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moodboard for when your beloved mutual says something nice to you
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The reason why in Steven universe future when they go to Greg's old house i was more pissed off at Steven and this behavior was encouraged
Even when you are legitimately suffering, it is your responsibility not to be cruel to people who haven’t harmed you. When you are miserable and feel like lashing out, it’s your responsibility to control that impulse and to apologize when you fail to control that impulse.
Sometimes people think their suffering gives them the right to be as vicious as they like, and that viciousness often lands on the very people trying to offer them support and care. Someone who cares about you and who is trying to support you isn’t there to be your verbal (or physical) punching bag.
There’s a difference between consensual support – sharing your feelings with someone who has agreed to listen – and taking out those feelings on someone by saying cruel things to them, hurting them physically, or making them feel bad intentionally to excise your own feelings.
If you are the person offering care to someone who is suffering, you are not required to accept cruelty in order to offer support. You are entitled to set boundaries that keep you from being hurt – even when the other person is also legitimately hurting.
Sometimes people who are suffering get overwhelmed and lash out, because it can be hard to think of others sometimes when your own pain is great. But if and when this happens, it needs to be acknowledged and apologized for, and the person who did it needs to figure out how to stop themselves from behaving like this in the future. The person who was lashed out at is also entitled to their own feelings about what happened; no one’s required to excuse or ignore their pain just because it was inflicted on impulse or by someone else who was in pain.
No one gets a pass on harming whoever’s nearest just because they themselves have been harmed. If someone is consistently treating you with respect, it’s not acceptable to force them to bear the brunt of pain you received somewhere else. Find other ways to handle overwhelming feelings.
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$10 Discounted Commission Stream
https://www.youtube.com/c/ShibaRoll/live Im offering $10 greyscale commissions i dont offer this normally and this is usually the prices for my sketches! Posted using PostyBirb
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Wait, @tacos-are-cornchips , How did you get a different copy of the cookbook? This is the one I have, ( I pre-ordered it from Amazon), where did you get yours? o-o I wonder if the covers have different rarity rates… :v
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http://www.wsj.com/articles/BL-LB-51793 This is honest to god one of the funniest things I think I have ever seen. The idea of giving a baby a theme party based on a local personal injury attorney is something i am so jealous of I dont know how to properly put it into words. Also the fact that the lawyer didn’t come to the party somehow makes it even funnier.
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I Have A Month To Move Out
This is not an April Fool’s joke, unfortunately. It is now April 1st and I have to be out of my current apartment by May 1st. My current roommates were dating and they recently broke up, and I was just informed tonight that just the two of us do not have the money to keep living here.
I know this may seem like a huge stretch, but if there is anyone living in San Diego that needs a roommate I can move in and immediately start paying rent. More specifically, somewhere East County San Diego. I currently live in Santee and I take the trolley in to work.
I am employed and can contribute up to $500 comfortably, but I am open to negotiations. I am a 26-year-old Asexual woman, and I am looking for my own room. I don’t care about sharing a bathroom, kitchen, other appliances, ect. I’m fine with all those things, but for my own mental health I really need my own room, even if its tiny.
I can cook, I am fine with all pets (unless you have one of those African Hissing Roaches) and have none of my own to worry about. I cannot drive.
I could really use some help. I am getting out of a toxic relationship I had with my parents and they would be my last resort if I can’t find someone to move in with by May. All I want is a roof over my head, my own little corner of space, and to keep my current job.
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I hate when I’m going to makeup and Jerry is calling me for a mission
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The Leatherdos is a hair clip that doubles as a multi-tool that combines 5 different tools in a tiny hair clip: screw-drivers, a wrench, a trolley coin, a ruler, and a cutting edge.
—->http://odditymall.com/leatherdos-is-a-hair-clip-multi-tool
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CHECK OUT WHAT I JUST SAW AT THE ZOO.
Y’ALL.
I DON’T EVEN PLAY OVERWATCH BUT I SCREAMED.
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Here’s a blast from future past for you all. Judy Jetson and Sky Rocker from Rockin’ With Judy Jetson! I watched this movie the other night. I miss the Flintstones and the Jetsons so much! Hope you enjoy! :D
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Dear tumblr,
Please be wary of a user who calls himself Spectrum Heat. This grown man has been known to manipulate his way into getting young, under age women to date him. Today a friend of mine came to me with pics of conversations with him. And may I add this friend of mine is 15…. 15… she is a CHILD. And this man asked inappropriate things of her. Here is the convo with her name blurred out:
There’s much more but I’m only able to share so much. And if to looked I too was used by this man. And I’ve had friends who were lucky enough to see past his manipulative ways to not get involved with him who shared their sides about it.
So be alert guys. Don’t let this man trick you. Be safe… I love you guys.
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COMMISSIONS ARE OPEN
RANGING FROM $10 - $100
0/200 RENT
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My friend Martha is a teacher at a low-income school that’s short on funds and resources. She’s trying to raise money to buy 2 sets of “The Hate U Give" for her classroom.
So far, the project has raised $200 and needs $600 total. Every little bit counts, so please check out her project, and consider supporting education!
PS: If you donate $20 or more, send me a screenshot of your donation and I’ll personally doodle you a random thank you drawing!
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