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Facebook, Google, and Elon have given your data to everyone you don't want to have all your data.

Trump, Paul Manafort, and Jared Kushner gave all your voting data to Russia in 2016. Cambridge Analytica mined all your social media data in 2016.

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guys what if isabelle got turned into an eevee 

GUYS

 /hit with a rock

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Okay Walter White was actually pretty funny as a character bc he was so toxic that seasoned drug lords were like I cannot work w this man I have to put my mental health first

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Shark Enjoying some sea grass.......

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I think that in real life…. Relationships r like . Your partner WILL ‘trauma dump’ on you. You will have to perform ‘emotional labor’ for your partner. Your partner will make mistakes. You will also do all of these things. The very nature of love is irrational and problematic and difficult …. To expect a relationship to be free of these things is strange to me…. The point is that your relationship to that person is ultimately worth it, and worth growing with them, helping each other, seeing the worst parts of another person and being able to love them anyway

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Creative & DIY

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Lmao ok this is so clever!!! 🤯😂

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whatever. American Sunday

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Is it just me or are we all trapped in the belly of this horrible machine?

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I backed a video game Kickstarter whose organisers can't figure out how their bulk mailing service works and keep accidentally issuing every backer the same Steam key, so whoever redeems it first is the only one who gets to play. They've done this three times and counting.

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“well if sexuality isn’t defined by attraction to biological sex then what is it???????”

vibes. this is not a joke. it’s literally vibes.

when you look at someone and find them attractive, you don’t know what genitals they have or what gender they are. you might assume, but you don’t know. you are going off aesthetics and vibes.

another reason it’s all about the vibes is because it’s very common for queer men to mostly be attracted to other queer men, and queer women to be attracted to other queer women, and just queer people in general seeking each other out, based on the aesthetic and cultural tells we’ve curated over decades (centuries even.) we’ve gotten really good at finding each other.

though honestly, and this may be a hot take, i don’t think sexuality is about initial attraction. i don’t think it’s about who you look at on the street and think is hot. otherwise any lesbian who saw a femme twink on the street and accidentally thought he was hot and vise versa would probably be bullied by the internet into identifying as bi.

i think it’s about what kind of person you see yourself with and what kind of dynamic you want to have with that person. are you a femme who absolutely loves the idea of settling down with a nice butch? are you a trans guy who sees yourself connecting mostly with other trans guys? are you a gay guy who loves bears? what do you like to do in your free time and what other demographics tend to be into that? clubbing? roller derby? dnd? what kind of sex do you most enjoy having? do you prefer not to have sex? do you prefer sex without the expectation of romantic attraction?

what kind of life do you want and what kind of person do you want that life with? that’s what it’s about, not what someone has in their pants.