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*SLAMS MY FISTS ON THE TABLE SO HARD IT ACTUALLY DISLOCATES MULTIPLE BONES IN MY HANDS* MORE TRANSMASC TOBY. NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *I PICK UP THE TABLE AND THROW IT ACROSS THE ROOM* GET ME JEFF WITH INTERNALISED HOMOPHOBIA THIS INSTANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *I GRAB YOU BY THE NECK AND START CHOKING YOU* AND MAKE THEM FUCKING GAY!!!

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is this silly enough for a starter of my tumblr fanartist career T-T (say yes pls.)

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Yyyyyoink!

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i love having mutuals who are the authority on a specific fictional character

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Spin this wheel of my comfort characters

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Your F/O who is hated or generally bashed in their source material/fandom is forever amazed at your strength to wade through the fog and see them in a different light. Perhaps they did something deserving of it, or not- it doesn't matter to you. You saw them and you KNEW that they were someone worth loving in whatever way you do.

In some way, you're reminding them to love themselves, through the love you give them.

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laying on your f/o’s chest. them rubbing soothing circles into your back, stroking your hair and kissing you gently. wanting you to feel safe, and loved. like its only you two in the whole world. and letting you dose off in their arms.

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Me doing something incredibly normal and human but then I remember my f/o is always watching me so I get embarrassed

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I suddenly remember that blorbo exists and immediately explode into a shower of heart shaped confetti

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if you struggle with dissociation, your f/o would be there.

they'd notice when you get "spaced out", they wouldn't miss it. when they understand it's dissociation, they'd do their best to help , whether it's helping you breathe and ground yourself, reassuring you, or giving you space.

dissociative amnesia? your f/o doesn't mind if you can't remember huge chunks of time, no matter how long or how distant they are. they'd explain you what you don't remember patiently, if needed, and wouldn't mind remembering things for you.

are you in a system? well, guess who is very interested in getting to know everyone in it? your f/o is! they remember everyone's tiny mannerisms, they'd leave notes behind for everyone, and explain whoever is fronting what they've missed, if there's amnesia.

when things get difficult for you, they're there. you're real, you're safe with them. they love you, all of you.

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Positivity for non-sharers.

Your F/O loves YOU! You and only you.

"What about-" No. Only you.

I do not care about other characters or other people. Your F/O is yours. They only love you!

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who decided it was wise to give netbooks such small screens!!!

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When even talking is hard to do:

Your f/o(s) understands that there are times when you go non-verbal and can’t speak. Maybe it’s been a rough day; your symptoms are flaring up or maybe either one of you are just not big talkers. But they get it; no stressful conversations - that can come later.

They love being able to listen to music or watch shows together while they unwind with you.

Just you and your f/o(s) cuddling up in each other’s warm embrace ~

Dividers by me xRed-Wingsx • credit if using - Don't repost

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Reblog to hug prev poster (they need a hug)

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i want to [remembers suicide jokes are bad for your mental health] be in the middle of a gunfight, in the center of a restaurant

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f/o who will always choose you in every single life again and again and again… even if your paths only cross temporarily, there’s peace in their heart knowing that they’ll find you in another one somehow