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It’s easy to be mad, I sure am. But you need to channel your anger instead of running into shit blindly. Voting is fair (mostly, the electoral college is stupid though, if you ask me). If you voted, you did what you could. The problem doesn’t lie in such, the problem lies in the fact he was even allowed to run tbh. Which is… sad, infuriating, exhausting honestly. But. There is no need to absolutely lose your shit. Channel that rage, that emotional vulnerability. Use it to think rationally and make conscious decisions. If you care, that’s already a step in the right direction. Cause you should care. There is only one planet and it’s dying. At the end of the day, it needs us and we need each other more than anything right now. If you gotta scream, do it into the void. That’s okay, that’s healthy. Hell, scream therapy is a thing! So scream about all the harm you want to commit, don’t actually do it. Whilst you’re at it, cry like a baby about what’s making you sad. I don’t want light tears, I want you to cry so hard there is snot running down your face, your body shaking uncontrollably, and it’s so loud you’ll get a loud noise warning on your watch. Then get back up. And keep fighting. But no fighting fire with fire, because it only makes a bigger flame. So let’s be rational. And I don’t want to hear “Easy for you to say!” I’m a queer female, my rights are being threatened too and there might not be a planet for the kids I want so desperately. So, I’m fucking pissed too. I’m absolutely heartbroken. But y’know, I gotta think shit through before I do anything. Don’t want to cause more chaos. And everyone seemingly is. Literally everyone.

So here’s some tips:

Don’t engage in rage bait

Engage in thoughtful conversation

Help in your community

Vote in your local elections

Discourage violence

Encourage love

Protect what you stand for

Take care of yourself

Take care of the planet

Take care of each other

And mostly, think before you do. The world is already going to shit, do you want it to get worse?

Also, do some fun shit too. Watch the cat TikToks, buy that sweet treat, make that thing, buy the little guy trinket at the thrift store, put the eyelashes on your car, fuck around if you wanna (responsibly!), adopt a pet, chase that ‘stupid’ dream, go outside and play in the rain! Fucking live! They want us to just submit and essentially go away, don’t! Exist! Existing when everyone wants to erase your existence is the strongest thing you can do. Stay strong and remember, if no one else loves you, or cares about you, I do. Yeah, I don’t know you, you don’t know me either, but I do. Because you’re human. And that’s enough for me. Which is how it should be for everyone. Granted within reason. You ain’t gotta love bigots, k? Don’t forget that.

Just know, this is a safe space, always <3

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New pronouns y’all! They’re she/they/he/it (I added he and it pronouns basically), I’m finally finding that mystical gender euphoria. I’ve also decided that I do not really care what terms y’all use on me! I’ve realized lately that I feel like everything and nothing all at once and I don’t really care what people call me so… yeah! Don’t get me wrong, I’m definitely nonbinary but I’m mostly just me, just, Lux, and that’s okay! So use whatever terms and pronouns you’d like for me! And yes I did put my most preferred pronouns first but that does not mean you have to use she! It also doesn’t mean you have to use all of them interchangeably, just use whatever you’d like, okay? I don’t really mind :)

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This is the funniest video ever

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Seal noises please?

awawawawawawa.....

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since the old version of this post was flagged for ‘adult content’…

reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!

along with that, reblog if your account is a non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the enby spectrum!

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Enjoying the bass

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The dog is a disney princess

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me telling a lie

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To quote a legend @elliotleemusic

“I've been searching my whole life

For labels that define my mind

But really, I live life in multitudes”

Yeah, that’s how my gender feels. Like nothing is quite right for me and it’s infuriating. It’s like, girl but not. Man? No. Genderless? Yes. Nonbinary? Definitely. Okay maybe a little man, like a smidge. No girl. All girl. I am nothing. Baby I’m not even here, I’m a hallucination. And it bothers my OCD so bad and the gender dysphoria I get from just not being able to explain it is... so hard. I just want to exist and I don’t understand how some people can find the words so easily. Why is it easy for them and not for me? Idk, I really don’t. I go through being deadnamed all the time and being misgendered all day long but I know if I brought it up people would be offended even though they already know that about me. They just ignore it. Like, it’s not a preference, it’s who I am. And not having a specific microlabel that describes how I feel makes me feel so fucking alone. Which is why I like mircolabels. It makes you feel not so alone, like you’re not the weird one. Like, there are others there with you on this feeling. But, I know a lot of confused people are out there too, so for them, just know, you’re not alone. I’m confused too and so are a lot of people. You don’t have to mircolabel or label at all. Just being you is more than enough. So until further notice, nonbinary, and only that, no further describer is all I’ll be. And maybe one day, I’ll accept myself as just that. As just me. But until then, regardless, happy pride everyone ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

(Also heres my custom pride flag below if ya care)

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if voicing concerns, needs, wants, feelings etc etc etc “ruins” something, let it get ruined.

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Today I ask myself, why not be horny on main? It’s 2023, let’s get with the time. Who tf is vanilla anymore? Did no one raise their hand? Yeah that’s what I thought. Anyway, I hope everyone is able to ruin someone or be ruined themselves soon (consensually ofc <3)!Or are able to do both because you don’t have be only a dom or only a sub, you can be both interchangeably. Like, get money AND get bitches, y’know?

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it annoys me when sapphic women see an attractive woman and are like “i’m no better than a man 😳😔” like BABE you are allowed to see an attractive woman and want to fuck her!!! free yourself from the cottagecore PG13 narrative of sapphic attraction, look at her with lust in your heart!!!

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For The People In The Back

What Cancel Culture IS:

Falsely accusing people of stuff they’ve never done, trying to destroy someone’s career, canceling someone over a basic human mistake, judging someone over something they said when they were 12, hating on someone just because you can, picking petty fights...

What It ISN’T:

Calling out people for the shit they did wrong & holding them accountable as they should know better.

Holding people accountable is not what we mean by cancel culture. That’s just being a decent human being & expecting others to do the same as they rightfully should.

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Can people stop making false accusations of SA towards people? Like, you’re only making it harder for REAL victims to be believed. This whole movement about speaking out towards abusers is supposed to help bring light to the situation and abusers to justice. It was not made for vile shit like this. How many times is this gonna happen before you all realize the damage you’re doing to actual victims and the people you’re falsely accusing? You’re just making shit so so so much worse for everyone, including yourself.

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