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Possibly the Most important thing you'll read this year...

The following is the philosophy of Charles Schulz, the creator of the 'Peanuts' comic strip.

You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just ponder on them. Just read it straight through, and you'll get the point.

1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.

2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.

3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America pageant.

4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.

5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor and actress.

6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.

How did you do?

The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday.

These are no second-rate achievers.

They are the best in their fields.

But the applause dies.

Awards tarnish ...

Achievements are forgotten.

Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.

Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:

1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.

2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.

3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.

4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.

5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.

Easier?

The lesson:

The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money ... or the most awards. They simply are the ones who care the most.

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I appreciate and adore Him always

Imagine being adored & appreciated by someone from the moment you wake, to the moment you drift into your dreams.

~beccawise7 💜🖤

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When a woman feels desired, she feels seen.

When she feels you crave her, she becomes empowered. 

When she trusts completely the walls she constructed to rebuild herself... will crumble around you.

When led to the edge of her boundaries, she will cross over to the sweet abyss of submission.

Fully gifting you her trust. Her desire. Her adoration and shattering her fears.

Nothing is as beautiful as a strong woman who chooses to trust someone completely with who they are at their core.

Allowing someone to see the bright and sparkling pieces of her spirit while uncovering the darkest parts of her soul is freeing.

Being accepted, respected, adored, and craved is truly one of the most beautiful things a woman can experience.

~beccawise7 💜🖤

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You Own me

I am in the breeze that takes me to you, in the voice that whispers words of love in your ear, I am in every caress that your soul needs, I am in your imagination, inside you.💕

… ‿ℒℴνℯ⁀❤️

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My life is worth living in any condition, as long as I have You.

"If nothing saves us from death, at least love should save us from life."

Pablo Neruda

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I love You more and more 💘💖💝💞

“Keep love in your heart. A life without it, is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.”

— Oscar Wilde

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Lazy weekends together 💗💗💗

❤𓍯𓂃𓏧♡

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🥰💗💞💘

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All the time.

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Keeping your word is so important. Even if you didn’t say the word “promise,” do what you say you’ll do.

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I should be asleep, but I miss Him so much

I will strive to forever be…Your Good Girl 🌸💗🌸

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You really do. 💞💞💞

I keep getting doms in my messages and I just have to say: I don’t think even half of you understand the type of commitment it takes to have a submissive.

A true d/s relationship requires high prioritization. A submissive is trusting you to care for their emotions while you are wielding power of them. This isn’t a dynamic for someone who just wants kinky sex. You need to learn your submissive’s triggers, their trauma, their blindspots, and their nonverbal cues that they are past the point of being able to safe word. It’s not just about pleasure and getting off. You need to be prepared to reassure your submissive that they’re valuable to you as a person. Sometimes you’ll need to know that they need this when they might not know themself. Because to be a dominant is a power role. That power can easily become unbalanced and easily become abusive if you’re not constantly communicating and being conscious of the impact of your words and actions.

To any subs reading this: you deserve a dom who is educated about d/s and truly cares for you as a person. Have high standards. It can suck not to have a dom, but it’s so much more damaging to yourself and your future relationships to have a bad dom than it’s worth.

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I ain’t skeered. Bring it on.