daisychainsandsunrays

[daisychainsandsunrays]

Alright ladies, here it is

Im leaving tumblr :(

This platform has served me in so many ways in the past in terms of self-growth and coming into my queerness, but recently it has done just the opposite. I’ve been getting more and more hate mail and lesbophobia/homophobia/transphobia than ever (which I haven’t been sharing for trigger reasons) simply because I refuse to let my trans followers feel alone against terfs.

Maybe I’ll be back, maybe not, but thank you so so much to all of my supportive mutuals and followers who have left me positive messages and offered their allyship, even anonymously.

Even when I’m away from this site, I will not stop fighting for minorities and for what is right.

Stay strong and stay disruptive. ❤️

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Hiya! So It’s currently 4am and there’s an Amber warning for a massive and loud storm... could someone please please chat to me to keep me from having another panic attack? I’m really not good with this type of weather especially at night. Thank you!!

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Every 80s movie is simultaneously the gayest and most homophobic work of film ever released

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hey girl we miss you x Hope you doing okay ❤️

Thank you for your support love!

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hey girl thanks for being there for me as a trans lesbian. you gave me the courage to come out to my closest friends and I’m so glad I did. you are such a queen, and your positivity and loving blog posts are what I look forward to. completely understand if you need time/space but just know that we do miss you and your friends are greater than any haters. love ya sweetie x

This honestly made my heart swell!!! I’m so so proud of you darling!!!!!! I’ll always always always be here for you, get in touch anytime if you need to! 💕💕

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Hey it’s me the 15 year old who’s question regarding surgery/trans people you answered. Thank you so much - ❤️

No problem! I’m always here to help.

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Hey! I have a question - What is a lesbian, I’m only 13 and i have super conservative parents. This isnt meant to offend you I just don’t know.. thanks so much 🧡

Hi love!

A lesbian is essentially a woman who is attracted to other women. A lesbian can be non-binary, gender-queer and some even use he/him pronouns but the most boiled down definition is a female homosexual.

I wouldn’t recommend using the internet to search for these answers as at the moment, the term lesbian has been very sexualized and you might stumble across something inappropriate, but this is a safe space for you and I also recommend sites such as childline which contain a lotta helpful and safe information.

I hope this helped you sweetheart!

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hey sis Thanks for posting about trans women. I am a trans woman and your blog helped me to realise my true identity and know that there are people who will support me no matter what. Hope you’re doing okay 💙 You are an angel 💜

Hi love!

Know that I’ll always love and support you, as will all of my followers and you have a community in us. Thank you for getting in touch and if you need anything just ask!!!

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I wanna spend a rainy day with you, wearing comfy clothes while we playing Animal Crossing

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Hiya, I’m back!

Thank you for all the lovely messages while I’ve been away. I’ll get around to replying to some of them later! For now, drop into my inbox and tell me something which is bringing you comfort and stability right now ❤️

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Hello my lovelies~

I just wanna let you lot know that I won’t be active on this account for a couple of weeks. I’m still getting a lot of transphobic/lesbophobic comments and anon hate which I’m not sharing and it’s very mentally taxing.

I know that I’m speaking from a place of privilege and that these struggles are not more important or greater than the struggles of the trans community. I will always use my voice and power to fight for wonderful trans folks and all other minorities/oppressed groups.

Please note that a lot of you have been asking for my personal advice on your situation- thanks for reaching out! But please remember that I’m not a professional therapist or psychiatrist. I can’t diagnose you or get you any proper help, but I can offer support.

I wanna also say a massive thank you to everyone who’s shown their support for the trans community on this page. That’s actual queen shit, thank you so much.

This is a wonderful space sometimes but it can also be somewhere I’m uncomfortable and afraid and I’ll not let that affect my mental health so much for now.

Loads of love!! ✨✨✨

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Heeeey, I don't want to bother but I've been seeing ppl saying that comp het is terf language (i guess the term was coined by a terf??) and ppl advised to use "heteronormativity/coercive heteronormativity" instead. Idk how to prove that this is true (especially since eng is not my first language so reading formal language is hard for me) but maybe that's something worth looking into

Thanks for letting me know!! I’ll be using the term heteronormativity from now on.

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I’m only 15 and I’m super confused about this can you plz help I am 100000000% for doing whatever the fuck you want like be yourself, ain’t nobody’s opinion matter. But this confuses me - Trans people obviously if they feel more comfortable as a woman/man whatever, I’m all for that. But what I don’t rlly get is for example a trans woman, can people attracted to women be attracted to them? Because they still have male genitals so.. I’m so sorry if this offends you, I’m just really confused😟

This has a rlly long answer but short hand there’s this thing called bottom surgery ya know where trans people get surgery to change their genitals? Yep a very wonderful thing in my opinion

A lotta trans people may choose not to have surgery for lots of different reasons, in which case it’s just someone’s personal choice whether they wanna be with that person sexually or romantically. Either way, that person’s identity regarding sexuality is still valid.

Anyway yeah someone’s ‘surgery status’ as I like to call it shouldn’t really put you off of dating them but in a lotta cases this could cause discomfort and dysmorphia (for both parties) sexually so it’s really important to communicate and be respectful of transgender identities.

I wanna add that there is no one way to date or be sexually intimate with anyone, let alone trans people, so just do what you want and what works for you!! Just remember that trans women are women and trans men are men ✨

Thanks for ur question my love!

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Heterophobia builds character ❤