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since it’s a scary time to be trans: refuge restrooms is an app which maps gender-neutral/single-stall restrooms. it’s community-mapped, so it’s possible you might be the first person to log the restroom locations, but hopefully it’ll help some people.

please reblog this post if you’ve got trans followers. stay safe.

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There is no escape, no recall or intervention can work in this place

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Also, I think we are officially in the "people are exaggerating heavily the vibeshift" at this point - presidential elections are always a big deal! Losers weep, winners cheer, people start going to town with their agendas, etc. I certainly think on specific places in social media you are seeing things like politicos doing pretty wild swings, there is some new juice there for sure worthy of explanation. But most of society is responding not that differently from many previous elections (each is different ofc, 2020 for example was, well let's say a weird time). Don't overcorrect on what a few dozen business CEOs and "the blogosphere" is doing.

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Do the transandrophobia guys know that androphobia is a specific phobia given to traumatized women as a diagnosis over actual PTSD fully and ONLY as a means to oppress women? Or do you think they just appreciate the irony since they’re already massive misogynists.

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as a tgirl of chad experience i dont have an irrational hatred of all men but Most of them i do not trust further than i can throw. lotta y'all have never been in the ingroup for locker room talk pretransition and it shows. they're fucking pigs lol. many times even the Nicest, Most Harmless, Women Respecting™ dude you know will still not be willing to examine his relationship to patriarchy

and this has nothing to do with butch transfem masculinity, just trust that i'm not talking about you lmao. if you get buttmad that i'm shittalking men while you're categorically not a man then what . are you doing. examine your selfsecurity. masculinity =/= Manhood™

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baffles me that they forget that Terfs specifically have it out for transfems and in fact love men and they see nothing of value in trans women and want them dead. To call a trans woman a terf as a TME person is fucking makes me become the joker

the amount of people who are looking for any excuse to call trans women radfems (and worse) continues to be sickening

the “thanks for saying what we’re all thinking”-ass stuff is some of the worst. same old shit.

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i was never into f1nnster, but i do occasionally think about how QUICK people went from posting about her pretty regularly to never posting about her again is crazy

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you can make a separate post instead of just taking somebody else's thing and modifying it quite rudely. I really doubt OP is bothered by people having headcanons about this

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DEEP ASS THOUGHTS (YOU WILL ONLY GET IT WHEN YOUR HIGH)

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The 13th century Swedish peasant boy who's crashing on my couch keeps eating my leftover General Tso's. I always tell him he can order his own but he's all "oh no, just wonton soup is fine with me, it reminds me of winters at home by the fire" but when I open the fridge the next day, what do I see? Not my leftovers! I don't even think they had wontons in medieval Sweden.

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I want to get this post away from the discourse its attached to so here I go

it makes me want to scream how TERF is just used as a Generic Transphobe word and how yall think "watch out for TERF rhetoric" is referring to shit like "men have privilege over women".

The core belief of TERFism is that trans women are not victims of misogyny but perpetrate it. TERFs did not arrive at this position by Hating Men Sooo Much, they arrived at this position because transmisogyny (the image of the transfeminized person as a sexualized and depersonalized object) is a force that all of us are exposed to from childhood, and it is very easy for people to prey on that bias and incorporate it into their worldview.

If you're arguing that you have it so much worse then transfems because you're Biologically Female while they'll never really Get feminism and gender, then congratulations! You are doing a TERFism. Yes, even if you're trans.

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This is an incredible story.

A man assassinates a former prime minister and gives his demands to the government who turn around and go “Actually yeah, these are quite a good ideas.”

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omg did not expect to see “we have mainstream research evidence for transmisogyny now” this morning but happy friday?? thanks dr. devon price for pre-digesting it

and of course there’s the angle of, well lmfao yes trans women have been saying this in mainstream print since at least 2007 and doubtlessly in other fora for much longer, but sometimes an argument from authority has more force and how do we emotionally reckon with ongoing lack of agency in conversations about us, but i digressss

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> “mannish features”

> look inside

> literally just common physical traits among women of colour

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not to derail too hard but hate the "the only queer places I trust are the ones with a pet straight cis guy" bc 9/10 times its a transbian who isn't out yet and is being treated like a dude for no reason (and I do mean its)

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I will almost certainly get huge amounts of hate for this but since I never check this blog any more IDC.

There are, currently, five large active wars. They are, in order of how many people have been killed in the war (excluding murders and gang fights, unless they involve paramilitary groups)

1) Sudan

2) an ongoing war across much of northern africa, which has been going on for over 20 years

3) Myanmar]

4) Ukraine

5) Palestine

these are not the total casualties across the entire war. these are just 2024 deaths.

There is an ongoing assault against gay rights, and specifically trans rights, across the US

So why the fuck is every pride parade, celebration, and especially protest less about queer rights and safety and about Palestine? None of the other wars get a mention. The very thing we are supposed to be fighting for barely gets a mention. The only thing that gets brought up, and by brought up I mean the only chants I have heard in pride parades are about Palestine, and often involve white queers chanting counter-genocide slogans (not asking for a cease fire, but demanding that anyone not Palestinian to be chased into the sea).

I am not justifying what is happening in Gaza. Netanyahu and most of his government should be tried and convicted for crimes against humanity. There should be a war crimes tribunal to investigate the behavior of the Israeli military, and I would expect a lot of convictions from it. But the way it has become the only cause allowed to be talked about, the way that no other war is seen as important, the way that this one war, which is being used to paint Biden as a monster that cannot be voted for, which is a tactic supported by the russians to get Trump reelected and to distract from their own war crimes and also by the evangelical right who actively want a nuclear war to start in Israel and escalate until everything on earth is dead, is somehow a cause celebre for the left.

Let me reiterate. What is going on in Gaza is horrific. I don’t want to minimize that.

but by focusing on that, we empower fascists across the world to gain power. Letting Trump be elected because you don’t like Biden’s stance on that one war will result in more deaths across the world, and that includes the war you want to get him elected over. Do you really think that the convicted criminal who, against years of US policy, moved the embassy to Jerusalem, the most significant move by any world power to signal support for the right-wing part if Israel, will somehow broker a peace in the war they helped to escalate?

the teal deer here isn’t that we should stop protesting the war in Palestine. It’s simple a plea to keep it in perspective, and not support fascists by making it the only thing you care about