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crimsonsorceresss · 2 months ago

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The Illusion of Love

When someone claims to love you but consistently fails to demonstrate it, the dissonance can be heartbreaking. It’s a painful contradiction that leaves you feeling lost and questioning your worth. They may have whispered sweet nothings while skillfully weaving a web of lies from the very beginning. After the breakup, the truth often unravels further, revealing layers of deception that you never anticipated. A person who truly loves you will never speak ill of you or allow others—friends or family—to do so; they understand that doing so only exposes their own flaws and insecurities. Instead, they should stand by you, fiercely defending your honor and feelings.

Someone who genuinely cares for you won’t make you cry every night, pouring your heart out in anguish while they laugh with others at your expense. They would have the courage to face your family, even during difficult times, because they know that those who love you have witnessed your pain and understand the depth of your suffering. If they left you for a second time, it was due to their own actions, fully aware that your loved ones heard your cries and felt your heartache.

If someone tells you that no one else will love you like they did, don’t believe it. Just wait. One day, they will realize that there are people out there who can love you deeply and effortlessly—people who are mature and honest about their intentions. They won’t feed you lies or breadcrumb you along, leaving you in uncertainty. Those who think they can simply replace you within a month to erase their mistakes are sorely mistaken; such shadows of regret will follow them, tearing apart their ego as they confront the reality that true love cannot be forgotten so easily.

As time passes and they attempt to move on, they will feel even worse because deep down, they will know that you loved them unconditionally. They won’t forget the way your eyes sparkled with love or how your curly hair smelled like flowers when they held you close. They will remember the little habits you shared—the inside jokes that made you both laugh until it hurt—and the tender moments that made every day special. You were the one who sang along to songs in the passenger seat, holding their heart in your hands with every note and every smile. No one will look at him with such love as she did while he played guitar; no one else would have been his other half who lifted him up and wanted to hear him play or share adventures together like she did. She was his biggest supporter, always encouraging him to chase his dreams and celebrating his victories as if they were her own.

He’ll recall how she would light up when he strummed those first chords, how she would sway to the music as if it were a private concert just for them. No one else will ever understand him as deeply or cherish him as completely; no one else will embrace him with such warmth or kiss him with such passion. Even in a new home, memories of her will linger in every corner—reminders of a love that felt like home.

Their lies and the deceitful words of those who enabled their behavior have tarnished something beautiful. The truth is clear: they didn’t love you; in fact, they didn’t even like you. If they had truly cared, they would have made an effort to bring joy into your life and been honest from the start about everything—the lies told during your relationship and those uncovered after the breakup. They believed their deception would remain hidden forever, but reality has a way of surfacing the truth.

Someone who genuinely loves you won’t label you as crazy or allow others to do so when you confront them about their lies. Instead, they would listen with empathy and seek to understand your feelings because they value your perspective and emotions. They recognize that honesty is essential in any relationship and appreciate your courage in seeking clarity.

In contrast, those who manipulate will twist your words and make you feel as though you're overreacting for wanting honesty. They thrive on confusion and chaos, using gaslighting tactics to keep you questioning yourself while deflecting blame onto you for their actions. This is not love; it’s a toxic cycle designed to keep you trapped in their web of deceit.

So let them remain in their delusion; let them play the victim while surrounding themselves with those who know they've messed up but still choose to support their misguided narrative. They may say you're crazy or claim no one else will love you like they did—but remember this: no one else would love like this because what they offered was not love at all; it was self-interest disguised as affection.

You deserve better than empty promises and hollow words. You deserve someone who sees your worth and treats you with respect—someone who lifts you up instead of tearing you down. Don’t let their lies define your self-worth; instead, take this experience as a lesson learned about what true love should look like.

Every part of your heart that once loved them is still worthy of being cherished. Trust that life has a way of bringing forth someone who will love you twice as fiercely as they ever did—someone who recognizes your value and appreciates every facet of who you are. This new person will not only honor your heart but also be honest from day one.

And don’t worry if at this moment they're reading this with laughter or sharing your posts with others; this is just their way of easing the pain for their mistakes. They think we only live once, but what they don’t realize is that if someone is destined for you, you'll find each other in every lifetime until they get it right. They may not know which life it will be, but they'll have to live with regret—watching from afar as you move on with someone else.

When they had the chance after years of waiting and countless conversations, they tossed it aside because their ego and pride were greater than their love for you. So yes, go live the life you've always dreamed of! Change countries if it suits you; change your phone number; go silent if that's what brings you peace. Let them laugh at their own delusions while pretending they've found their other half.

The universe is watching—and laughing—and soon enough, they'll discover what they've lost—even if it takes years or whole lifetimes.

" I will never forgive you, not in this life or any other. You took my heart, cherished it for a moment, and then shattered it without a second thought. I loved you with a fierce devotion that you will never know again, and now you must carry the burden of your choices. In the quiet corners of your mind, when the world feels heavy and your heart aches with regret, remember this: my love was a rare flame, and you extinguished it with your betrayal. You will wander through life searching for what we once had, but you’ll find only echoes of a love that could have been."

Ps

"This is the last time you'll see my existence. Now, it's time for the roles to be reversed."