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Fatherly: Why Parents Should Raise Kids to Be Generalists, Not Specialists.

https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/parents-raise-kids-generalists-not-specialized/

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BILL NYE can’t stress the importance of Climate Change enough

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You stole my heart and now I know it lives in a far better place.

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If I had known my future would be like this, I would have got here sooner.

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Multiverse Migration

According to the Many World's theory of the multiverse interpretation, every decision you make spawns and new world. Maybe. Maybe not.

I prefer to think of the significant changes in my life. The Big Ones. Choosing to join the military instead of pursuing college. Getting married to someone completely opposite to my demeanor. Self destructing my life in a midlife crisis.

How many major life decisions have shifted my consciousness from one world to another? How many have been events outside my control? Did a different version of me really die when I almost drown in that pool as a child? Did a parachute not open when I was in the Army? For that matter, how many close calls have I had with sickness, or just choking on a hot dog? No one knows.

And no one can know, no one can say for certain. I do know that where I am now is not where I started in life. Some might argue that I have learned from past mistakes or evolved. It doesn't seem that way to me. I may be a different person than I was twenty, even one year ago, but I am still the same. At least where it matters.

And what if I tried to calculate every single event that lead me to this place in my life? I would go insane. What if I had done things differently? Zigged instead of zagged? Turned left instead of right? No one knows.

The laws of physics seem to hold true. Gravity still exists. The sun rises in the east and sets in the west. Up is up. Down is down. Water is still wet. Fire still burns. What has changed here?

Everything. And yet, nothing. Maybe it's just my perception that has changed. Maybe I'm more in touch with who I am, who I want to be in this new reality. I don't know.

"There are no mistakes in this universe."

Nothing happens by chance. But chance brought me here. I took a chance, and it may be the best damn decision I ever made. Everything is just like the world I left. They even have adapters that match my phone! But I'm not the same person that left over there. I am better for it.

And I can't wait to see what comes next.

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Did not expect that

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LOL'd sooo hard

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What I love, is that she has answers to questions I haven't asked yet.

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Unaware this was out in the wild. Or at least on this site.

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QUIZ: What is your Love Language? - Psych2Go

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My kid can be such a pain. She likes to pick up my phone and look through it. But dad, you always have internet access, she says. Maybe it's different with kids today, but she doesn't always respect personal boundaries and privacy.

I started changing how I use my phone when she's around. I changed all my passwords, which is pretty good advice to do periodically anyway. I log out of all my social media and email accounts when I'm done with them. I even changed the PIN on my phone in case I forget and set it down somewhere. It feels weird when you have to treat a loved one like a stranger, but that's where we are right now in our relationship.

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I will lend you my strength, as long as you give it back when I need it most.

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Conflicted

I'm so conflicted right now. Part of me just wants to take you in my arms and kiss you. I want to feel your lips against mine. I want to run my tongue down the side of your neck and squeeze your ample breasts. I want to trace your curves with my hands. I want to massage your buttocks while I lap at your nipples. I want to slowly slip my fingers between your legs, questing for your wetness. I want to rub your clitoris while you moan in my ear. I want to feel you grind your hips against my hand as you gasp for breath. I want to hear you whisper how much you want me.

Then there is the other part of me. I need to wrap my fingers in your hair and pull your face to mine. I need to push my tongue deep into your mouth. I need to throw you down on the bed and push your legs apart. I need to hold your wrists while lick your wet pussy. I need to suck on your clit and feel you writhe in ecstacy. I need to turn you over on all fours and rub my hard dick against every crack and crevice. I need to ram my throbbing cock into your hot cunt. I need to slap your ass as you try to break free. I need to hear you scream for more as I shoot my hot load inside you. I need to hear you moan how much you need me.

I'm so conflicted right now. Do I try for what I want or get what I need?

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