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It really really ought to be standard practice to assume the transfeminine people you meet are NOT okay with being "guy"d or "dude"d or "bro"d until proven otherwise instead of placing the onus on the minority to speak up. Really not that hard.

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never underestimate my ability to stay tf home

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evil wizard voice: i too have a "doom scroll"

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Honestly it boils down to reparenting yourself & rewiring your own neuronal pathways & telling yourself a firm “stop” when you notice your mind slipping down negative loopholes & being present in the moment & enjoying being mid task rather than waiting for it to end & not thinking of inertia as your baseline and natural way of living

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reblog to diminish the horrors from the person you reblogged from

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Reblog to open a rail line from your blog to the person you reblogged this from

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flat chested girlies are not nearly as represented as they should be in character design, but i think a very underrated body type to use in character design is girl whose chest is flatter than her tummy

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Things horny cannibals say after a kill.

i can turn anything in to metaphorical sex in my mind.. beware i have a literature critics heart

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if you’re ever in the position to choose between giving up and accepting defeat, and actually trying to fight the ancient unkillable god that is about to peel apart reality like a string cheese, remember this: scientifically speaking, you might as well give it a shot!

1.there were trees at the beginning of the world! there were trees so long ago that they predate bacteria that causes wood to decay. when a tree fell, it would lie there in stasis and there wasn’t any way of breaking down wood xylem on a molecular level in that way.

2. it seems obvious to say, but wood eating bacteria are literally incapable of comprehending what they’re breaking down. It’s just not information conciously available to a microorganism. they don’t know what they’re deconstructing, where it came from, bacteria have no way to even fathom the existence of a tree as a concept.

3. Regardless of the facts above, the world we live in today is a world where wood inevitably decomposes

it is worth fighting the unkillable god no matter how pointless it seems. it is worth taking the risk even though youre trying to accomplish something impossible. the reality in which you live was also once reality in which trees didn’t rot. You live in a reality that allows for existence before the possibility of destruction. you live in a reality where uncomprehending microbes break down matter that is so far beyond the scope of their comprehension that it feels comical to specify something so obvious. you live in a reality that occasionally allows unshakeable physical truths to be altered with no warning.

It is worth fighting the unkillable god because trees are so old they predate the source of their destruction, and it still did not spare them. It is worth fighting the unkillable god because bacteria rots unthinkingly, because there is room in our cosmos for destruction without comprehension on the part of the destroyer. It is worth fighting the unkillable god because now and then reality retracts the promise of immortality without fanfare, and when that happens there is no mercy for the ancient. the unmaking is not softer for the desecrators ignorance. for all things, existence is endless until the exact point where it ends.

so you might as well try to kill the unkillable god. it doesn’t seem likely, but at the beginning of the world, trees didn’t rot. so you never know! you never know

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today i took diced green peppers, seasoned them with salt and fresh black pepper and baked it at 8000 degrees for 22 hours. i make this whenever i want pile of smoldering ash.

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gloria in excel sheets deo

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fig.1 fig.2 fig.3

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reblog to make your own boobs bigger

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I've mentioned it before, but my mom only told me that I'm autistic at age 19 as a way to say I couldn't be trans.

Not telling your kid they have a learning disability, chronic illness, mental illness etc. so they can “feel normal” actually does the opposite. They will not feel normal if they do not have the context to understand that their normal will be different from that of their peers.

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Opening slots for two cheap comms^^

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"This is going to be used against all trans people [...]"

I only have one quibble here. It has been being used against us for a long time. My extremely offline (yes, offline) mom used it against me when I came out over ten years ago. "But you can't be trans; you're autistic and can't understand your feelings well!"

Terfs often refer to this idea of a young autistic lesbian girl who gets tricked into transitioning by today's ideology. This is very often used against trans men, especially here in the UK, but not always.

There is a high profile example of it happening to a trans woman right now, in which Elon Musk talks about his trans daughter as a "gay and slightly autistic" kid and therefore "not a girl".

(She spoke out against it and obviously explains his whole account of the entire thing is fake)

This is going to be used against all trans people, and it would not surprise me if the "autistic gay boys" narrative got more common because of this. It is fucked up and not okay.

Trans women are not confused boys. Trans men are not confused girls. Autistic people know their own identity.

We have to join in solidarity against this.