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Imagine your f/o enveloping you in the most loving hug they can muster, a sense of relief washing over the both of you. "I'm so glad you exist. You know that, right?" They express softly, their tone filled with gratitude. They hold you for a moment or so, the two of you slowly rocking back and forth with gentle but comforting movements.

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Imagine your f/o gushing about you to someone else. Maybe they're the type to excitedly ramble, they can't stop listing reasons why you're so great, or maybe they just continue mentioning you in casual conversation. Regardless, it is obvious that you are everything to them.

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There is no room for questioning, you are so important to your f/o, and so loved by them. They cherish you in ways that are obvious and undeniable, even if they're private, quiet, or don't tend to show off. It's in the way they know your favorite song and can list the exact hobbies you like and exactly what you need when you're stressed. It's in their embrace, the way you exist that takes their breath away. That is because it is you. Wonderful, valid, and amazing you.

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"I miss you."

Maybe it's said through phone call, texted randomly, or even written on a sticky note in your f/o's handwriting, left for you to find.

Of course they miss you, you're their everything. And these little reminders give you that warm feeling, that sweet bit of proof that you're cherished by them. They'll do it over and over for you.

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Your f/o will do their best to ensure that they are your safe space. Comforting you, respecting your feelings, doing what they can do show how accepted and loved you are. Providing you with tranquility, a feeling of warmth and safety. Their unwavering appreciation and desire to be there for you will be expressed in everything they do.

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Imagine holding your f/o as they find comfort and tranquility in your embrace. Rubbing their back, kissing their forehead, running your fingers through their hair. Doing what you can to reassure them that you're here, and you always will be.

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You are your f/o's safe space. You're the individual they feel comforted by and uplifted around. The one who they can be themselves with, all because of who you are. You've given them the chance to exist, flaws and all, without shame. And they will never ever take that for granted.

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💟 pining stage ask game ! 💟

🏁 if not at the same time, who started pining first? how long until it became mutual (if ever)?

❣️describe a time one of you almost took a chance at making a move on the other, only to chicken out.

❓describe a time one of you did flirt or make a move, only for the other to remain totally oblivious.

😅 did anyone ever mistake you two for a couple? how did you both react?

🛏️ did you two ever have a "there's only one bed" moment?

💗 was either of you flirty during the pining stage?

🚫 what was holding you/them back from making a move or confessing your feelings?

🫂 what's one significant moment of physical contact you had during the pining stage?

😳 what moment flustered them the most?

😖 what moment flustered you the most?

💔 were there ever any moments of angst or jealousy thanks to the hidden feelings?

💭 who daydreamed about the other more often? what did they think about most?

🎵 are there any songs that describe your pining stage?

❌ did either of you ever try to get rid of your feelings for the other?

💘 (if applicable) what moment made them realize they were in love with you?

💓 (if applicable) what moment made you realize you were in love with them?

✨ share something random from the pining stage!

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-ˏˋ self ship ask game ! જ⁀➴𖹭

🤍 : how did you first meet your f/o? what made you realize you were falling in love with them? what made them realize they were falling in love with you?

🫧 : who makes the other one laugh more, you or your f/o? do you tell each other jokes, or is it more a natural sense of humor?

🐇 : do you and your f/o have a pet together? if so, tell us about it! ( what's its name? what kind of animal is it? what's its temperament? ) if not, would you ever get one together?

🐚 : do you give each other gifts often? what's your favorite thing they've given you? what's their favorite thing you've given them?

🦷 : have you ever helped each other through injuries? who gets injured more, you or your f/o?

🕯 : do you and your f/o live together? why or why not? what do your living space(s) look like?

🪽 : do you and your f/o enjoy traveling together? do you do it often? what's your favorite place that you've traveled with them?

🦢 : do you both enjoy classically romantic dates? what's your favorite date you've been on with your f/o?

🛁 : what are some nonsexual forms of intimacy that you & your f/o enjoy? what's your favorite? what's their's?

💿 : reveal your music taste! share some songs that you and your f/o enjoy. how about some albums? some artists?

🕊 : how do you and your f/o dress? do you coordinate outfits together? do you dress similarly, or are you opposites?

☁️ : do you and your f/o enjoy movie nights? what kind of movies do you both enjoy watching? do either of you have a favorite movie, and if so, what does the other one think of it?

remember to practice reblog karma! ^^ you don't need to ask me ( op ) in order to reblog ☆ pr.osh.ip / c.omsh.ip / etc please dni!

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come lay with me so i can give you soft kisses

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Owning this cicada lamp made by @cady_the_creator would solve all my problems

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Imagine your f/o falling asleep on you.

Imagine feeling them doze off, head lolling against your shoulder or resting in your lap. Hearing your f/o’s soft, even breaths as they drift away. Knowing how safe they feel in your presence.

Imagine pressing loving kisses to your f/o’s forehead or lightly stroking their hair. The gentle murmurs they whisper in their sleep, met with the sound of your sweet words that lull them back to bed.

They deserve the whole world, isn’t that right?

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Happy Valentine's Day!

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My Obey Me self-insert MC

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I don't feel like finishing this so here

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I wanted to do this sleeping meme, and then forgot. I drew three things yesterday. That's wild to me. original image under the cut