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Chapter 2: Sex and periods

Mr.Naive: So how are you?

She: I’m having blood running down from my uterus.

Mr.Naive: You are on your…..

She: Name it has. Like you do.

Mr.Naive: Haan but Bhaiya baju mein bethe hain. It won’t look good.

She: What would not look good? The typing? Is he reading your chat?

Mr.Naive: No. But I’m not hiding it as well.

She: So WHAT! It’s a normal thing. Your mom has it. Your dadi had it. Tabhi tum paida ho pae. It’s period. Menstruation. It’s natural and normal. Treat it as it is.

Mr.Naive: …..

*Caption*-

If I make you to read a headline in front of your parents:

*Centre has cut off the GST from Women Sanitation Pads.*

Some/most of us will hesitate. If you will too hesitate,  Indian ‘youth-society’ is not as much developed as we say it is. The fault is not ours. From the day of our birth we are told that talking about such things in public is not good, and it’s uncomfortable and inappropriate. It’s personal, ofcourse. But we created animosity  towards awareness. Due to that, if a girl tries to express her feelings to a boy about her periods, he will ensue it into sex appeal in the conversation because the boy never thought that talking about this is normal. No daughter can talk about this to her father. It will turn out to be the most embarrassing phase of her life. And vice-versa. Thousands reasons can be listed. Majorily liket: Lack of education, involvement of sex, polarization between cultural teachings and sex education, decreasing the disparity among opposite sex, limitations of relationships etc., resulting to rise in illogical taboo regarding men for menstruation cycle and sex education.

My point is, we have to put forth our efforts to eradicate these stereotype. This mentality is deeply rooted in our unconscious mind and, hence, will require a lot of conscious efforts.

-Firstly, whenever you come across such topics, feel no shame or guilt to know more about it. You feel comfortable with someone to talk about this? GO AHEAD. The more we consciously educate ourselves about it, the more we will unconsciously treat it as a normal and natural thing. And, of-course, that will show the kind of maturity that a girl wants to see in society.

Second. If you are raising a child, you must be aware that she/he is going to study about reproduction, menstruation cycle, sex organs from class 8th onwards by our Indian education system. But it will be merely a study and not education. Until the right kind of awareness is provided to the kid. That’s the age when you should also start educating your child about this. It’s better that the child learn about such personal and natural things through teachers and parents, on whom she/he can rely. And not from people of same age,, who themselves don’t know how to maturely deal with such things and hence get familiarize with the sexual topics in a dirty and bad sense.

In our society, also the previous ones, we haven’t treated  sex education as a basic education. Every generation in their middle age have various habits and mentality deeply rooted in them and with that mentality they form a society. So we can just change and establish the mentality of ours and the coming generation respectively. So we better focus on that. It’s one of the steps towards building a better world for progeny and beyond. Especially for girls, who will have a gift from ancestors to live in a society where rape, murder, harassment will be a crime, not just as per law, but as per conscience.

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Chapter 1: YOLO

Mr.Naive:I'm feeling suicidal! I have no parents. My only love left me. I'm lost. Every step I take I see nothing but failure. I just can't take this depression, anxiety, suffocation in my living anymore! This all have to end. END!

Writer:Let me tell you a true story Mr.Naive- In Mumbai, India, a girl was born who lost both her parents at an early age. Sadly, in order to survive she sold her assets and end-up in a brothel. At the age of 16 she got pregnant, having no idea of infant's father, but still managed to give birth and feed the baby-born by giving her own share. Few months after giving birth, poverty cast a shadow over them, the infant died due to starvation. Then after other couple of months the lady found herself suffering from AIDS and she also end-up in ashes. DEAD!

Mr. is your life worse than this strong fighting lady's? Do you really have even half the courage she had? If you are really feeling suicidal then before taking any stupid step just read such tragedies. You will realize what you REALLY have in this life that others can just dream of.

Mr.Naive:But I see people over social media what a beautiful life they have. They never work hard as much I do but still they are having a wonderful life. WHY ONLY ME?

Writer:Oh poor Mr.Naive! You really think the social media is a true reflector of our life! TRUST ME We are no better than you. No matter how much amusing, envious our profile may look like, we all empathize the same depression and struggle at various points in our life. Crying to make it better. Literally what we show on social media is BULLSHIT compared to what we really go through in life. Mr.Naive, I may never understand what you are going though but I want you to know: THIS WORLD NEEDS YOU and you have SO MUCH GOOD IN YOU,  which this world can't bear to loose. Everyday a hungry baby, frozen father, infectious mother and scare humanity is dying somewhere. Delay your silly suicide plan for 1 week and from the 1st hour of that week to the last just enroll yourself in helping those who need your help and ask nothing in return. The smile of hope and goodness in humanity on their face will give you a feeling that no million dollars can. At the end of 1st day only you will call Suicide a WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIT! There is no higher goal than the goal of helping others with no expected returns.

Mr.Naive:What about the loss of my love? I can't imagine a future without her. She was all I had!

Writer: Psycho! In this world YOU ARE ALL YOU HAVE. No one else. Sometimes not even your parents. Giving up your life for some years of Baby-Darling shit is not just a stupidity, IT'S A SERIOUS MENTAL ILLNESS. When your soul will see the true loved ones crying around your corpse, you will feel nothing except regret. But that late craving to live again will be worthless. Think about it. Create a dent on this universe Fighter. I need you. We need you. Talk to us, share your problems with us. Our one conversation may result in saving a life of another Steve Jobs, A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, Mother Teresa that this planet was about to loose. You are really strong Mr.Naive. It demands courage to share such feelings with someone. I'm really proud of you.

Mr.Naive: Thank you for showing me what my blind open eyes couldn't see. Please tell me, CAN I HELP YOU IN SOMETHING?

Writer: Yes! Help me to spread this message of hope to other latent, vivid souls scrounging for a ray of hope. Tell them they are awesome. No one is above, no one is below. We all are together:)

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