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There’s an emptiness in my heart I know only God can fix.

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advice from your love zandria :

its okay to cry those long lost feels.

drink plenty of water.

take your time, don’t rush.

be as creative as you want.

zandria 🖤

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I’m detaching from female friendships.

Through out my life I feel like I was never able to have a female friend group and after my last friendship break up, I find myself more happier alone. I will accept women as they come and go.

Bye bye to craving that feeling/sisterhood.

Honestly bye bye to feeling desperate for anything that isn't given to me freely.

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Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships and personal well-being. Boundaries define our limits and establish a clear understanding of what is acceptable behavior from others, safeguarding our emotional, physical, and mental health.

By setting boundaries, we communicate our needs and expectations clearly, reducing misunderstandings and conflicts. It allows us to take control of our time and energy, preventing burnout and fostering self-respect. Healthy boundaries also encourage mutual respect in relationships, as they help others understand our limits and appreciate our individuality.

In essence, boundaries are essential for creating a balanced, fulfilling life where our needs are met, and our personal space is respected. They empower us to live authentically and harmoniously with ourselves and others. ❤️

Love,

Alexandria

#boundaries

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In your hate, I have found God.

In your sin, I have found Love.

In your faith, I have found forgiveness.

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Snapchat?

Barbieland55

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Tomorrow marks being a mother a year! 🎀

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Lounging and thinking around the house…🙇🏽‍♀️🎀

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Alexandria’s Gym Day And Dietary Feels

Getting back into the gym and staying consistent has been hard post-pregnancy, but I hope to cut all my bad habits and stay on track. Diet and exercise have been a priority on my mind lately. Honestly, I don’t know where to start... well, I guess you can say I started by taking myself to the gym. Let’s see how this goes; I really miss feeling my gains and health improve.

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The Chanel Girl Way

Clermont twin Shannon unveiled a large Chanel bag during travel on Twitter, and I gasped at its beauty. These purses are in and are beyond effortless. Nothing screams glamour and elegance more than a beautiful purse. While I own a bag or two, Chanel is my favorite everyday go-to purse. It’s safe to say I am a Chanel supporter, fan, and lover.

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🌹 Muslim Mindfulness meditation:

Set Your Intentions: Begin with the intention of drawing closer to Allah and seeking His peace and guidance through the practice of mindfulness.

Choose a Quiet Place: Find a quiet, clean space where you won’t be disturbed.

Begin with Dhikr: Start with some dhikr (remembrance of Allah) to center yourself and bring your focus to the present moment. You can recite phrases such as “SubhanAllah” (Glory be to Allah), “Alhamdulillah” (All praise is due to Allah), or “Allahu Akbar” (Allah is the Greatest).

Focus on Your Breath: Pay attention to your breath as you inhale and exhale. Notice the sensation of the breath entering and leaving your body.

Stay Present: When thoughts arise, gently acknowledge them without judgment, and then bring your focus back to your breath or your chosen point of focus.

Use Islamic Affirmations: You can incorporate Islamic affirmations or verses from the Quran into your meditation practice. Repeat them silently or aloud to yourself as a way to anchor your mind and heart.

End with Gratitude and Du’a: Conclude your meditation session with gratitude for the opportunity to connect with Allah and with a du’a (supplication) for guidance, peace, and protection.

Remember that mindfulness meditation is a tool to help you cultivate awareness, presence, and inner peace, all of which are compatible with Islamic teachings. It can be adapted to suit your individual spiritual journey and relationship with Allah. ♥️

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if a person does not appreciate something, he is not worthy of it.

over time, you understand why some people are no longer standing by you. when you look at yourself in the mirror, you realize this difference in your lifestyle and theirs, and then you should not regret it, but they, that the person who was only one who was beneficial to their coexistence left their lives.

do not be upset in vain for those who do not know how to appreciate and see the difference between worthy and undeserving.

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i have a desire for knowledge. i will never be too shy to ask questions about the ahkâm (teachings). i want to know the truth. 🤍

“Allah is not ashamed [to tell you] the truth.” (quran 33:53)

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Maturity is settling in...

The things my peers are into is distasteful to me. In fact, it disgust me. Between becoming a Muslimah and a Mother I've changed a lot. I once supported women's "liberation" but, I renounce this opinion. I feel the more immoral a person live is an indication of how far they have deviated from the guidance of God.

I'm all for family, respect, elegance and marriage... I like to call it my woke grown woman era.

Sometime I feel bad because I find myself judging people. I don't mean too but, I can't understand how a woman say's she wants a husband and post herself half naked in every other post. I can't understand the want and need to be overly sexualized while yelling "respect me and buy me whatever i want". Whenever I see women posing with their butt's as the main focus, legs open or tongues out I feel distasteful within. That is no way to represent your family or your children...

For me, I want to be surrounded with like-minded women. And I'm starting to feel like I have to be surrounded by my Muslimah sisters for that type of respect and love. Bring on the tea parties, modest fashion, home-making, hobbies, family and eloquent speech. These things truly make me happy. Elegance is my new kryptonite.

Lastly, May Allah heal humanity and especially the women. May He shine his light and let women see how distasteful their behavior is. May He use me as a example of change and healing. In sha Allah it will all get better.

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pregnancy and wandering eyes...

what is this common theme in the community of men wandering eyes when a women is with child? i don't like it at all... i understand every situation is different but...

if multiple wives is something men want, i don't believe when a wife is pregnant he should decide to begin that conversation...

being with child is hard and post partum is the real test of time. i remember being pregnant and feeling: all i wanted was to be soulfully penetrated by my husband.

just wait...