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In the bathroom. Straight up ‘taking it’ and by it? Haha, les just say, testosteron

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me: yeah as a trans man, i really don’t like being called “girl” in casual conversation. I understand that it’s an unconscious form of address for a lot of people, but it makes me really uncomfortable because I can never tell how it’s being used. It could be that it’s in a truly friendly, “genderless” manner, or it could be that you’re using it to purposefully misgender me, putting me in “my place.” Or, the most likely scenario: it could be that it was a Freudian slip and you don’t actually see me as a man. So I’d really just rather you call me dude, bro, or man or something; that way, there’s not any tension or confusion haha.

some people: you HATE women. You HATE femininity and are anti-feminist. how DARE you ask that I gender you correctly. you’re a MISOGYNISTIC PIG and should REPENT.

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The Friendfilled Sillymaxers!

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wow transphobes aren't even telling trans guys they're "delusional" or "confused women" or whatever. they're just straight up telling them to kill themselves

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well 🧍‍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.

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I don’t know how many boys follow me, but I gotta bet there’s some. I just wanna tell y’all to be careful.

Abusive girls exist and what they’re doing is seen as like “badass tough don’t take no shit” but your girl should not hit you. Ever.

She should not demand for you to hand over your phone to look through.

She should not yell at you and humiliate you either alone or in front of people.

She shouldn’t make you distance yourself from your friends or family.

She shouldn’t scratch you or twist your arms.

She should not call you names.

She shouldn’t tell you ‘she’ll kill herself if you break up’

These are just a few examples of abuse and it’s just seen as okay when girls do it and god knows I’ve fallen victim to it a few times, but you shouldn’t have to.

Never worry about not being in a relationship. If they’re worth it, they won’t hurt you.

No one has the right to hurt you.

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uh hey that person you just reblogged from used to be in our discord server but we had to kick them out because they admitted to watching t*m and j*rry... that show features violence and as such glorifies it.... when we confronted them all they said was "wtf its a show about a cat and a mouse"... if you dont believe me theres a whole callout post that features their name age and street address so you can go to their house and check... anyways you should unfollow them before people start thinking you like problematic media too :/ just trying to help

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I really feel like we should work more on destigmatizing male virginity, ESPECIALLY when it comes to casting assumptions about their virginity, based on appearance, and the judgements that follow in the aftermath. The conventional idea of the "normal guy" is already off-putting to me (See: fuckhungry poonhounds who have been chasing tail since before they could drink). So why would you make ANOTHER disgusting stereotype for people who are the total antithesis? There's two sides to this. If you're a (normally overwhelmingly cis) guy, and you've entered your 20s without losing your V-Card, then you're cleeeaaarly a "smelly toxic hairy disgusting fatass incel neckbeard" (we'll get to that) who doesn't deseeeerve a woman's touch. (also presumptuous) And on the other side of it, if you're a guy and you aren't the epitome of conventional attractiveness? If you have a double chin? Don't lift every day? Have even slightly unkempt hair? Don't have even facial hair distribution? Don't have some bullshit white collar job? Then you're "probably one of those mouth-breathing D&D-playing cellar dwelling turbovirgins". And buddy, can I ever fucking tell you that these people are among the NICEST people I've ever actually met? The closest friends I have IRL all fit varying bills of the "Loser Male Virgin" stereotypes to a T. And they are genuinely charming, endearing, kind, and funny people. So for the love of God please give these people a break. Am I asking you to go to your local 40K shop and give the closest person you find a sympathy fuck? No. Absolutely not. I'm saying stop judging these people so utterly relentlessly.

If you want people to take your "body positivity" attitudes seriously, then be normal about these guys. Even the weird ones. Stop looking at them as if they're fucking Tighten from Megamind. I will slap you with a rolled up gorilla.

Do better.

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quick mel doodle

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CALLBACK PING

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Wayback machine 1999 source source

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been getting into regretevator recently…

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Npd + aspd culture is knowing people think you are—and that you might be—a bad person, but thinking that’s a good thing. Better a bad person than a bootlicker. Better a bad person than weak. Better a bad person than victimized again.

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