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Guys you don't get how much I need them to hold and cuddle me

I'm going feral I swear--

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Becoming a shifter means both wanting to get tf out of here and also starting to enjoy little things in life

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Fun fact in my main fnaf sb dr: my soecial ability is hearing! I can hear things from one side of the plex while I'm in another :D

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Guys I wanna make a drs for a fanfic I read once

Good or bad idea?

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I think I'll blow up if I don't shift to my library tonight istg

I need to read in peace dammit!

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So like-- what's up? How's it going? How's your million years long slowburn with your s/o been?

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You know your scripts are fucked when you imagine scenarios in 3rd person and start crying

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Okay but why does shifting burnout have to be a thing?

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Agressive motivation: a tip

To all my fellow shifters trying to give agressive motivation, here's a small tip:

Don't be mean.

Shocker, right? But if you really like a drawing you made and go "hmm, that's nice, that's nice. The proportions are a bit off but that's fine, practice makes perfect! :D" and someone started berating and insulting you for it and then calling it 'constructive criticism' you'll be discouraged and, depending on your drawing experience, you might aswell just want to give up.

Same for shifting.

Calling someone names and-- get this-- telling them to "shut the fuck up!" won't encourage them. At all. They'll just look at you for a few seconds and then probably never attempt to shift again.

And I don't say 'attempt' for you to come at me like "There is never a shifting 'attempt', you never 'try', you just do!" cause that'll give you the opposite effect from what you want. I'm saying this out of my experience as a baby shifter and from all the messages and posts from many platforms giving the same response.

Yes, you shift every moment, yes you breathe and pass through a couple thousand realities, bla bla bla. But once you're aware of it it's suddenly a struggle until you get the hang of it. You don't do breathing until someone just randomly goes 'hey you gotta breathe' or you remember that you're breathing and suddenly you gotta do it manually. You didn't know how to walk at first, did you? Hell, you had to learn to crawl first before that.

My point is, berating someone and acting like you're better than them to try and motivate them will never work. I can give so many more examples of these kinds of things, and they never work. If you want to motivate someone you gotta come at them with advice. And I mean advice as in "hey usually it's easy for me to shift when I do this! Try it too to see if you're comfortable with it and if you're not, you can always try something else! It's no biggie! :)" and you have to say it nicely.

When a three year old makes a circle its sloppy and looks more like a random squiggly line you'd rather call Patrick Star than a circle, but you still smile at them, congratulate and praise them for it, and in doing so you encourage them to go again and again until they get the hang of it.

If you want to give agressive motivation you have to be both nice about it but also blunt. Don't mention the past or the present, but make them look to the future, and making that future their present.

"Are you waiting for the second coming of jesus to shift?" Is something I like to use as motivation, and I can tell it's flawed, yeah, but it's blunt and a version of "now or never". Maybe you're invincible and immortal and have all the time in the world yada yada yada, but that doesn't happen until you learn to actually shift with full control, not go to sleep and wake up in Wall-E instead of Stranger Things, for example. Until then your time is limited and if you don't take the chance you might never be able to live the life you truly want.

And even then, waking up in a reality you didn't intend to go to is still a shift and will still motivate them to go again and again until they get to the reality they wanted to go to, like the three year old and the circle from above.

Yes, we look back in life and notice plenty of times when we shifted, and yes it was in the blink of an eye and incredibly easy, but that doesn't always work to motivate either. Sometimes, some people look at that and go "well why did it work then but not now...?" And be discouraged.

And now I'm gonna quote a book called "The subtle art of not giving a fuck" and say "Don't try.". Maybe it's a very vague piece of advice but seriously.

When you set the intention to shift somewhere where you have-- for example-- red hair instead of black, you might get an onslaught of thoughts going "but-- but my hair is black, not red, gaslighting won't work🥺🥺"

Maybe. But remember, this is an intention. When you set it, you slam the door in front of those thoughts like a stubborn five year old and their candy and happily eat away at your sweet treat of being in the reality you want to live on. That's how intentions work. You don't even try to indulge those thoughts.

Let's give an example: You're walking down the street and get to a crosswalk. The light is green so you can pass. And you do pass, don't you? You don't just stop and think "you know what, I'll pass when the light is red and cars are moving."

This is an example of intention. You set the intention to pass at the green light and absolutely refuse to indulge your impulsive and/or intrusive thoughts to jaywalk through traffic.

And those intrusive/impulsive thoughts don't count in your intentions either, so that's less pressure on you to do it 'correctly'.

I know I might've deviated from the subject quite a bit, but my point stands and maybe you can take everything in this post as advice on how to give an actual agressive motivation and not spit out some mocking trash to someone.

Happy shifting!

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Guys usually when I set an intention my mind starts to go into overdrive and flood me with pointless contradictions

Last night I did that and ignored and blocked out any of those and had a dream about my dr????? And almost shifted after a few monthhs of nothing????

Is... Is this what I'm truly able to do?

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Guys I have a new dr where I'm a princess and I need sugesstions to make my script more fun. Any kind really, be it outfits, life, responsibilities and so on.

Please. I need those suggestions.

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Okay but seriously why do I keep messing up my life so bad in my scripts?? I just dug through another older script and boy is it messy

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Reasons why I want to shift out of here:

1: Everything

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I think I strained myself too much when shifting last night because my head is lilling me right now--

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Listen, it's my reality, I can do what I want with it, but in the end my people pleaser dumbass is still gonna yell at me in the most pick me voice like "but-- but what about what they'll think if you script they're your parents🥺🥺🥺🥺"

I need someone to exorcise the pleaser out of me because this is just outrageous atp

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I just finally got enough money for a VR headset and I was right to think this was gonna be a good idea.

Cause it's one thing to visualize your size in a video game or tv show or something until you actually have the chance to see what it all looks like 360 from your own perspective. It's so motivating.

No more approximation Bethany, cause I'm getting those me to place ratios right and I'm coming for ya--

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One of my main characteristics is that I love to climb, which is probably why in my first fnaf sb dr I made myself a cat animatronic...

But in my other one where I'm just a chill kid in a chill pizzaplex just vibing with the place practically all to myself I can't wait to annoy the hell out of the animatronics with my climbing skills.

Like especially the netting around the daycare looks so climbable and I just wanna grab onto it and see how high I can get before either of the twins(Sun and Moon are brothers in all my drs so far) realize what I'm doing and get me down :3

It's really funny and exciting because of how much mischief I can cause, and I have a feeling Monty and Moon might help me cause trouble sometimes(they're so unserious and laid back-- they're like two really cool uncles)

Also-- I wanna get inside those tunnels in the Arcade that DJ uses! I wanna know where all of them lead and everything about them! They're so pretty and just--