horseshoecrabman

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Why are you lgbtq+? wrong answers only GO

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new tarot card "fuck your entire life" and its a guy being attacked by devils and flaming skulls and wild animals and screaming and fire everywhere

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If you like frogs. Or possums. Or cool builds. Or happiness. This is the video for you.

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Please…

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I feel like too many consent-related posts focus too much on giving and getting consent, and not making sure that people feel comfortable not consenting. We talk too much of consent as if it is a given, as if you just have to ask and then you’ll get it. 

like, there are so many things that boil down to “before you have sex, ask for consent” rather than “don’t assume you’re about to have sex unless you know for sure that the other party/parties want to, and even then they could change their minds”.

Which is just really unhelpful. The whole point of consent shouldn’t be “you should always ask for it and then you can have care-free sex”. That still assumes that you’re going to have sex, when the whole point of asking what people want to do is that it should be possible to say no.

Consent and dissent are both equally valuable. It’s OK if someone asks you if you want to do something, and you say no. And whether you say no for today, for a week or forever, it’s all fine.

Because you know that there are going to be people who think they’re so ~progressive~ and so ~feminist~. when they ask their partner(s) if they want to have sex, but then won’t be able to handle the word “no”.

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straigbt up "under it" and by "it" well lets jusr say, my blankeys

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i cant stop saying "grisp it"

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Long council meetings.

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Found my new favorite thing to see whale sharks do

:0

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putting the jarchivist in my clothes

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Léo Forest Leo Forest (b. 1985, based Paris, France) - Chat, 2023, Drawings: Pencil, Charcoal, Pastel on Paper

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tumblr is so awesome. you can be a gay leftist with 97 mental illnesses and still look like a complete normie because you think marx was maybe wrong about some things and you don't want to fuck the computer

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starting tomorrow i will be a real person in this world

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Human / Angel / Hope / Symbol / Demon

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Barn Owl (Tyto alba), fledgling chick hauling ass across a lawn, as it was learning to fly, family Tytonidae, order Strigiformes, Netherlands

photograph by Hannie Heere