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Why I Love You

At a glance, "loving you" and "loving things about you" may look or sound interchangable. However, while the two are very closely related to each other, they are not the same thing. For example: one of the reasons that I love you is because you value trust. In my eyes, you, at some point in time, made a conscious or subconscious decision to recognize, value, appreciate, and respect the importance of trust, as well as what it means to have trust between two people. Not only is this a very significant and powerful decision, but it is also one that not many people will make in their lifetime. A lot of people see trust as something that can be manipulated in order to do as they please and/or get what they want. Some people value a life free of consequences more than they value trust. Because you value trust, it makes me love you. It is one of the reasons that I am in love with you. One of the things that I love about you is that you are trustworthy. This sounds almost identical to you valuing trust but they are different, and that difference is why one is on one list and one is on the other list. If you make a mistake or do something that makes me feel like I can't trust you, that doesn't mean that you value trust any less than you did before, it just means that we have something to work on together. It doesn't mean that I will love you any less. Trust was a really confusing example. I should have chosen something else. lolol. Let me see... One of the reasons that I love you is that you are kind to strangers. You don't have to know someone or be close to them in order to want what's best for them. Whenever I see you doing this, it makes my heart flutter in my chest, and it makes me want to marry you even more than I already do. It makes me love you harder and more earnestly. If you didn't have this selfless kindness inside of you, then you wouldn't be the same Ally that I want to spend my life with. One of the things that I love about you is that you like animals. I love this about you, but this is not a reason that I am in love with you. If you didn't like animals, I would still love you just as much. If you suddenly stopped liking animals today or tomorrow, it would not change my feelings toward you. How much you do or don't like animals has nothing to do with how much I want to marry you and spend the rest of my life with you. Reasons Why I Love You:

You have a beautiful heart.

You are kind to strangers.

You are kind to everyone, even people who are mean to you and/or don't deserve your kindness.

You are patient.

Because you are patient, you listen to Daddy rant and complain about things without getting agitated with me.

You are gentle with other people and their feelings by making sure that you don't purposefully or accidentally say or do something that will hurt them or hurt their feelings.

You are honest even when it would be much easier and/or much more convenient for you to lie.

You have a submissive spirit that finds pleasure in pleasing others and bringing them happiness.

You value trust.

You understand and appreciate that healthy relationships require effective communication.

You make an effort and put work into communicating effectively.

You allow me to be myself, regardless of whether that means I am being dominant, kinky, sweet, silly, nerdy, annoying, stupid, or insecure.

You take pleasure in encouraging people, motivating them, and building them back up.

You have a nurturing spirit that wants to see people take care of themselves while developing and growing in ways that are healthy and beneficial to them.

You are selfless with your time.

You are naturally empathetic toward people, their situations, and their problems.

You share your favorite pieces of classical music with other people in order to help them calm down, decompress, relax, and fall asleep.

How patient and understanding you are of my trust issues and my insecurities.

To be continued...

Things I Love About You:

You are wise.

You always share your opinion with your Daddy in the form of helpful advice.

You like animals.

You have a strong spirit that doesn't give up when things are difficult and overwhelming.

You think through problems so that you make the best/right choices when faced with a challenge.

You make me feel safe. I know that my heart is safe in your hands, and I can trust you to take care of it and me.

You are trustworthy.

You are little.

We are extremely/perfectly compatible in our views of what makes a relationship a good and healthy relationship.

We are extremely/perfectly compatible in our sexual desires and fantasies.

You enjoy video games as much, if not more, than I do.

You know things about superheroes and comic book characters.

You have the cutest nose I have ever seen on anyone, ever.

Your nose is perfectly shaped for receiving kisses.

You have a long and slender neck that looks very sexy, and I can easily imagine kissing and biting your neck.

Your neck also looks like it was made to wear collars and leashes.

Your taste in music.

Your unique interest in and enjoyment of classical music.

Your interest in and knowledge of proper nutrition.

The recipes that you find and the meals that you cook (especially the ones I've never heard of before).

Your big eyes.

The way that your big eyes make you look sweet, innocent, and little.

The beautiful shade of blue of your eyes.

Your squishy cheeks.

The way that your squishy cheeks make you look so soft, cuddly, little, and kissable.

Your cute ears.

The way that your cute ears make me want to lick, suck, and nibble on them.

Your long and fluffy hair.

The way that your long and fluffy hair makes me want to hold and pet you like a kitty cat.

Your soft and pouty lips.

The expressive faces you make when you move your lips and/or scrunch up your nose.

The way that your pouty lips always make me think about kissing you.

Your soft and perky breasts.

The way that your soft and perky breasts make me think about resting my head on them like my own, personal pillows.

The way that your breasts turn me on by making me think about massaging, kissing, biting, sucking, holding, pinching, squeezing, and marking them.

Your sexy and surprisingly thicc bubble butt.

The way that your bubble booty turns me on by making me think about grabbing, holding, squeezing, patting, rubbing, and spanking it.

Your long legs.

The way that your long legs look in dresses, skirts, long socks, and lingerie.

Your cute, light, sweet, and bubbly laugh.

The way that your laugh makes me so happy that I can't help but smile.

Your small, soft, and sweet voice.

The way that your voice makes you sound little and cute like a small submissive.

To be continued...

#008     #Why I Love You     #2019.09.08

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Celina’s Achievements

Longest Medication Streak Twenty-seven days. (You’ve far surpassed your previous Medication Streak since it first became one of your rules.  I couldn’t be more proud of you, Baby Girl!!  Can you make it even longer?) Longest Eating Streak Twenty-four days. (I really couldn’t be more proud of you, Baby Girl!!  It is only a matter of time before your break this newest Streak for Daddy.) Current Orgasm Passes Zero (But you have enough points for one as soon as I feel like cashing them in for you.) Total Orgasm Passes Earned Seventeen Current Spending Pile $0 1. Spent $14 on gifts for your family.  (What a selfless first purchase!) 2. Spent about $22 on our matching rings. 3. Spent an unknown amount on my two Flash shirts. (Thank you!) 4. Spent about $75 on a new wardrobe. Most Denied Orgasms In One Day At least twelve (I lost count after ten). This is the day I commanded you to edged yourself once every fifteen minutes until it was time for you to go to work.  Honestly, I didn’t think your body was going to be able to handle the stimulation, but your desire to please me was greater than your sensitivity.  On this day, you showed me how incredibly special you are.  That is something I have always known, but you did something I have never seen anyone do before; and, you did it to please me.  I cannot begin to describe to you how good that made me feel. Most Orgasms In One Day Seven 1. Fingering your tight pussy. 2. Using your toothbrush with the bristles attached. 3. Using your toothbrush without the bristles. 4. Fucking your hungry cunt with your hairbrush. 5. Using your hairbrush and toothbrush simultaneously like a nasty slut. 6. Gagging on your hairbrush while using your toothbrush on your clit like a truly pathetic cum slut. 7. Using any method of your choosing while I fantasized about using and abusing your body as my personal fuck toy. Most Spankings in One Day 150 Most Tasks in One Day 17 Total Number of Tasks 55 Task 1:  You are going to edge yourself for fifteen minutes straight while watching a punishment video. When you are done, you will send the punishment video to me along with your thoughts.If you need a break to keep yourself from having an orgasm, you will take your wet, jalapeno covered fingers, and deep throat them. Task 2: When you are finished your edging session, and you have sent me the video with all of your thoughts, you are going to spank your ass again. This time with your hand. Twenty strokes.(You mean you said it out loud?) Task 3: After spanking your ass, you are going to edge yourself again one time. Task 4: After edging yourself again, you are going to spank your thighs twenty times with your hairbrush. Task 5: After spanking your thighs, you are going to edge yourself two times with your toothbrush, with the bristles. Task 6: After edging yourself twice, you are going to punish your breasts again. Twenty strokes with your hairbrush. Task 7: After punishing your breasts, you are going to edge yourself again, three times, with the handle of your hair brush. Task 8: After edging yourself, you are going to whip your ass with your belt, thirty strokes. Task 9: After whipping your ass, you are going to edge yourself four times by rubbing your clit with your fingers. Task 10: After edging yourself, you are going to spank your ass twenty times with your hairbrush. Task 11: After spanking yourself, you are going to get into a bath or shower and edge yourself three times with your shower head. Task 12: After edging yourself, you are going to make yourself cum two times with your shower head. Task 13: After your shower or bath, you are going to cover all of your cuts, bruises, and sore spots with antiseptic spray or cream. Task 14: After applying spray or cream, you are going to put on your favorite clean shirt and favorite clean underwear and favorite clean socks. Task 15: After getting "dressed," you are going to eat a bowl of ice cream (assuming that you have already eaten dinner at this point), and watch something on YouTube or Netflix. Task 1: Eat dinner. Task 2: After eating dinner, play a video game with Daddy. Task 3: After playing a game with Daddy, edge yourself over voice chat. Task 4: After edging yourself over voice chat, Daddy will tuck you into bed. Task 1: Say, out loud, "Daddy thinks I'm pretty," two times. Task 1: Think to yourself: “I wuv Daddy very much.” Task 1: Every hour, on the hour, you are going to think to yourself: "Daddy wuvs me very much!" Task 1: Cereal Killer Task 2: Take your pills. Task 3: Write “sexy” on your thigh and “beautiful” above your pussy. Task 4: Spank yourself twenty times. Task 5: Food Diary. Task 6: Before and After Pictures Task 7: Record a compliment. Task 8: Yoga Task 9: Kiss Daddy’s cheek. Task 1: Send Daddy a selfie of your pretty face. Task 2: Write "Matthew's Girl" on your thigh and send me a picture. Task 3: Eat dinner/a meal/a snack. Task 4: Do a three minute plank. Task 5: Do twenty minutes of yoga. Task 6: Do a three minute plank. Task 7: Take your medicine. Task 8: Soak in the bath tub (if it isn't too late for a bath). Task 9: Send a Before and After Picture. Task 10: Record a compliment. Task 11: Make a Food Diary Entry. Task 12: Edge yourself slowly by gently fingering your kitty while watching another anal related video online. Task 13: Send Daddy the link to the video you watch. Task 14: Tell me what my Baby likes about the video, or what you wish they did differently. Task 15: Double check your homework and assignments to make sure that you have everything ready for class at 8:50am tomorrow. Task 16: Double check the alarms on your phone to make sure that you have several alarms set that will wake you up on time tomorrow morning. Task 17: Tell Daddy which panties you currently have clean so I can tell you which ones my Baby is going to wear for me tomorrow. Task 1: Wear pink or white panties today. Task 1: Yoga Task 2: Spank your inner thighs four times for being mean to my Girlfriend today.  (Two swats on each thigh.) Task 3: Write “Matthew’s” on your left thigh, “Beautiful” above your kitty, and “Slut” on your right thigh. Task 4: Change your ribbon to your other leg. Task 5: Send your Daddy at least three different necklaces that you like online so that I can get an idea of what your public collar is going to look like. Task 6: Write down and send the rest of your naughty dream for Daddy.  Your dreams and fantasies turn me on so much.  My Baby Girl is such a kinky slut, and I love it!  Daddy wants to know what happens in your dream after we leave the park together!

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Nightmares Are Stupid

Everyone has a nightmare from time-to-time.  Sometimes, it is caused by stress or anxiety.  Other times, it’s the result of a deeply rooted fear.  While it is impossible to completely eliminate the chance of ever having a nightmare ever again, there are things we can do and steps we can take to reduce the frequency and intensity of these nocturnal bullies. I wish there was an instant fix.  I wish I could stab your nightmares through the heart with a knife made out of ice, take them to my basement, soak their bodies in acid, and dispose of the acid in a discrete and unmonitored corner of the world.  Unfortunately, I live in a second-floor apartment; thus, I have no basement, which means that this plan will not work. Instead, what we can do is combine your love of writing with a proven method for battling these beasts.  Read the following article: https://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/10/31/rewriting-your-nightmares/ Can you guess what I want you to do?  You are going to make short stories out of your nightmares by rewriting them so that they are no longer scary.  Using your current Tumblr account, create a new blog where you can post these stories.  That way, I can read your stories, you can revisit your stories if the same nightmares return, and you can revise a story if you decide you want to turn it into a creative project.

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Celina’s Rules

I could write a book about rules, but you don’t need a book.  What you need to know is that I believe rules and punishments are extremely versatile and valuable tools for a Dom. When a Good Dom is careful with the creation and application of his rules, he can help a submissive become the very best version of herself.  He can help her develop healthy habits and new skills, or gain confidence while battling insecurities.  He can also make her feel owned and submissive.  He can turn her into a pathetic mess who is constantly desperate for her next orgasm. These rules are from me to you.  From me, for you.  I will never write rules for anyone I do not care about because creating and enforcing rules is a time-consuming responsibility.  Since I care about you so deeply, you can expect me to take your rules very seriously. That being said, this list is not concrete.  If a rule is ineffective, or it does not produce the desired results, I may change the rule and/or it’s punishment.  Whenever any changes occur, I will discuss them with you.  Your rules are not meant to trick, trap, or confuse you. As is the case with everything between us, if you have any questions or concerns, you can always bring them to me at any time. 1. Wear Warm Clothing Rule: You will dress appropriately for the weather.  When it is raining, you will use a raincoat and/or an umbrella.  If it is below 40º outside, you will put on a warm jacket or coat before leaving the house. Reason: Life is hard enough without being sick.  When you are sick, it is more difficult to focus on school, and it is harder or impossible to go to work.  I don’t want you feeling miserable, and I really don’t want you feeling stressed because you are behind on your responsibilities while also pushing yourself to make up for lost time. Punishment: You will go to bed thirty (30) minutes early every time you leave your house without wearing proper attire.  This is a fitting punishment because the extra rest will help your body recover from being exposed to the elements. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Buy a coat so cute that you want to wear it all the time.  2. Put your favorite coat somewhere that you cannot miss it when leaving the house.  3. Download a reliable weather app that will tell you what the weather is like outside before you even get dressed in the morning. 2. Drink Water Rule: You will drink at least forty (40) fluid ounces of water every day. Reason: Your body may run on cuddles and orgasms, but it also runs on water.  Drinking the right amount of water every day offers numerous benefits.  To list a few: Drinking water helps your organs function with ease.  Drinking water keeps your skin and your pores looking clean.  Drinking water causes your body to retain less water weight.  And, drinking water helps you lose weight by boosting your metabolism. Punishment: For each cup of water you do not drink (for any reason), you will do one one-minute wall sit.  If, for example, you only drank two cups of water the day before, you will do three one-minute wall sits: one for each cup you didn’t drink. Reward: Every day that you drink a minimum of forty (40) fluid ounces of water, you will put two dollars in your spending pile. Suggestions: 1. Buy a refillable water bottle that you think is very cute.  2. Buy a sippy cup that helps you feel little.  3. Slice some lemons or oranges to put in your water for extra, healthy flavor. 3. Sleep Rule: You will go to bed at least seven (7) hours before you need to wake up.  “Going to bed” means that your eyes are closed, and you are making a legitimate effort to fall asleep. Reason: In the same way that your body runs on cuddles, orgasms, and water; it also runs on sleep.  Your body and your mind both require a fair amount of sleep every night in order to perform at their fullest potential.  Getting solid rest every night boosts your immune system (which will keep you from getting sick as often); and, studies have shown that sleeping seven (7) hours or more every night increases weight loss. Punishment: For every ten minutes you are up past your bedtime, you will lose one (1) day of porn privileges.  See below: Five Minutes Past Bedtime = No Loss Of Porn Privileges Ten Minutes Past Bedtime = One Day Without Porn Fifteen Minutes Past Bedtime = One Day Without Porn Twenty Minutes Past Bedtime = Two Days Without Porn Twenty-five Minutes Past Bedtime = Two Days Without Porn Thirty Minutes Past Bedtime = Three Days Without Porn Suggestions: 1. Set an alarm on your phone to remind you when it’s bedtime.  2. Start getting comfortable an hour before bedtime so that you don’t feel wired or anxious before it’s time to go to sleep. 4. Eat Rule: You will eat three (3) meals a day. Reason: In the same way that your body runs on cuddles, orgasms, water, and sleep; it also runs on food.  When you eat the right portions of the right foods, it makes everything better.  Your body rests better at night.  You have more energy during the day.  Your brain processes information more quickly (which makes school and work much simpler tasks).  Antioxidant-rich foods lessen the damage caused by free radicals.  Complex carbs increase serotonin levels.  This list goes on; but, with your knowledge of nutrition, you are the last person to whom I need to explain the benefits of healthy eating.  You already understand the process.  What you need to do now is change your feelings toward food.  Do not skip breakfast because it feels unnecessary; instead, see it as an opportunity to activate your fat-burning metabolism earlier in the day.  Do not skip lunch because you are busy; instead, see it as an opportunity to boost your energy and serotonin simultaneously so that you have a happier and more productive day.  Do not skip dinner because you are worried about your weight; instead, eat foods that are rich in antioxidants so that you literally look younger longer for your Daddy. Punishment: If you skip a single meal, you will write lines of Daddy’s choosing. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Remember that eating actually makes you more attractive.  Vitamins and antioxidants slow down the aging process. When you think long-term, you realize that liking how you look and looking your best for Daddy both mean eating healthier portions. 2. Buy convenient meals that you can eat even when you are short on time.  3. Buy food that you enjoy eating.  Yogurt and smoothies are both healthy and delicious. 8. Atlas & Hercules Rule: You will never let guilt or fear stop you from telling me how you feel. Reason: You are my best friend.  I love you.  I care about you.  This page is evidence of that.  As I said before, I do not make rules for people I do not care about because making and enforcing rules is a time-consuming responsibility.  In fact, I will not dominate someone unless she is special and important to me.  You are more special and important than you know.  As much as I enjoy using you for my pleasure, that is not my primary reason for being here.  I want you to be happy and healthy.  I want to do everything I can to make that happen.  If you are having a bad day, and you want to talk about it, I want to hear about it.  I know that, sometimes, we just need distractions from our negative feelings.  But, there are times when we need to vent or talk about the things that are bothering us.  I am here for both.  You are not going to push me away or lose me because you are having a bad day or feeling sad.  I promise. Punishment: Not letting me help you will make me incredibly sad. Reward: Talking to me about what’s weighing you down will give me opportunities to prove to you that I am not going to leave or stop caring about you. Suggestions: 1. Tell me right away.  If you hold onto your sad feelings for a while, you might talk yourself out of sharing them with me.  2. Remember, you aren’t unloading your sadness on me, you are sharing it with me so that we can handle it together. 10. Atlas & Hercules Part II Rule: You will call me when you are distressed. Reason: There is no reason you should ever have to panic or worry alone.  Especially if you are having a panic attack, you will tell me because I want to be there for you.  I want to help you and take away your fears, but I can’t do that unless you let me.  You can message me first; but, if I don’t respond, you will call me to wake me up so that we can talk. Punishment: I will be severely disappointed that you didn’t give me the opportunity to help you. Reward: Waking me up when you need me will result in my writing a poem for you. Suggestions: 1. If you think I need my sleep, call me anyway.  If I truly need my sleep, I will be too tired to be woken up by the phone call.  If I answer, then I will be able to help you.  In either scenario, calling me is an excellent measure of whether or not I have rested enough.  2. If you are afraid of bothering me, remember that it honestly bothers me more to know that I wasn’t there for you when you needed me, than to wake up in the middle of the night. 11. Medication Rule: You will take a multi-vitamin, your birth control, turmeric, and Prozac every day. Reason:  All bodies are not created equal.  For example, you are able to orgasm without physical stimulation.  That is something some women will only ever be able to dream about doing.  Some people are tall, some are short, some have brown eyes, some have red hair, some have freckles, some have an iron deficiency, some are colorblind, some have a chemical imbalance, and the list goes on.  We have no control over our genetic code.  What we can control is whether or not we do everything in our power to help our bodies as much as we can.  Since you are mine, and your body is mine, you are going to do everything within your power to keep yourself as healthy as possible, physically and mentally.  Taking your daily vitamins and medications is just as important to me as eating two (2) meals a day and getting at least seven (7) hours of sleep. Punishment: Forgetting to take your medication or choosing to not take your medication for any reason will result in writing lines of my choosing.  The length of your lines and the number of repetitions will vary depending on which medication you did not take, and how good or bad you have been at following this rule in the past. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Take your medications at the same time every day to help it become a habit.  2. Always keep your medications in the same place so that you never misplace a bottle.  3. Do not keep your medications near the kitchen or bathroom sink.  It will be too easy to lose a pill down the drain.  4. Leave a reminder to take your medications somewhere where you cannot miss it: bathroom mirror, bedroom door, front door, etc.  5. Set an alarm in your phone that will alert you at the same time every day, and remind you to take your medications. 12. Exercise Rule: You will exercise for twenty minutes every morning as part of your morning routine. Reason: Exercising keeps you healthy by strengthening your heart, improving your circulation, and toning your muscles.  Exercising also boosts your metabolism which helps your body burn calories faster and more efficiently.  Finally, daily exercise also improves your immune system, making it less likely that you will get sick. Punishment: For every minute of exercising you skip, you will be in time-out for an equal length of time.  Now that you are required to exercise as part of your morning routine, your Daddy is anticipating that the main reason why you might skip a workout is because you would rather sleep in for twenty minutes.  In this scenario, you are willing to trade the time you would have spent exercising for more sleep.  Since your health is so important to me, your Daddy is willing to sacrifice twenty minutes of his time with you in order to give you back the twenty minutes you lost when you decided to stay in bed.  This means that, instead of skipping your workout for more sleep, you are actually rescheduling your workout for a time when Daddy could be showering you with his affection. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Exercise at the same time every morning.  Even though you wake up at different times every day, working out at the same time every morning will make it harder to forget or skip your workout.  2. Set an alarm on your phone that will remind you to exercise.  3. Buy a cute and comfortable yoga mat that is extra squishy.  4. Remember that exercising is the healthiest and fastest way to maintain your desired size, shape, and weight. 13. No Cussing Rule: You will not type or say: Ass, Asshole, Bastard, Bitch, Bullshit, Damn, Fuck, Goddamn, Motherfucker, Shit, Son Of A Bitch Reason: As you explained to me, using cuss words makes you feel less little because cuss words are big girl words.  Not cussing is also an effective exercise in self-discipline.  When you remove specific words from your vocabulary, it forces you to think about what you are going to say before you say it.  This is a skill that should be practiced by everyone because words are powerful.  Words can hurt or heal the ones you love.  Choosing the right words can get you hired or fired.  They can strengthen friendships or end relationships.  All too often, people act recklessly by not filtering their thoughts.  When you think before you speak, you avoid unnecessary drama while also improving your ability to communicate effectively. Punishment: You will exercise for an extra fifteen (15) minutes every time you use a cuss word. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: Memorize this list so that you do not use a word thinking that it’s fair game. ———————————————————————————————————–————��——————————————————————————————– 14. No Comparing Yourself To Other Women Rule: You will not use Instagram, Pinterest, Tumblr, or any other websites to compare yourself to other women. Reason: Daddy understands that looking at your preferred body type(s) can act as motivation to lose weight and/or exercise; however, this method of inspiration does much more harm than good.  Instead of encouraging you to eat healthy and exercise, comparing yourself to other women only makes my Baby Girl feel ugly and worthless.  This is the opposite of how Daddy wants you to feel because I think you are beautiful, and because you are the most important thing in the world to me. Punishment: Every time you compare yourself to pictures of other women, you will send Daddy a new picture of yourself, followed by one thing you like about yourself in the picture.  Looking at yourself and finding something that you like about your physical appearance will negate some of the bad feelings from looking at other women. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Remember that you already have Daddy for all of forever, and that my love for you is not based on your physical appearance.  2. Block all thinspiration accounts that come across your dash.  3. Follow accounts that share healthy food recipes.  4. Follow accounts that share new, fun exercises. 15. No Insulting Yourself Rule: You will not call yourself: dumb, stupid, disgusting, fat, gross, a troll, ugly, worthless, any variation of these words, and/or any synonym of these words. Reason: As we have discussed, writing these things, typing them, and/or saying them aloud only reinforces your negative opinions about yourself.  The more you repeat them, the more you become accustomed to hearing them and believing that they’re true.  Constantly bullying yourself and putting yourself down makes  you feel sad, it makes you feel like you are not good enough to be with me, and it makes you feel less secure and confident in our relationship together.  When you insult yourself, you hurt yourself, you make Daddy sad, and you slowly lay the foundation for feelings that could one day threaten to end our relationship. Punishment: You will perform a two-minute plank for each insult.  This is an appropriate punishment because a majority of your verbal self-hatred comes from the way you feel about your body and your appearance.  You told Daddy that one of the reasons why you are so hard on yourself is because you are afraid that, if you stop focusing on your imperfections, you will let yourself go.  If accountability and self-improvement are your reasons for degrading and bullying yourself on a daily basis, then you need to reinforce your words with action through exercise. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Instead of calling yourself ugly, ask Daddy why he thinks you’re pretty.  2. Instead of calling yourself stupid, ask Daddy why he thinks you’re smart.  3. Instead of calling yourself worthless, ask Daddy why he wants to marry you.  4. Re-visit all of your Armor Interviews to remind yourself of the positive compliments other people have paid you in the recent past. 16. Accepting Compliments Rule: You will accept all compliments from Daddy without disagreeing or arguing with me.  You will say, “Thank you, Daddy,” every time I give you a compliment of any kind. Reason: Currently, my Baby Girl is not good at accepting compliments because you feel like you do not deserve them.  Compliments, especially from Daddy, are supposed to make you feel good.  They are supposed to build your confidence and uphold your self-esteem.  My compliments are supposed to reassure you of Daddy’s feelings for you, they are supposed to help you feel wanted, and they are supposed to make you feel secure in our relationship.  Ultimately, learning how to accept compliments can help you love the person that you are, and it can strengthen our relationship together.  Since you are bad at accepting compliments, you need practice.  It may take some time, but the longer Daddy forces his Baby Girl to accept compliments, the easier it will become to hear something nice about yourself without immediately believing it’s a lie. Punishment: You will type or write lines of my choosing. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Pay close attention to when your Daddy is giving you a compliment.  2. Remember that your brain will not automatically produce a “Thank you;” instead, thanking Daddy will take a conscious effort on your part.  3. Understand that accepting compliments does not make you vain.  4. Remind yourself that Daddy will not tell you something unless I believe it with all of my heart.  5. Remember that accepting compliments from Daddy makes your Daddy very happy. 17. Daily Selfie Rule: You will send Daddy at least one selfie every day. Reason: Almost nothing makes me happier than seeing my Beautiful Baby Girl.  When we live together, Daddy will see you all the time: in the morning, during the day, after exercising, during a rough sex scene, and in the middle of the night.  Since I want you to feel as safe and comfortable with me as possible, you need to get used to Daddy looking at you by sending one selfie every day.  I know this will be very difficult at first, but the more you do it, the easier it will get, just like Recording A Compliment or writing your Food Diary. Punishment:  If you do not send a Daily Selfie, you will send a Spontaneous Selfie in its place.  You cannot use a filter when you take the Spontaneous Selfie; also, you will take and send the selfie at my command, regardless of lighting, hair, makeup, blemishes, and/or dark circles under your eyes. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Send a selfie right after a shower so that you feel extra fresh and clean.  2. Send a selfie right before going into work so that your makeup is applied.  3. Send a selfie late at night when you have plenty of time to adjust your lighting and grab some props (like Bea, Phil, Max, or Millie). 19. Ownership Rule: You will say “I belong to Daddy,” out loud, every time you take a bath or a shower. Reason: Daddy wants his Baby Girl to feel wanted and owned.  By reminding yourself every day that you are completely mine and no one else’s, Daddy hopes to strengthen your sense of worth and belonging.  I also want you to get used to saying these words aloud so that they spring to your lips whenever anyone flirts with you, hits on you, or tries to take you away from me.  Currently, two of the things your Daddy does to help you feel owned are making your wear my ribbon around your thigh and writing on your body.  Since you have to take off my ribbon before bathing, and taking a shower or bath washes away any writing on your body, this is an especially appropriate time to do something extra to remind yourself that you are Daddy’s Girl.  I also like the idea of you performing this action for me while you are naked since being Daddy’s property means that you will rarely be wearing clothes inside our home. Punishment: You will sit in the corner, on your knees, for thirty minutes, repeating to yourself “I belong to Daddy,” until your time is up. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Say, I belong to Daddy,” while you are cleaning your princess parts.  2. Say, “I belong to Daddy” several times while you are bathing.  3. Think about what it means to be owned by another person.  Consider how much that person must like and love you to want you so badly that they want ownership of you. 20. Reassurance Rule: You will say “I deserve my Daddy,” out loud, every time you get dressed for the day. Reason: I want my Baby Girl to feel comfortable, confident, secure, and safe in our relationship.  I never want you to worry that you are going to lose me.  Even considering the idea that another person could steal me away from you is a ridiculous waste of time.  Both saying and hearing “I deserve my Daddy,” on a regular bases will reinforce the fact that you deserve my love, my time, my attention, and my affection.  Once you become less worried about losing Daddy, it will also become easier for you to communicate even more openly and honestly with me about various things because you will feel confident that whatever you want or need to tell me with not drive your Daddy away. Punishment: You will sit in the corner, on your knees, for thirty minutes, repeating to yourself “I deserve my Daddy,” until your time is up. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Remember that Daddy knows and believes that you truly deserve to be with the best of the best.  2. After telling yourself that you “…deserve [your] Daddy,” think about our good days and our bad days together.  3. Remember that Daddy has seen you when you are sad, anxious, worried, and insecure.  Even on those days, you deserved your Daddy. 21. Enforcing Exclusivity Rule: You will actively defend and protect our relationship from any person or persons who threaten our relationship, regardless of whether they are trying to take you away from me on purpose or subconsciously. Reason: In a world full of broken trust and low self-esteem, it remains true that one of the biggest threats to a happy and healthy relationship is other people.  Whether someone else is jealous of your happiness, envious of your love, or lusting after your significant other, people outside of the relationship often cause the most tension, strife, worry, doubt, and drama between two lovers.  Over the years, Daddy has learned that it is not enough to assume that the world will respect our love and leave us alone.  Instead, we need to stay on the alert for any possible threats to our relationship by asking ourselves, “What is this person’s intention?  Can I trust this person to respect my relationship with Daddy?  Is this person trying to create a rift in my relationship?  Is this person hoping that I will end my relationship to be with them and/or cheat with them?  Does this person have ulterior motives?”  It is healthy to have other friendships, but it is wise to keep an eye on those friendships to make sure they don’t turn into something that could break us apart. Punishment: Constant worrying.  Doubt.  Feelings of insecurity.  Hurt feelings.  Trust issues. Reward: Good Girl Points and a stronger, long-lasting relationship that is both happy and healthy. Suggestions: 1. Use Tunnel Vision.  Using Tunnel Vision means that we do not look at other people and fantasize about what it would be like to date them, be in a relationship with them and/or cheat on each other with them.  2. Be completely transparent with each other.  This is something that you are very good at already, but making sure that we are being completely upfront, open, and honest with each other when it comes to the things that other people say to us can eliminate many problems before they even start.  It also helps us build even more trust in each other.  3. Tell other people that we are in a happy and healthy relationship.  We don’t need to flaunt how amazing our relationship is to those less fortunate than us, but we can prevent unwanted advances by mentioning our relationship in casual conversation so that the person we are talking to knows that we are spoken for and off-limits. 22. No Leaving/Dying Rule: You will not end our relationship by breaking up with me, abandoning me, and/or dying. Reason: Daddy means it when I tell you that I love you now, forever, and always.  Because I love you that much, I desperately desire to be with you as much as possible, as intimately as possible, and for as long as possible.  You are my best friend, my full-time submissive, my Little Girl, my sexy slut, my Girlfriend, and my future Wife.  You are also my source of confidence and happiness.  You are my reason for waking up every day and for making myself the best version of myself that I can be.  I am planning to spend the rest of my life with you.  The rest of my life revolves around you.  That is how I want it to be.  If you and I are no longer together for any reason, my plans would not only change, my whole world would collapse.  This is the first time in my life that I have ever been this happy, and it is all because of you.  Now that I have experienced this level of joy, peace, and certainty, I never want to feel anything else.  I never want to lose this, and I never want to lose you.  I can’t lose you. Punishment: Daddy will become a soul-less, empty shell of a human who only stays alive for his parents. Reward: A long and happy life with Daddy, including (but not limited to): Dragon’s Den!  A clingy kitten that grows into a clingy floof!  A clingy pupper that grows into a clingy doggo!  Booty rubs!  Frequent and powerful orgasms!  Intense cuddle sessions!  Romantic trips to the museum!  Kinky trips to the local park!  Booty rubs!  Pillow forts!  Little Space!  Falling asleep to bedtime stories!  Going to the planetarium!  And, last but not least, booty rubs! Suggestions: 1. Eat healthily and drink lots of water.  2. Always take all of your medicine.  3. Always be aware of your surroundings so that you never wander into a dangerous or life-threatening situation.  4. Practice defensive driving techniques to ensure safety while driving.  5. Never take harmful drugs.  6. Never take too many prescription drugs at one time.  7. Never consume any sort of alcohol without Daddy present.  8. Never allow yourself to be alone with a stranger.  9. Keep your phone charged at all times in case of an emergency.  10. Buy pepper spray and carry it with you at all times.  11. Never self-harm.  12. Never commit suicide.  13. Don’t play on train tracks.  14. Look both ways before crossing the street.  15. Don’t make toast in the bathtub.  16. Remember that no body of water is safe without a lifeguard. 23. Curfew Rule: You will not use any mirrors, look at Tumblr, or watch scary videos after Daddy has gone to sleep. Reason: Tumblr can be cute, fun, and sexy, but the wrong post can make you feel like you are not as cute, skinny, or sexy as you should be.  If you begin to feel this way during the day, your Daddy is there to reassure you that your brain is being stupid, and you look amazing just the way you are.  If, however, you begin to feel this way after Daddy has gone to bed for the night, you spiral very quickly.  Not only do you think mean things about yourself; you sometimes feed your insecurities and feelings of inadequacy by continuing to look at other girls that you think are more attractive.  In the same way, looking in a mirror for too long can also cause you to spiral into self-hatred.  Mirrors also have the potential to make you disassociate.  None of these things are good ways to spend your precious time, and they are certainly not good for your self-image, your confidence, or your mental health.  Most importantly, they do not reflect how Daddy feels about you or how Daddy wants you to feel about yourself.  You are My Baby Girl.  I only have one, and you are it.  Finally, watching scary movies and/or videos at night gives My Baby Girl nightmares.  You know how important it is to get your sleep (you have a whole rule about going to bed on time).  If you keep waking up throughout the night because you have nightmares, or you wake up feeling restless because you were tossing and turning all night, then that precious body of yours is not getting the rest that it needs to be strong and healthy for me. Punishment: If you look in a mirror after curfew, you will not be allowed to use mirrors at all the following day.  If you look at Tumblr after curfew, you will not be allowed on Tumblr at all the following day.  If you watch a scary video after curfew, you will not be allowed to watch anything from that media source (Netflix, Youtube, etc.) the following day. Suggestions: 1. Remove your makeup before Daddy goes to bed so that you have no need of a mirror late at night.  2. Put your Tumblr, Youtube, and Netflix apps in a folder called “Curfew” so that you are always reminded that you cannot use those apps after Daddy goes to sleep.  (You can still use Youtube and Netflix as long as you do not watch anything that is spooky, eerie, or scary.) 24. Morning Routine Rule: Within the first thirty (30) minutes of getting out of bed, you will take your birth control pill, drink one cup of water, and begin your daily exercises. Reason: Starting your day the right way will have a positive influence over the rest of your day.  Following this rule means that you are simultaneously remembering and obeying your exercise rule, as well as getting  a jump start on your medication and water rules.  Not only will this make your Daddy very proud of you, but it will also cross a few items off of your to-do list, which will make the rest of your day more manageable while also making you feel productive.  Daddy almost shouldn't give you a reward for obeying this rule because everything you will do during your morning routine is already part of your other rules, and those rules already have rewards of their own.  Because I love you so much, your Daddy wants to help you be the best version of yourself that you can be, and that means doing everything I can to help you turn these rules into beneficial behaviors. Punishment: If you do not complete your morning routine for any reason, you will go to bed thirty (30) minutes early that night.  This will help you wake up thirty minutes earlier the following day so that you have more time to complete your morning routine while still getting the same amount of rest. Reward: Good Girl Points Suggestions: 1. Go to bed early enough that you can sleep for seven hours and still wake up in time to complete your morning routine without feeling rushed.  2. Before falling asleep, set an alarm that will remind you to do your morning routine when you wake up.  3. Wake up and complete your morning routine at the same time every day.  If you have nothing to do and no where to be when you are finished, you may go back to bed.

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Limits

One of the thrilling aspects of BDSM is its ability to push people farther than they ever dreamed they could go.  When you edge yourself, it is easy to cave to your cravings: you want something so badly that you give in to it.  Or, you hate something so much that your need for relief outweighs your willpower and discipline.  A Good Dom will learn you better than you know yourself.  He will study your limits in order to tease you with them, and please you by helping you exceed them. While some limits are meant to be pushed, others need to be acknowledged from a distance. In most cases, limits fall under one of two categories: Hard Limits and Soft Limits.  I believe you understand these quite well.  A Hard Limit is something that is not an option.  Either you have tried it in the past, and you know that you absolutely hate it, or you know yourself well enough to know that you would never want to do it.  A Soft Limit is something that lies outside your comfort zone; but the thought of doing it, or having it done to you, is so exciting that you are willing to experiment. One of the many things that I like about you is that you are willing to try anything once.  Not many people will say that and actually mean it.  It is a testament to your submissive and adventurous nature.  Essentially, you have no Hard Limits... yet.  As we learn new things by trying new things, these lists may grow.  They may shrink.  BDSM is a thrilling and fluid adventure. Hard Limits Bloody Play Burying Cutting Diaper Play (Daddy & Baby Girl) Forced Jealousy (Daddy & Baby Girl) Full Body Latex Knife Against Throat Needles Piercings Permanent Mutilation (Burning, Scarring, etc.)  (Daddy & Baby Girl) Sharing Daddy Or Being Shared (Daddy & Baby Girl) Submitting (Daddy Only) Time-outs For Extended Periods Of Time (Ex: Multiple Days) (Daddy & Baby Girl) Voyeurism (Daddy & Baby Girl) Soft Limits Electricity Jalapeño Juice Post-orgasm Knives Solo Bondage Staples Stitches

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Sir’s Rules

This section may no longer be necessary. I may decide to make my “Rules” more of a promise of commitment to you.  I have yet to decide.

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Safe Words

Good Dom’s and experienced submissives agree that Safe Words are a necessity in all BDSM relationships.  Whether BDSM occurs solely in the bedroom, or the entire dynamic is that of a Dominant and submissive, there are various reasons why it is important to have a concise word or words that efficiently communicate certain needs. People who choose to forego the use of Safe Words usually do so under the reasoning that they trust their partner; therefore, a Safe Word is redundant.  What they have yet to realize is that Safe Words are not about trust, but communication.  In fact, Safe Words do not work unless you trust your partner to remember them, use them, and respect them.  In short, trust permits two people to rely on Safe Words; trust does not eliminate the need of them. When I am exercising my control over you, there will be times when I need feedback.  I need to know how you are feeling -- how much you can take. I am also aware that your limits may change from one day to the next.  How much you have eaten, how long you have slept, how long it has been since your last orgasm, and how you are feeling about yourself are just a few of the many factors that affect and change your physical, mental, and emotional endurance.  Through the use of Safe Words, I will be able to know you more intimately in a timely manner. As we discussed, we are currently using the color system.  If the need arises, I may add or subtract colors so that your Safe Words always work as effectively as possible. Red - “Stop” Yellow - “I’m getting close to my limit.” Green - “This is nothing.”

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Welcome

Hello, Celina. Welcome to our page! As you know, a healthy Dominant/submissive dynamic requires trust, honesty, and communication.  Communication is why this page is here.  It is important to me that you always have access to your safe words, rules, limits, and rewards, as well as my current understanding of your soft and hard limits.  If/when you break a rule, it will happen because you are being disobedient; not because you forgot that the rule exists. This will also help me remain consistent with your punishments and rewards.  You won’t ever have to worry that I will be too lenient with you or let you off the hook.  You are my best friend, and I care about you immensely: two excellent reasons why I will always do my best to be strict and fair at all times.