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Bent Bars needs UK transfem penpals and second-hand clothes

i do this thing with Bent Bars where they match queer & trans people outside of prison in the UK with queer & trans people in prison to write letters, share things, etc. they also get gender-affirming clothes to transgender people in prison, host writing by queer & transgender prisoners, and other stuff. my experience with them has been amazing!

they recently sent out an email calling for gender-affirming clothes for transgender prisoners. so, if you have any old clothes in good condition you'd like to send to transgender prisoners, you can do that here (click).

and they also asked for more outside penpals! they asked for certain kinds of penpals which are frequently requested by inside penpals, who they have trouble matching. these are:

people over 50

gay men who are into football

trans women

i figured some of you could help there, especially with the last one.

a month or so ago i started writing to a transfem in prison through Bent Bars, and it turned out she had first applied in 2021 and was not able to match with any trans women until now. not many transfems are signing up for this, meanwhile since getting involved i've heard about a lot of transfems in prison—men's prisons, who may not have the support of anyone who understands. so, i think it would be really helpful if any of my transfem followers or anyone who sees this could sign up as an outside penpal.

you can sign up as a penpal here (click). requirements are that you have to be from the UK and have to be "LGBT, queer or gender non-conforming" in some way. thanks for reading!

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i wish i had the confidence to just be a cat in everyones inbox when i want attention but 97% of the time i fail that volition check because what if i bother you

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Writing smut is fine.

Reading smut is fine.

Enjoying smut is fine.

Writing or seeking out books that contain smut does not make you bad. It does not mean you are stupid or "porn brained" or whatever other bullshit people like to say nowadays.

Smut is morally neutral. Enjoying smut does not make you a bad person. It does not make what you write or what you read "worse."

Smut is mortally neutral.

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fujoshing out for the first time looking at gay porn #welcometowomanhood

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くるくるすとん（再掲） by 星見まむ (@hsm_mum)

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Ngl, when I first saw people write DID on their bio, I thought they meant damsels in distress.

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i got all dolled up today for someone!!

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in the age of 'bullies you gently and encouragingly into putting on the dress ^_^' forcefem its refreshing to see someone dedicated to making permanent nonconsensual surgical modifications that actually force you to conform to a highly specific and fetishized caricature of femininity. 8/10

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how it feels when someone says “can i be tmi really quick”

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my nephew Hamlet is soo fucking anoying LOL. maybe if i dress as a ghost i can get him to kill himself &many others

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João Ruas, Saint Sebastian

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if life isn't worth living how come they invented beautiful transfems with messy hair whose laughs warm your heart? checkmate nihilists

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barcociego

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Them [the news website] having a lot of articles on top surgery and bottom growth but like no info on the affects of estrogen/progesterone on your genitals and bottom surgery is so...blatantly a bigotry issue.