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focus on the 4d

All is already existing in the present, now moment we call 4D. It's just that your 3D physical mind and ego can't process, grasp, or understand that you have it in that moment. That's all the "delay" is. Because once it appears in your 4D consciousness, your 3D experience will have to conform. So yes once you claim it in the 4D, it is already yours in that moment.

I know that it can be hard for our minds to understand that nothing matters in the 3d but it's the truth. you can experience anything right now, in this moment in the 4d and the 3d has no choice but to reflect it.

identify yourself as the person who has it because you are and just know that it comes to the 3d. it doesn't matter anyway right? you don't want that thing, you don't need it because you can give it yourself at any given moment but yea, it's gonna come to the 3d at any given moment.

and remember, it's oke to have doubts you just need to learn how to get back to the state. take a deep breath, don't be hard on yourself, and remember who tf you are :)

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𝑺𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝑺𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚: 𝑰 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒇𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒚 𝑺𝑷 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂 𝑾𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒑𝒂𝒅-𝒆𝒔𝒒𝒖𝒆 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚

First and foremost, I would like to apologise for my inactivity ;w; I've been so focused on school, it was HECTIC and boy do I have a lot of success stories, this being one of them. So start of the school year, I wasn't planning on manifesting a boyfriend. I just wanted good grades, beauty and stuff. Long yapping session ahead!!

I was friends with this guy. Our whole friendship started because I was bored and wanted to play cupid (He liked another girl). So I was talking with him a lot, I was his right-hand woman. But this guy, he's not fond of making first moves but the girl isn't either. Long story short, he got rejected they didn't end up together. Let's call my SP "Coco" for good measure. You thought that was the end of it and we just remained friends? Wrong, I started developing feelings for him and womp womp (I actually thought he was physically attractive when I first saw him but backed off when I saw he liked another girl because I wasn't that attached yet). An even funnier story, we're in a four-person friend group. (2 boys and 2 girls), the other two are a couple. So our friend-group was more like a double date if we did end up together. Since my 18th birthday party was coming up, I had to pick a partner for the cotilion. And I picked him (He was convinced) and I even proposed a solo. So while we were practicing, we had lots of moments and I'm pretty clumsy, you can pretty much imagine that. There came our field trip. And it was mostly water sports. After that, we were all given free time to play in the pool for about two hours. I began carrying people randomly and they started doing the same to me. I actually carried Coco too and of course he carried me too. Around dismissal, I switched places with the other guy in our friend group and sat next to him. Average romance anime cliche moment, I fell asleep on his shoulder. To fast forward through, I confessed to him but he gave me a "You deserve better, I love you as a friend" but not a definite no. The rejection is implied but what does our LOA Barbie girlie do? We persist. That time wasn't the best, I was more than awkward around him but all I thought was, "This is for the plot" over and over again.

Like a Wattpad love story, it started picking up on the day of my 18th birthday, when we sang Photograph. Not relevant? It played our part in 18 Roses (In Philippine culture, it is customary for a girl to dance with 18 bachelors to signify her coming of age). And of course, I just had to experience all the cliche moments like him holding an umbrella over me, carrying my bag, going to get ice cream, walking somewhere and exchanging longing glances when the other wasn't looking and it all came down to a pool party we had when the school year ended. I got drunk (My dumbass thought the punch was orange juice and filled my cup all the way through) and I was just mostly chilling by the jacuzzi because of it. Coco over here, if we weren't hogging the karaoke machine, we were just chilling in the jacuzzi by ourselves (And the annoying pick-me girl of the class occasionally) and when I got too drunk, apparently I asked if I could hug him and for the last 2 hours or so, I was just hugging him. It was weird because Coco would usually join water sports going on in the other pool but he decided to just chill with me.

Before we got together, just like how I would write a wattpad fanfiction, there was the mandatory angst misunderstanding. The confession was really something. Sparks Fly by Taylor Swift was playing in the background and we became an official couple at exactly 12 midnight. Now, we're in a happy and loving relationship! Honestly, I was scared of what he'd be like in a relationship (Cuz I thought he wouldn't give me what I needed, E.G. princess treatment) but since I persisted and said to myself that what I wanted would always be given to me, I'm proud to say I'm dating a guy who practically worships the ground I walk on, not afraid to show his affection and respectful. I could go on and on about how good my relationship is how he treats me so well but I'd save you all the sappy stuff.

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HOW I MANIFESTED PRINCESS TREATMENT INSTANTLY 👸🏿🎀

recently i started manifesting respect and love, and basically the divine feminine mindset. When it comes to manifesting princess treatment, it all starts with MINDSET. I demanded respect, i only accepted respect, i affirmed femininity, i affirmed love.I made myself feel super good and, like a chain reaction, everyone treated me good. I had multiple people buy me drinks, i had people doing my work, i received compliments, i received an abundance of kindness, i was highly respected, i had people sending me messages just saying random positive shit. (i even posted some of the results i got JUST from switching my mindset). When you demand princess treatment, it has no choice but to flow to you. When you treat yourself as if you’re already a princess, everyone has NO choice but to treat you like a QUEEN.

If you’re sulking and feeling sorry and miserable, everyone will treat you as such. (IM NOT SAYING TO NOT FEEL YOUR EMOTIONS, THAT WILL DO YOU MORE HARM THAN GOOD.) Moral of the story, treat yourself good and affirm the love you deserve. Demand respect, don’t accept disrespect. Don’t accept anything thats even slightly below your standards. YOU ARE A QUEEN, only accept queen shit.

(p.s. im js rambling whats been on my mind for a minute, its like 11pm so if this doesn’t make any type of sense, you know why lmao)

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* ੈ✩‧₊˚ Easy Peasy, Lemon Squeeze ⋆.ೃ࿔* 🚀

📧 ೄྀ࿐ ˊˎ- Assume and Let it Be - Neville Goaddard

Something i struggle with when it comes to manifesting and something all of my mutuals have struggled with when it comes to LOA is really letting yourself indulge in the fact that you already have what you want bc sometimes the old way of thinking can sometimes creep up on you and thinking that you HAVE to “affirm enough” “its too good to be true” “i have to do [insert method] to get my desires” these thought come from a state of lack and not from the state of wish fulfilled

in my time away i actually have manifested something and sometimes i have the intrusive thought that maybe im manifesting the WRONG way but thats honestly not possible especially because the LAW IS ALWAYS APPLIED and you create your reality

so when i was affirming and persisting i kept feeling like i was doing something wrong bc i wasnt affirming like all day all night but instead i only used 3 affirmations and i just kept repeating them anywhere anytime at anyplace there is NO right or wrong way to manifest theres NO RULE BOOK on how to manifest i know sometime it can be channeling depending on the situation some of us are in but i promise you your doing amazing and your doing EVERYTHING CORRECTLY

KEEP PERSISTING AND OCCUPYING THE STATES OF WISH FULFILLED MUAH!!

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i shifted. I ACTUALLY SHIFTED

IT REALLY WAS THAT EASY??? HHAGAHDHHFH???

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a moment of silence for my twd self

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everytime i feel lazy i shift

everytime i'm sad i shift

everytime i sleep i shift

everytime i have a mental breakdown i shift

everytime i want to, i shift

everytime i take a nap i shift

every weekend, i shift

every weekday, i shift

everytime i daydream, i shift

everytime i imagine scenarios, i shift

everytime i hyperfixate on my dr, i shift

everytime i have doubts, i shift

everytime i listen to my dr playlist, i shift

everytime i scroll through my pinterest pins, i shift

i shift without any effort at all

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why you should get off social media if you want to shift.

before you scroll away, i want to challenge all of you to read all of this. this is one of my longest blog posts ive ever made with over 1,000 words. if you can or can’t make it through the whole post, please let me know how far you’ve gotten in the comments below. you’ll get a surprise at the end 🥳 !

social media isn’t an inherently bad thing. however, outside & inside of the shifting community social media (specially tiktok) has been shown to effect our attention span. this shows in my comment sections on my longer tumblr posts that i also share on tiktok, such as this one, when people say things like “im not reading all of that” or “can someone summarize” also “what method should i use” and “why am i not shifting”.

let’s start with the basics of shifting. shifting attempts need some kind of focus; an affirmation, a visualization, some sort of task like counting. if you’re someone who struggles to focus, you will struggle to learn how to meditate or any hobby or task you’re tying to accomplish. all shifting methods are is a meditation. while no, you don’t need a method, I would make the argument learning how to meditate & focus your attention to what you are trying to manifest is an important part of shifting. if social media creates an instant dopamine reward without little effort, the appeal of shifting seems less. this is why i think a lot of people actually like thinking about shifting & creating content for it rather then doing it — because trying to shift requires some level of work without instant reward even if it’s as simple as laying down & setting intention.

if you try to shift & you wake up in your cr still, that isn’t as exciting when comparing it to the idea of shifting. rather, if you post an edit or a video about your dr you will receive a dopamine hit through video interaction (comments, likes, how social media platforms are set up in general). even maladaptive daydreaming can fall into this category to some. the interest in attempting to shift dies because we feel like we aren’t gaining anything from it when that’s not true. when laying down & attempting to shift, we are meditating & training the brain to focus on what we desire most: we’re correcting our attention span.

social media destroys the ability to focus & what we focus on & give our attention to allows room for that desire to grow, to become reality. if we’re always so overwhelmed with information & have so much to stress about, it’s important to recognize what we consume & how it effects our mood & mental health & how it can sometimes delay our manifestations. im not saying you have to be positive all the time, but we’re exposed to so much that it’s important to check in with yourself every once in a while. this can be where shifting content comes into play vs non shifting content. think demotivation, you don’t look for it, it just appears. & how many times have you opened tiktok to look something up to only be distracted by a completely unrelated video that automatically started playing ?

what i mean is people are telling you what shifting is, what works for them (which you could register subconsciously & believe that’s a step by step guide), rather then self discovery. people are telling you what shifting is, how to do it, what to think, what to script, what method you need to do, even if they say “this may not apply to everyone” because of how it’s being presented & spoken about. the said popularity of a method or definition may also come into play & feeling like something has to be right or work because other people align with it. its like math class, the teacher shows you one way to solve a problem then says “your allowed to use your own methods” & shows you one example of it then goes back to using the original method in class that you don’t understand.

another reason is opinions. when being shown so many people speaking on shifting & their thoughts it can be overwhelming. it’s a great thing so many people are willing to talk about their experiences in their desired reality or want to share their personal breakthroughs & opinions on what shifting is, it can be confusing. while everything i just listed is well intended, leaning about shifting through places like tiktok & not venturing out & doing your own research — or just searching methods online & trying it yourself while going in blind — it takes away self discovery.

so, how do we learn about shifting ?

when i say get off of social media, i don’t exactly mean all social media. yes, all of these things happen across the internet but the difference with tiktok is that the fyp isn’t so prominent. this of course also applies to other feeds that are generated, but a lot of the shifting community is ok tiktok so im using the most known example. it’s important to search & decide what information you consume & seek out rather then being told something without stopping to think for yourself. you want the chance to be able to create your own thoughts. your own unique thoughts you have about things make them personal & your own beliefs become stronger when you realize things on your own. it’s more satisfying that way.

places like reddit & searching for questions you specifically have so you don’t have ten more questions shoved in your that you didn’t have before that cause you added worry or unnecessary fear is helpful to keep in mind.

there is room for grey area. not everything needs to be black & white. there should be no consciousness vs multiverse theories because two things can both be true at once. Ike thing doesn’t have to be against something, you don’t have time pick a side. it’s all theory & hypothetical. it’s okay that we 100% don’t know (& will probably never know) what shifting truly is. not everything needs to be discovered to preform it “correctly”. you don’t need to be a master at painting to paint, you don’t need to know how paint brushes are crafted or how canvas is stretched to preform, anyone can sit & learn as they create their first & second & tenth piece. even people who have painted & sold their artwork for millions, don’t know the great’s techniques. they know pieces of them & take what works & discards what doesn’t serve them.

this post isnt to negate any of the good social media has done or sound like my mom & preaching about how social media destroys your brain…but i think we should be mindful of what we consume & how it makes us feel & if we’re speaking for ourselves or parroting others words. there are so many great people & advice out there & im not trying to take away from that. i just think taking a moment to stop & digest what we’re seeing is healthy. this blog post has been a long time coming but i know a lot of people wouldn’t want to hear it. i can promise you, you are more addicted then you think — myself included. i just don’t wake you guys to look back in 10 years & have spent more then half of that looking at a screen when there’s so much life to be lived. i don’t want social media to take away from what we are all here for which when we come down to it is living. shifting is literally wanting to experience life & i can’t help but find it ironic that this is the opposite of everything we wish to accomplish through this practice.

please take care of yourselves. much love.

surprise :) congrats you made it ! here’s your digital slice of cake ! 🍰

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i’m still trying to hold on, because shifting is my saving grace. i’ll do anything to escape this reality and see my dr s/o.

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YALL GIVE ME SOME OF THAT SHIFTING JUICE WHY ARE ALL YALL SHIFTING 😭😭

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the fact that we need 8 hours of sleep is ridiculous we should only need 4 and the other 4 should be used to be cozy in your bed and rub your legs together like a cricket and listen to music and think about your little scenarios

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“ Who’s the main character in your DR? “

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i'm sorry but so fucking SICK of shifttok. everywhere i turn, there's a mf going "guys do you promise shifting is real? 🥺" or "omg i haven't shifted and i feel like it's a big joke" or "isn't shifting just lucid dreaming?" on vids where this shit isn't even a topic of conversation.

like i'm trying to be kind but if you don't take your non-believing ass on somewhere and gtfo my FACE. PLEEEASE go do your own research and stop asking ppl the same question twenty times when you can easily look it up on your own. why are you relying on these random ppl to answer your every question as if you don't know there's a hundred million resources abt this shit out there. it takes LESS THAN 30 SECONDS to search on tiktok or reddit or wherever the fuck "what is shifting" and hit search like do not pmo.

but even then, some shifters are nice enough to answer the question and explain their definition of shifting or whatever. and what really pisses me off is that you can CLEARLY see the person answered the question abt fifty fucking times and you decide to bring yo ass in here and repeat the SAME SHIT. oooh i cannot STAND these mfs, i just can't.

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scripting is so fun. i keep having to stop myself from doing too much bc it just turns into basically writing a story… like wdym i get to customize myself and my story completely?? like the sims??

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“I’m going to try shifting tonight!” You’re already in your DR.

“I haven’t shifted yet-“ Yes you have. You’re already in your DR.

“I can’t wait to be in my DR!” You’re already in your DR.

Get this into your heads. This is the key. You are already there.

Law of Assumption. That’s all.

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might start journalling again as if i’m in my desired reality

“as if”

sweat heart i AM in my desired reality 😭

i’ma just start writing out my scenarios in journal form

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No because literally my desire to have a specific food can be all consuming. My drive to shift is 40% fun experiences, 20% relationships and 40% food. So i was literally just sitting here craving a fluffy everything bagel sandwich with smoked pepper pastrami, spinach, parmesan, tomatoes and olive oil (basic but amazing) my husband makes and shifted. Use those hunger pains to shift…bye for real this time, I talk too damn much