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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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blow us all away [reprise]

original story tw; death, angst, blood, swearing

Envy winced, pressing their hand tightly against the gaping hole in her midsection. It hardly did anything, as the hole was as if you’d taken a cookie cutter and slid it through her stomach. “sorry,” they mumbled, gritting their teeth and attempting to stumble to her feet in an almost frantic attempt to assure her lover that she was just fucking peachy, although it appeared fruitless.

“Envy!” Scarlett was once again launched into unimaginable panic, as which seemed to be the norm in recent times. “Envy- fuck, sit down!”

They gave a weak attempt at a laugh, leaning heavily against a nearby tree as their entrails slowly untangled themselves and tried to escape her body. “Scar, beautiful, I’m fine!”

“No the hell you’re not, Reynolds,” she scolded, tugging anxiously at a loose strand of platinum hair and crouching over the hunched form of her lover. “Deep breaths if you can, please.”

Envy, though they could hardly inhale without a sharp pain shooting through her body, obediently sucked in as much air as she could, although a soft curse came out on their exhale.

“I’m sorry,” they repeated, letting their head thunk against the tree bark. “so fuckin’…sorry.”

Sleep was so tempting, wasn’t it? God, what wouldn’t they give to just pass out. But as her eyelids fluttered, a shaky breath passing her lips, a choked sob could be heard.

“Scarlett,” they protested weakly, trying to sit up and comfort the trembling feline. “Dove, don’t cry.”

“That’s rich coming from you,” she scoffed, ripping off her jacket to throw together a makeshift tourniquet. “you’re the one fucking dying.”

“m’not gonna die, Scar.”

“By Harmony, be realistic!” she shouted. "We're in the middle of a goddamn war, you're a target for a stupid fucking cult, and my death would be considered an assassination. Elius is half-dead, and he's only not six feet under because you let Vixen take over and sap all of your energy. I appreciate the optimism, but shut the fuck up." Looking almost dejectedly around at all the carnage surrounding them, she saw corpses, already beginning to turn waxy pale and yellowish, blood, various bits of metal and other industrial shit.

Scarlett Edwards would be damned if this was her fiance’s grave.

Envy fell silent at the yelling, biting their tongue to stifle the snarky remark that threatened to spill along with the blood slowly pooling in her mouth. “I…apologize.”

“Not the time,” she spoke through gritted teeth, picking up her partner as if they weighed nothing- drawing a slight yelp from the fox.

“I can walk on my own!” “No.”

Once again hushed by the almost venomous tone of Scarlet’s voice, Envy gave up and let herself fall limp in her arms.

Just a moment’s rest wouldn’t…kill her.

So Envy Reynelds fell asleep.

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*me into a mic*: “Tonks is a lesbian”

*everyone boos* “they’re right” someone says, and that person is Remus Lupin

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YO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

IMPORTANT!

It’s the no-internet dinosaur’s birthday!!

Turn off your internet! He has a hat!!

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i want to write so bad i don't have fuckin ideas

i need more moonwater, i’ve consumed everything. send help (or fics) 🥺🙏

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ok lets goo (until 1st of october)

1000 - ill drink enough water

2000 - ill continue writing my novel

7000 - i will keep enough time off media to focus on studying

not tagging anyone because you all are so fast✌😔✌

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nuh uh. grEy x sirius black cannon

i could treat sirius so good guys gray x sirius black canon

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deadass he would

Just accidentally said moon killer instead of moon water and then sat there and thought about Barty trying to blow up the moon for Remus.

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HE DID???

RAHHHH JESSE WELLES JUST RELEASED ALL HIS SONGS ON SPOTIFY I'M GONNA IMPLODE

I'm so happy I hate listening to music on YT cuz I don't have premium but now I can listen to him without interruption 😁😁😁

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reblog for larger sample size ^_^

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Hey :)

I was wondering what app/website you use to make your backgrounds?

Thanks,

Anaon <3

hey !!! no problem-- i use pinterest's shuffles <333

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awwwww !!! @onesarcasticturnip vegetable friend @pxnguin218 best buddy @sardine-the-degenerate new comrade

Reblog game. You tag the people that you can think of on the top of your head and use two words to use to describe them (people you follow, moots, or followers)

@zeroisreallygood love life

@slasher-jax baby boy

@th3r4t48 cool person

@demikhaotix friend person

@oh-shit-i-spilled-my-genderfluid nice friendly

@sweetpayaso clown dude

@robertskyswifeyyy simply girl

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made this gem on Sunday. had to wait all week to post it

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moonwater phone background i made. if you've any idea who made the art PLEASE tell me, i made it on pinterest shuffles. if you are an original artist and want me to take it down i gladly will

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wolfstar phone background i made

if you've any idea who made the art PLEASE tell me, i made it on pinterest shuffles. if you are an original artist and want me to take it down i gladly will. all of my backgrounds are free to use

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intro post n shit

hey!! i'm grey

i make phone backgrounds and i write. if you've got any requests i'll gladly write for them or make a bg for you!!

what i write for:

marauders era ships-

i'm not all that into jegulus and i don't know much about dorlene/marlily, but anything else is fine!! wolfstar, moonwater, bartylus, prongsfoot- fucking love prongsfoot actually marauders era x reader? sure! marauders: remus lupin x m!reader OR g/n!reader

sirius black x m!reader OR g/n!reader james potter x g/n!reader, f!reader, or m!reader peter pettegrew x g/n!reader slytherin skittles: regulus black x m!reader OR g/n!reader barty crouch jr x g/n!reader, f!reader, or m!reader evan rosier x g/n!reader pandora rosier x f!reader OR g/n reader dorcas meadows x f!reader OR g/n reader valkyries: lily evans x f!reader OR g/n reader mary macdonald (i don't know shit about her. working on it trust) marlene mckinnon x f!reader OR g/n!reader

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oh my god THE lexithwrites reblogs my post???

admitting smthn real quick !! i don't ship jegulus. zorry guys i js don't. i domt really ship jily either, but jegulus js isn't for me. i've not got a problem with it, but i much prefer bartylus OR moonwater. ofcoursethatdoesntmeanidontshipwolfstarwolfstarisfuckingcanonfightme