deaddovedecadence
deaddovedecadence
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deaddovedecadence · 14 days ago
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Can you do omegaverse hcs with reader as a male omega and youngest?
platonic or romantic?
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deaddovedecadence · 16 days ago
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i just found your blog and GOD am I obsessed now 🙏
can you please write some more about yandere batfam (more specifically about Dick and Tim) and their stalking and obsessive (?) tendencies towards darling?
thank you so much anyway!!!
Do you want romantic or platonic?
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deaddovedecadence · 23 days ago
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It's me again. I also forgot to ask about the first sex of polyamorous bacest. I mean, if it's not part of a first date or a first official date, maybe they were in a polyamores relationship before doing it in a more classic way/showing themselves to the world or something. I remember you wrote that Cassandra is not very interested in sex (on the spectrum of asexuality). Was she the last person to perform a horizontal tango with anyone?
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I don't really think that there is this big first moment when it comes to sex, like i think that it slowly evolves differently with everyone else. Jason and Cass are both demisexual so there is something to be said there.
It sort of starts with Dick and Damian. Like maybe you find them fucking or one of them is fucking you and the other walks in. Dick and Damian are so close that to them it is just makes sense to fuck you together, Dick's crooning voice in your ear like he's never done anything wrong even though he's the most manipulative of all of them.
He's so sweet to you as Damian fucks you, tells you how pretty you look, eyes rolled back in your head, nearly crying from how good it feels. Damian wants you to feel good, wants it to be enjoyable for you so he pays special attention to see what gives you pleasure. \
I want to say tim is next but honestly I think that the bats try and keep you two seperated until they can get a list of your kinks and preferences because Tim can go hard sometimes so I'll come back to him.
I want say that Duke is next honestly. I'm a big believer that because of all the hell that Duke goes through during the day, they like sex to be gentle. Duke wants darling to feel good at all times and is extra careful not to manipulate them during sex because to them, sex is sacred.
They might manipulate darling in the aftermath or use sex as a bargaining technique but during sex itself, Duke is always gentle and kind to darling. Duke is also a switch so they're happy for darling to be in charge as long as they don't get too big for their britches.
Cassandra isn't really that interested in sex generally but she does like chasing things down. For her it's just fun and to watch Darling run for her is one of the few things that really turns her on. Cassandra is definitely a stone top so she doesn't really want anything in return (if you're wondering how this works with her brothers, she pegs all of them except Damian who's almost always a top)
Jason is the most vanilla of all the siblings and really just wants darling to be happy. He's not interested in really anything but Shibari and that's only because it soothes his mind to tie the knots and be in charge. He's so strong that there's not really a need to restrain darling and tbh I feel like his first time was with Dick during his red hood days.
Tim is the kinkiest out of the polycule. He's into so much different stuff that it only makes sense for someone (probably duke) to watch and make sure that everyone is having a good time. Honestly I'm certain that Tim wants darling to have a good time but he's just really intense as a person tbh .
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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if no one else is gonna, i must ask! batfam kinks and the such? i know some are probably a little obvious, but i wanna know your thoughts! i feel like you write batfam very in character! ofc can be batcest if ya want!
Hiii thank you so much for the complement and I really take pride in how I write the batfamily.
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Dick: Incest kink (specifically being called big brother during sex), dom/sub, needs to feel in control at all times because he's anxious otherwise, bondage (so much bondage), cnc,
Jason: pretty vanilla tbh. some light d/s and bondage but nothing else really
Cassandra: service dom, will do about anything her partner wants but loves shibari
Tim: kinkiest mother fucker on the planet earth. switch. sadomasochist (giving and receiving pain), degradation, crossdressing but no misgendering, being called daddy
Duke: still figuring themselves out honestly. more of a switch then anything else and happy to try anything once honestly. isn't a big fan of making their partner feel bad
Damian: master/slave, wax, non sexual dominance, pet play (he reads way too much smut when he's bored, and had free reign of the internet)
batcest shit
dick loves when he's called big brother by Damian and Jason specifically
Jason and tim sometimes angry fuck
damian taught tim how to be dominant with darling
Duke and dick are the only ones that get to top damian
Cass loves to pick out fem outfits for tim
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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Mean reader basics
polyamorous and in a polycule with sukuna + the other first years
genderfluid femme
16
they/he pronouns
was raised around megumi by Mei Mei and Ui Ui
Believes that being a sorcerer is about protecting your own
very fucking possessive, didn't accept yuuji and nobara 'til they almost died together when megumi was working on something with gojo
mean femme
drabbles with be relationship focused
they are a yandere esp for yuuji who doesn't know his place in theis world
Cursed Technique
It's called Echo
Allows reader to use their voice to find detect and even defean enemies with sonic waves
all they have to do is call and will get a picture of where his enemies are hidden and how to find them
also knows when someone is about to use their cursed energy
their domian expansion is like a mist that spreads around with not wall or end point and allows them to see everything around them without having to call out and predicts opponents next move
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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we need more mean readers, readers that are yandere, readers that are actively working with their yandere, polyamorous yanderes.
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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me when I make jason and cass demisexual giving them something to bond over while darling is laying on their laps
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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Hello, I hope you have a good day and life in general as much as possible. Right now, the writers in the Yandere batfam tag have noticed a surge in hate messages from anonymous. I hope that didn't bother you. Anyway. About batcest. Do you have anything about the first date between the Bats and between them and the Reader? Who started the polymorphic relationship in this foster family? And in general, what is the procedure for joining a relationship? The same as Bruce's adoption? The reader, as I understand it, is the last member of the group?
I really appreciate that you're checking in. I do not have anyone being a dick to me on anon. I've mostly blocked those kinds of people.
Honestly I don't think there is a first date, the whole reason I love writing them so much is because I feel no pressure to write anything conventional because I know in my soul that they are not conventional at all.
yes reader is the last to join the group.
As for how everything started, it began with Dick and Jason hate fucking during Jason's 'evil' days. Jason had a crush on Dick during his youth and just didn't tell Dick his identity at first. They were anonymous and fucked as nightwing and red hood.
Tim realizes what's going on around sixteen-seventeen (post him becoming red robin when damian is about fourteen fifteen) and knows that they like him but are agonizing over it so Tim takes matters into his own hands. He gets them to confess to him while drunk (dick) and high (jason) and records it, refusing to let either of them ignore their feelings any longer.
Damian knows that there is something up with his father's other children from the beginning but doesn't care. He joins at sixteen when Dick has a mental breakdown about 'his dami' (he is so fucked up and possessive) kissing somewhere else (he only knows cause Cass tattled) and outright demands to the others that damian joins. Tim is hesitant but has heard Damian speak Arabic and thinks it's hot so he suggests a trial basis.
Cass has known since she started living at the manor but never said anything til she kicked Jason's ass in sparring and demanded to join. Jason Dick and Tim all think strong women are hot so that was a no brainer.
Steph joins with Cass because those two are inseperable.
Duke joins about six months or so after he starts living in the manor and Damian decides that he wants Duke in for a variety of reasons, more then one of which is he likes flustering Duke. He finds it funny and calls duke 'my sun' in Arabic. (more about duke here)
Darling's joining has already been outlined in this post but rest assured they are heavily manipulated
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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damian who doesn't get darling get away with anything because he knows how to play that game better then almost anyone and darling is not that better then him.
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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i completely avoid writing bruce because hes so difficult so thats completely understandable
uhh its not exactly a just a batcest ask but if your up for it batfam/batcest x darling
how do you think a darling would meet batfam just because its gotham the waynes are famous and theres no way a regular civilian let alone like broke college student is just making friends with them without another thought going through their head
another question would be how would darling be incorporated into the family uh well dynamic when they start forcibly staying at the manor? how do they feel at first and as they start growing accustomed to their odd family? :).
I really like the first question because I do feel like something has to happen for the darling to meet the Waynes. Maybe the darling goes to wayne-corp on a trip for collage and Tim decides to pretend to be an intern to see if any of these people are worth keeping around. When darling keeps speaking up and obviously engaging, Tim is like, that one.
Tim is also a canonical stalker so I feel like he tries to learn anything and everything on darling because he's curious. the yandere kicks in when he learns that they're a hard worker and genuinely kind in a way that is not normal for Gotham. when he learns that they aren't from Gotham he starts freaking out a little bit. He's worried about them because what if they don't know all of the Gotham protocals and they get hurt.
Damian who works with Tim meets darling one day and appreciates that they aren't being stupid, that they can take his sharpness and meanness and work with it, turning it into something that is honest and genuine but a little more kind. Damian really likes having someone who isn't a sibling that doesn't fear him just because of his rep.
Jason is dropping by the building one day for a meeting with Damian and meets darling because they're in the middle of arguing with him. Jason just watches his tetchy, grumpy brother argue with this cute ass civilian. He asks Damian what the fuck is going on after their meeting because Damian doesn't just argue with anyone. They have to actually interest him. Jason does not get an answer.
Dick is dropping by to bitch about Bruce one day to Damian and take him out to lunch when he spooks darling so bad that they throw their papers everywhere. Dick thinks that it's kind of funny because Damian is so gentle with darling and helpful in a way he isn't with anyone else. Dick also tries to pry an answer out of Damian and later Tim but he doesn't get one.
Duke knows something is up right away because Damian is drawing someone new and not talking to anyone about it. Decides to take drastic measures and drugs their brother with truth serum (totally not because they're jealous noooo) only to Damian to freak out because he doesn't know how to handle feeling anything for a civilian. They end up having a heart to heart about it and Duke being the manipulative shit head they are, gets to work.
Cassandra also knows something is up right away because she knows her siblings. She can read their body language and knows that someone is keeping a secret from her. Does the research herself and sees that Damian keeps interacting with darling so she just goes to darling directly and asks them what their relationship with her brother is. They of course freak out and try to reassure her that they aren't interested in him, of course not.
Darling doesn't really know what to do at first because they know that something is up with the way that the Waynes are very affectionate but something is really weirding them out. Of course the bats are constantly telling them that nothing is going on, that they aren't related anyways so why do you care so much (they absolutely see each other as siblings, its hotter that way) and darling gets so used to the casual affection and oddness that it's so much harder to fret when they catch Damian and Dick kissing.
They do fret mind you but Dick is so good with his words, so soothing when he wants to be that they can't be mad at either of them.
Eventually reader catches Jason and Tim having sex and of course, freaks the fuck out but Tim texts Damian who appears to lead them away and give them a cup of tea. It's very helpful but darling of course does not want to talk about it and Damian eventually gets so iratated with this that he threatens to use league tactics.
This just scares poor darling more and Duke sweeps in, and Damian watches in sheer awe as Duke pulls the information out of darling and reassures that they aren't weird or wrong or anything of this nasty stuff that's going on inside their head.
A few days later darling is sat down for a meeting where the Waynes confess to all be together and would darling like to join them? They know that darling had all sorts of feelings about seeing Jason and Tim together.
Darling is sort of pulled into the relationship without ever being asked but the bats let them make the final decsion even if they already knew the answer.
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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i might be missing something but why are you mad at bruce? :o
he's really hard to write, that's my main reason
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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once again asking for more batcest asks
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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im thinking about the trope of neglected reader (no hate to people who love that trope) but like i cannot see the bats as anything but extremely overbearing. You're a citizen, one of their flock of sheep, always in need of them
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deaddovedecadence · 1 month ago
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am i mad at bruce? yes
do I also want bruce to emotionally brutulize Jason in the sunshine verse? yes
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deaddovedecadence · 2 months ago
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How does the batcest thing work with the bat families partners like kon, Selina… or do they not have those in that au
I honestly assume that they're open poly. Bruce isn't involved with the polycule just cause im mad at him right now. Dick and Duke keep a schedule of dates and times with partners so that everyone can meet up with their partners and everyone stays happy.
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deaddovedecadence · 2 months ago
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I NEED MORE BATCEST HEADCANONS!!!! Or a story??.👉👈
okay headcanons are what I'm interested in rn so maybe some more of those
the bats see civilians as sheep and they are flock heads. By that I mean, they don't civilians are all that capable and are in need of protecting and teaching
All of the bats have really good rhythm. one of their main ways of bonding with each other is dancing (specifically dirty dancing or learning folk dances from dick).
Jason is Mexican and loves Folkorico with all his heart. Tim makes an active effort to take him whenever there's a performance in town because he knows it makes Jason happy. Cass also likes to tag along because she loves dancing.
Damian has so many portraits of his siblings that it's not funny. He and Tim team up to track them with stalkerish intensity.
Dick and Damian are obviously really close so dick was there for all of Damian's firsts (like the weirdo dick is) but it was a random that got Damian's first kiss because he wanted to practice before doing anything with his siblings. (severe jealousy was involved)
Besides Dick, Duke is Damian's favorite because he gets to teach Duke everything about the bonds of their family and how everything works.
Duke is manipulative as all hell. Will not hesitate to bat his puppy eyes at Jason or Cass or Dick to get what they want. Damian thinks it so cute but warned Duke early on that it wouldn't work on him.
Cass finds her brothers so cute. Gets Cuteness aggression from looking at them sometimes and has to go work it out on a dummy. The only one who knows about this is Steph.
There are so many bets going on in wayne manor at all times. Loss can usually mean something sexual or dressing up in some way though they do all like to embarrass each other by making each other wear the disco wing costume.
The hierarchy is complicated. Dick kind of keeps everything in order but it's Duke and Damian as his seconds, not Jason.
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deaddovedecadence · 2 months ago
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dick calling reader little brother/sister while they fuck
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