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sorry, i thought we all liked that fictional woman because she sucks

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Why is it whenever you bring up things like fatphobia or not wearing makeup or not shaving or anything else that society hates when people are or do, you ALWAYS have people talking about how they've had it hard bc they're skinny or they wear makeup to be empowered or they shave for themselves

Like why are you so uncomfortable to be put in a category of social acceptance? Why are you so uncomfortable being pegged as someone who conforms to conventional beauty standards? You're coming to people who get genuinely harassed and negatively effected by things like being fat or not wearing makeup or being hairy and telling us all that being thin and wearing makeup and shaving are all actually subversive and brave. And it's not? You're doing What is Expected of You. And if you stopped, many, many people - strangers even - would feel compelled to at the very least point it out derisively, and at the worst straight up deny you medical care or harass you in the street.

Tbh it doesn't matter if you're doing makeup for you. That's not how everyone else views that. They see makeup as expected. People who don't have lost job opportunities. People who don't have their abilities questioned because without makeup they "look unkempt". The only makeup that pushes the envelope is Indigenous makeup styles and things like intense goth makeup or "birthday makeup".

Shaving is expected! You are supposed to be near-hairless. Anyone who reads as femme is expected to be hairless. If you want to be femme, you have to shave. You can get harassed for being hairy in the wrong spaces. Being hairy can read as being unkempt or dirty by conventional society. A lot of racism plays into this.

Being fat in a world that constantly wants you to lose weight can straight up kill you! People don't get hired for being fat. People get harassment constantly for being fat. Fat queer and poc have some of the hardest times being fat in the world we are in. Bodies reduced to jokes by society. Living in a world quite literally not built for you in the slightest. Mocked constantly by strangers and left to languish in chronic illness until its too late to fix because a doctor would rather see you lose weight before ever trying to help you.

Being skinny, shaving, wearing makeup, are all expected of you and are often treated with praise and uplifted as desirable. So why do those people have to come onto every single post about people who fall outside social convention to talk about how they uniquely have it worse or just as bad for looking exactly how they're expected to.

This website can't even handle this shit. It's no wonder so many are struggling with not being intersexist as hell. We're stuck on Baby's First "Not Everything is About You"

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I'm so painfully aware of my own existence I fucking hate it

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holy shit

this took an embarrassingly long time

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smut writers type the word 'clit' instead of 'apex of her thighs' challenge

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hozier (2014) being hozier’s debut album is fucking nuts like… take me to church?? from eden?? work song?? like real people do?? it will come back?? foreigner’s god?? cherry wine?? SEDATED?? what the fuck??

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i can’t stand “it’s not that deep” attitudes like even if it really really isn’t that deep just PLAY WITH ME. just fucking PLAY. have a meaningless but deep analytical conversation with me. just like think about shit for fun. does anyone else like to think about stuff for fun. it’s so lonely

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EXCUSE ME MISS

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Victor Ivanoski aka Виктор Иваноски (Russian, b. 1967, Syktyvkar, Russia) - Boudoir series, Photography

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Dude, I only fucked your boyfriend cause I’m an empath. I wanted to understand you… forgive me for being a good fucking friend I guess.

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its pride month pls let something gay happen to me

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i love you air dried hair i love you no makeup i love you comfortable clothes made out of soft fabrics i love you short nails

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everybody loooves when something that isnt sex is sex. but we shouldnt forget about: when the sex isnt sex

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Carlo Mollino, Erotic Polaroid,1970s

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I'm in love with this art style

You were the one I'd come looking for

Over and over and over again

image referenced from Bones and All