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The first frost begins ❄️

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my glasses are always dirty but it's fine. i've seen enough.

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SUN ZHEN NI new photoshoot for Winter Solstice

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It came to me in a fever dream

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Silly little Krobus with his autumn pumpkin and precious void mayonnaise 🖤

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shrimp socks 🦐🦐

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They should invent a blanket thats very heavy but doesnt make you too hot

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Sarah Millican On Women's Body Sizes | Universal Comedy

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the bachelors, the bachelorettes AND KROBUS.

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Frozen Fern

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Genuinely kind people don't get enough credit. People seem to think that being nice is just a personality trait, but it's actually a commitment to treat people well, even when it's hard. It's not just being nice to the people you like.

It's choosing to be kind to people when you're in a bad mood, or when they're being annoying.

It's choosing to be kind to people who your friends don't like.

It's choosing to be kind to people who you don't particularly like.

It's choosing to be kind to people who you envy.

I'm not saying that you can't be a kind person and stand up for yourself, or tell someone to fuck off when they're doing something genuinely harmful, but there are a million petty reasons people use to justify treating people badly.

It is a conscious choice, made over and over, often several times a day, to treat people with kindness and respect, even when they make it hard. So appreciate the consistently kind people in your life, because they work hard to be that way, and they really don't have to.