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just trying to make it through the 8 hr maccas shift fr… 😔

when work is so bad you have to pretend it’s a wolfstar au fanfic to pull yourself through

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from the great gatsby on broadway

gatsby is me when i want a cookie so effing bad…

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i think that the best way to define feminism is giving women the freedom, power, and opportunity to choose how they want to live their lives through upholding equal rights between all genders.

feminism is choice.

choice is feminism.

has a nice ring to it doesn’t it?

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the 👏 church 👏 and 👏 state 👏 are 👏 separated 👏 for 👏 a 👏 reason 👏

if one more person brings their religious views into a political argument to try and justify unlawful legislation i think i might explode!!

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duality is humanity.

humans are multi faceted creatures and no matter how hard society will try, we will never fit into one dimensional labels and boxes. the world is a spectrum of grey and no one is completely good or evil. so, it’s time to stop treating complex conflicts in the world and the people involved in them with that mindset, for nothing will ever be that simple.

humanity is duality.

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to everyone who has ever faked an illness, injury, or disorder for attention: i love you.

i know you didnt have bad intentions. i know you probably didn't even know what your intentions were. i know you likely do have some type of mental illness. and i know it makes you need attention, or that you feel like you need to have something worse to be valid. i know you just want someone to see you. i see you. you are seen and you are loved. you are not evil. you are not defined by your actions. you will recover from the consequences you may have faced for what you faked. you will find new, better ways to cope. you will be okay.

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can we talk about the darker parts of attention seeking in hpd? not just dressing up and being flirty.

let's talk about compulsively lying

let's talk about compulsively lying so much that you're not even sure if what you say is true or not

let's talk about wishing you were injured or ill for the attention

let's talk about faking injuries or illness

let's talk about purposefully injuring yourself

let's talk about putting yourself in dangerous situations by talking to sketchy people

let's talk about not knowing how to say no to those people

let's talk about involuntary trauma dumping

let's talk about socially ostracizing yourself by acting in an inappropriate way for the temporary rush of attention it gives you

let's talk about questioning your own personality, values, and morals because they get so easily shaped by whoever you're around

let's talk about how easily manipulated people with hpd are

let's talk about how easily abused people with hpd are

let's talk about vulnerable people with hpd are

let's stop this dichotomy of demonizing or romanticizing/fetishizing hpd

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today i overheard a girl say "no, f*ck that. i will be lovely to everyone. maybe some people will remember they have a heart."

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how i felt the whole time reading the series… “omg percy’s just like me!” cured something in my adhd 12 year old brain at the time

You can tell Percy Jackson was written for a kid with ADHD because every important item in the series gets teleported back to its owner when it gets lost.