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Lmfao, Tumblr is about to lose 90% of their users. Excellent choice. What a fucking joke.

Updates to Tumblr’s Community Guidelines

Today we announced some big updates to our Community Guidelines and what kind of content is permitted on Tumblr. Adult content will no longer be allowed here. While we do not judge anyone for their desire to post, engage with, or view this stuff, it is time for us to change our relationship with it.

We expect you may have some questions on how this will affect you, and we’re here to make sure those questions get answered.

When does the new policy take effect?

Our new Community Guidelines will go into effect on December 17, 2018.

Newly uploaded content flagged as adult will no longer be allowed on Tumblr. We’ll also begin flagging and removing existing adult content with the ultimate goal of removing as much of it as we can.

What is considered adult content?

Adult content primarily includes photos, videos, or GIFs that show real-life human genitals or female-presenting nipples, and any content—including photos, videos, GIFs and illustrations—that depicts sex acts.

What is still permitted?

Examples of exceptions that are still permitted are exposed female-presenting nipples in connection with breastfeeding, birth or after-birth moments, and health-related situations, such as post-mastectomy or gender confirmation surgery. Written content such as erotica, nudity related to political or newsworthy speech, and nudity found in art, such as sculptures and illustrations, are also stuff that can be freely posted on Tumblr.

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I loved you. And you? Didn't want to be alone.

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I used to enjoy your blog a lot more when it was less political, and less hateful. Not to say your post doesn't have some truth in it, but some of it is definitely not factual.

Yes, men are overwhelmingly the mass murders, but they also commit the most suicides, work the most dangerous jobs, and die are put at risk more. The "not everyone" mentality applies to all groups, not just men or women.

Tell me, do you think it's right that women get lighter sentences for the same crimes and are heavily biased for in the court system especially when it comes to divorce and custody of children?

There are a lot of problems with society, and it's simply not right to place all of the blame on men. I like how feminists argue there are no differences between the sexes, yet, at the same time push for how much better women are at everything. Yes, women are better at a lot of things but certainly not everything.

So you're saying all men are bad but not all women? Maybe it's a problem with humanity.

when a woman is faster, stronger, better at sports - it’s because “she’s on enhancement drugs” “she’s manly” “the sport is easier when it’s played by girls.” 

when a woman is smarter, classier, makes more money - it’s because “she studies something easy” “slept her way to the top” “used affirmative action to get what she needs”

“overwhelmingly, men are perpetrators of mass violence” i say. this is a fact. i am reminded not to be too generalizing, because that isn’t fair. not all men, after all.

women are used to this. when we hold up serena williams, laverne cox, mae c. jemison to prove: we can do the same as you. we are told: no, those are the exception. there’s something wrong in the system or in them that makes it so they rose above their station. they’re not like other women. but every woman who is bitter, bitchy, cruel: they’re proof all women have personalities that follow the stereotype rules. it doesn’t matter that women are better surgeons, girls do better than boys in school, women are better leaders, better lawyers, are better at investing and finances, better drivers. but all women are stupid, hysterical, emotional messes that can’t drive and would nuke the country if someone called them a mean name.

but it’s not all men. not all police officers. not all frat boys. not all, just some bad apples, just some, don’t i know to judge people on the content of their character and not on who they are.

from the time they’re young, boys are given the benefit of the doubt. from the time girls are young, they’re told the majority of them will drown.

people are scrambling to figure out what is wrong with american schools that girls are doing so much better. maybe it’s because girls are suddenly now more likely to be morning people? is it unfair grading? is it some type of learning-style difference? is it all the exposure to female teachers? after all, if girls are doing so much better, there’s something wrong, right? there’s something wrong with the system?

men overwhelmingly are to blame for mass violence. just last night i watched a reporter ask the camera: “is this because of the women in his life?”

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i wish you tried harder.

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one of the worst feelings ever is realizing someone's feelings for you are starting to fade

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“In some parallel universe, I know you held me tighter. You tried harder. You said, “Look my love, I will meet you halfway.””

— N.M.Sanchez, from Initial Meeting

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Motivational Mango

Hello, I am Mango, birb of the internet, and I have heard that you have a sad. 

Did you know that I am professional sad fighter? It’s true! Mango will show you the way. When you has a sad, you may feel like doing this: 

As you can see, Mango has been there too. But I can offer you some solutions. 

Sometimes it can help to talk to a friend. It can be hard to reach out, but sometimes expressing how you feel and commiserating makes you feel less alone. Hiding in hair is optional. 

You can talk to friends online if that makes you more comfortable. Computer is also good for viewing birbs. Good for combating a sad.  

If you’re having a rough time, it’s ok to take a break and enjoy a favorite activity. Don’t feel guilty! We can’t be 100% work 100% of the time. You’re allowed to have fun! 

You could get some rest, take a walk, or fix yourself a favorite snack! Sometimes you need to treat yo self. You deserve it because you’re awesome. So remember to be good to you. 

You just take that sad and you give it this look to let it know you mean business: 

You examine this sad and tell it that it has no power here. Give it a real good look with your birb eye and remember that you are worth more than any momentary despair this sad could bring. Here, Mango show you how: 

If all else fails, Mango will get real puffy at the sad for you to ward it off. Sad has no room when Mango is poof. 

But of course the best cure for a sad is looking at pictures of birbs. 

Hang in there, birb! You’re gonna make it. 

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but wait, there's no reason you can't stay up until 0600!

Timeout.

So Babe is gonna come out on the 20th at …6:00 in the morning?

Are you implying that instead of keeping me up late at night for a release I must… wake up at the crack of dawn instead?

The

Audacity.

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WTF THIS IS SO ACCURATE WOW IM DED

should i be in bed? yes

am i? hell no

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keep going

no matter how bad things are right now.

no matter how stuck you feel.

no matter how many days you’ve spent crying.

no matter how many days you’ve spent wishing things where different. 

no matter how hopeless and depressed you feel.

i promise you won’t feel this way forever. keep going

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She can be difficult to love. But nothing exceptional ever comes easy.

eamnella (via wnq-writers)

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One day, all the love you’ve given away will find it’s way back to you, and it will finally stay.

bunny-in-neverland  (via wnq-writers)

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I often try to convince myself that I am alone by choice, but even I know that’s not the truth.

well-thesedays-im-fine, 1:32am, thoughts (via wnq-writers)

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How about we say ‘I love you’ without expecting a ‘I love you’ back.

dewdropheart  (via wnq-writers)

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you should never have to apologize for the way you need to be loved.

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I’m too much and not enough, in that order.

viejawanderingsoul  (via wnq-writers)