out for help if needed after I make a solid effort on my own. The comfort that I still have the option to reach out makes me more willing to try to self-soothe on my own.

If possible, make yourself a goal to try a new self-soothing technique a week to try when you aren't in distress to see how it feels! Trying these distress skills when we aren't in distress can be really helpful to us being able to use them in distress. When you are trying them, make sure to try and focus solely on the technique. If you are using a taste technique, focus only on the taste and enjoyment of whatever it is. (Using mindfulness techniques to achieve this can be helpful!)

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The other day I saw someone being like “if your man owns a Sylveon, that’s not a man, that’s a boy” and GIRL, owning a Sylveon means HE LOVED THAT EEVEE SO MUCH HIS LOVE WAS POWERFUL ENOUGH TO MAKE HIM EVOLVE!!! Is that not the energy you want in your man????

Men with friendship/affection level up pokemons are it and I WONT hear otherwise

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Eeveelotions... individuals pieces are under cut :]

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May I offer you a Sylveon in this trying time?

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It's been a rough week and I needed to draw something that makes me happy.

Check out my other sites here: [LINK]

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….well, she’s got the spirit!

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This is Fuchsia! :D

She is extremely friendly, passionate, strong, and brilliant. She's got a good heart, incredible mind, and a deep love of pink.

Bonus:

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here are goofy little bits from Clown Corps :D

This clown does not have any dialogue as of yet, but I love him :)

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This is the main protagonist of Clown Corps: Mary McBell! :D

I will occasionally be putting clown faces over dialogue or characters to minimize spoilers.

This character is very silly. She also has strong principles and is very clever and compassionate. I put mainly silly aspects of her here because I don't want to undermine the way the narrative shows the character develop, but she has some very cool moments.