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Enjoying Tummy Rubs

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I need those ears in my life

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Okay, that was pretty tight

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her hair and lips change to the color of your blog

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Lets go bitches

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The Evolution of Douchebag Style [full video]

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Things I Do At The Start Of Every Month

• Upload and delete photos from my phone. Google Photos has become my best friend, so once a month I make sure to upload all my recent photos to it, and then delete (most of) them from my phone to free up space.  •Figure out monthly finances and budget. I try to determine what the month should like for me money wise. Where do I have money coming in? Where is money most likely going to go? What’s the max I want to spend in each area? Sometimes it really helps, other times it doesn’t.   •Review + rearrange calender. I pull up Google Calendar, my dry erase board and planner and make sure everything is the same in each. I add events, rearrange them, and delete others.  •Make plans w/ friends and family. This isn’t something I do all the time, but if I really want to go out to eat or do something special with my mum or a sibling I’ll let them know and we’ll try to set a date to do so.  •Schedule appointments. More like make a list of things I need to schedule in the upcoming days/week. •Make/Buy birthday/holiday cards. I usually handmake my cards so having them premade is less stressful than waiting the day before (or day of) to try and draw out something spectacular.  •Plan off/zero/me days. It doesn’t matter what you call it. Sometimes you just need to make sure you have a day or two set to just focus on you. •Wash and clean car. I don’t own a car but I try to make sure the one I primarily ride in is fairly clean inside in general.   •Change bedding. Actually, I do this more often now. I change my bedding twice a month and wash my pillowcases once a week.  •Essentials shopping trip. If I’m in need of a face cleanser, lotion, toothpaste, I plan to go get it.  •Deep clean my bedroom/Reorganise my spaces. That’s the only area I really have to clean. I’ll sweep/mop the floor. Dust everything down. Clean my mirrors. Reorganise my shelves, dresser top, and closet. •Write down broad goals and to-dos. Basically, a rough idea of what I hope to accomplish and things that have to get done over the next few weeks. •Wash makeup brushes/give my makeup a good wipe down. Have no fear, I wash my makeup brushes at least once a week and spray them down with my daily brush cleaner, but sometimes I get lazy and leave the ones I don’t use that often dirty. Therefore, I’ll go ahead and wash them and really clean off/disinfect my palettes, lipglosses, foundation etc  •Pick two books to read this month. This is just from one of my yearly goals to read a new book every two months. I’ve been trying to choose one on my reading list and a ‘self-help’ type book.

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A lot of men, but not all men, but still a fairly significant portion of men, but again, not all men see any criticism of Men as a group as a personal attack, and of those (not all) men, many have the knee-jerk reaction to respond with “Not ALL men!”

And to this, I would like to say: (Not all) Men, by simply focusing on the generalizations and perceived indictments of your gender, rather than the content of the posts, you’re saying that you care more about your reputation than the problematic/harmful behavior that has warranted it.

What difference does it make to a woman that “not all men out there are like that,” when her own personal experiences tell her otherwise? How does it help her to let her know that –somewhere out there–there are exceptions to the rule (you, of course, being one of those exceptions)? Are problematic/harmful behaviors by men (not all men) only worth discussing if truly all men are guilty of them? 

If you are truly “one of the good guys,” you need to start focusing on the concerns that women have, rather than the fact that you didn’t like the exact verbiage they used when they voiced their concerns. Women shouldn’t have to bend over backwards to find a way to express themselves in a way that is non-offensive and non-threatening to (not all) men in order to be heard, especially since some (but not all) men simply don’t care about women’s concerns or experiences no matter how they are phrased.

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I'm the one at the sail, I'm the master of my sea.

Imagine Dragons, Believer

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It's always darkest before the dawn.

Florence Welch, Shake It Out

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Take a sad song and make it better.

Paul McCartney, Hey Jude

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When you're in pain, when you think you've had enough, don't ever give up.

Chris Martin, Up & Up

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Because the world will never take my heart.  Go and try, you'll never break me.

Gerard Way, Welcome to the Black Parade

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I'm free to be the greatest, I'm alive.

Sia, The Greatest

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wetland.

[process on patreon]

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Misogynists: women are property

Women: women aren’t property

Misogynists: BUT NEITHER ARE MEN!!!! IT GOES BOTH WAYS!!!