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You lost the woman who gave herself to you completely. She stayed with you even when you were the hardest to love. She gave you more than you deserved.

You lost her when you failed to see her worth. You lost her when you stopped valuing her efforts and directed them toward someone else. You lost her when you made another person smile while she cried. You lost her when you made her feel alone. You lost her when she had to beg for your attention. You lost her with your broken promises. You lost her when you made her feel unworthy of love.

The woman you left yearning for your love fell apart. The woman you promised to care for longed for the times when she mattered to you. But you lost her repeatedly. You lost her when you made her cling to your empty words. You lost her when she waited outside your closed door. You lost her when you never let her in. You lost her when you wished she was gone. You lost her when you walked away. You lost her when you let her go without fighting for her.

You lost your girl. You lost the only woman who showed you true love. But I doubt you'll ever realize that you lost me.

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Bawat segundo, sa pagpintig ng aking puso. Sa kaba na nadarama, may isang ikaw na umaalala. Kung sa lakas ng hangin ako matatangay, kahit ganoon hawak ko pa din ang iyong kamay. Para sa tuwing malungkot, may papawi at babaluktot. Iwasan ka man isipin, ikaw at ikaw pa rin ang hahanapin. Pangako magiging tapat, sa iyo na aking higit pa sa sapat. 💞

I love you cheska. ❤️

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ARIAH KYRYN - Gift of God!

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Three words to become positive in your own life "Trust, adapt, and persevere."

1. Trust: Trusting yourself and your instincts is crucial in navigating life's challenges and decisions. Trusting in your abilities, judgment, and resilience allows you to move forward with confidence, even when faced with uncertainty or doubt. By trusting yourself, you can better handle setbacks and make choices aligned with your values and goals.

2. Adapt: Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, and being able to adapt to change is essential for growth and success. Embracing flexibility and openness to new experiences allows you to navigate transitions more smoothly and find creative solutions to problems. Adapting also involves being willing to let go of what no longer serves you and embracing new opportunities as they arise.

3. Persevere: Persistence is key to overcoming obstacles and achieving your dreams. When faced with challenges or setbacks, it's easy to feel discouraged or tempted to give up. However, persevering through difficulties builds resilience and character. Remember that setbacks are temporary, and each one brings valuable lessons that can ultimately propel you forward. By staying determined and resilient, you can overcome obstacles and reach your full potential.

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To stop overthinking, embrace the idea that not everything can be controlled or predicted. Trust your instincts and allow yourself to live in the present moment. Practice grounding techniques like mindfulness or meditation to anchor yourself when your mind starts to race. Break tasks into smaller, manageable steps to reduce overwhelm, and remember that it's okay to not have all the answers.

Self-love begins with treating yourself with the same compassion and kindness you'd offer a friend. Start each day by acknowledging something positive about yourself, and gradually build on that foundation. Create a daily routine that includes self-care activities you enjoy, like exercise, reading, or spending time with loved ones. When you make a mistake, respond with understanding rather than criticism.

To stop self-blaming and self-pity, recognize that setbacks and failures are a natural part of life. Shift your perspective to see them as opportunities for growth and learning. Focus on what you can do moving forward, rather than dwelling on what went wrong. If you catch yourself in a cycle of self-blame, gently redirect your thoughts to constructive solutions and celebrate your progress, no matter how small.

Above all, remember that you're human, and it's okay to be imperfect. Life is a journey, and you're allowed to take your time to find your path. Keep surrounding yourself with positive influences, seek support when needed, and trust that you have the strength to overcome challenges.

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Choose healing, love, and peace within by embracing the journey of self-discovery and growth. Start by giving yourself permission to feel and express your emotions, even the difficult ones. Remember, healing is a process; it takes time and patience. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and seek support when needed.

To cultivate love, begin with self-compassion. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you'd offer to a friend. Focus on building positive relationships, but don't forget the importance of loving yourself first. Practice gratitude daily and find joy in small moments.

Peace comes from aligning your actions with your values. Make time for mindfulness, whether through meditation, deep breathing, or other calming practices. Prioritize balance and set healthy boundaries to protect your mental and emotional well-being.

Finally, forgive yourself for past mistakes, let go of what you can't control, and embrace the present moment. By choosing healing, love, and peace within, you create a foundation for a more fulfilling and meaningful life.

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Embrace the journey, not just the destination.

Life is a mix of highs and lows, and it's easy to focus solely on reaching goals or fixing problems. However, growth and happiness often come from the moments in between—those small victories, the lessons learned, and the relationships formed along the way.

Remember to be kind to yourself, maintain balance, and stay open to new opportunities. Trust your instincts, stay true to your values, and don't be afraid to take calculated risks. Prioritize your well-being, nurture your relationships, and never stop learning. Ultimately, your journey is unique, so embrace it with curiosity and gratitude.

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Never force a relationship.

Sometimes it's better to move on, than to hold on to a person who doesn't understand who you truly are. Unfortunately there will be times where your absence will teach you what your presence cannot.

You need to stop breaking your own heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work to begin with. 

You can't force someone to genuinely care about you. 

You can't force someone to be faithful to you.

You can't force someone to be the person you need

them to be.

The truth is, sometimes the person you want the most is the same person you would be best without.

You have got to understand some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay.

Everything that you do to show love, you have to be

careful, not to lose yourself by trying to fix what should never been there in the first place. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them.

I know it's hard when you meet someone and your heart feels, that's the person you could spend an eternity with, and you start to accept that they are not that person you thought they needed to be.

And no matter how many times you cry yourself to sleep at night, you will eventually heal from your previous relationship and find the one you have always longed for. Your future will now bring an understanding of why things didn't work out in your previous relationships.

One thing I have learned throughout the years, is “It is better to be single than to be in a relationship settling for less.”

If they see you as an option, then they don't deserve to be a priority in your life.

Take my advice and never chase someone who's not chasing you.

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I just want to thank you, love, for everything, for accepting me completely. I know it's been tough for you, even though you keep telling me you don't want to lose me. But I reached this point because I can feel that you're feeling guilty, and you've admitted as much because things are getting better on your end. It hurts me 💔, but it's okay, I chose this. I'm sorry, love, if you're caught in the middle. Even though I don't want to let go, I'll be the one to step back. I love you very much, and God knows I loved you so much Allen🩷

 last time na nanggaling ako sa inyo nung tinanong mo kung paano ako pag okay ka na kasi may naibigay niya na yung pagkukulang na gusto mo sagot ko sayo okay lang ako , pero habang papauwi ako galing sa inyo, tinanong ko yung sarili ko okay lang ba talaga sa akin pagtapos na tayo ?  naiyak nalang ako kasi  alam ko namang hindi talaga ako magiging okay pero dapat akong maging kasi una palang naman alam ko ng may hangganan , yun nga lang talagang napamahal ako sayo as in .. know that kahit ganto tayo naging totoo ako sa nararamdaman ko sayo  .  I'm sorry for everything Allen :( lagi akong magiging masaya para sa iyo. Sayang lang at hindi tayo nagkakilala ng maaga , pero God has a purpose kung bakit tayo pinagtagpo , BAWI nalang Next Life . 

If you start missing me, just look at the moon. It’s like our shared meeting place in the sky. Tell it everything you want to say to me, and I'll be doing the same on my end. lahat ng hinanakit at mga bagay na nagpapasaya sayo. Isipin mo na kasama mo ako habang nakatingin ka sa kabilugan nito. Kahit magkakalayo tayo ngayon, hindi ibig sabihin na mag-iiba ang nararamdaman natin para sa isa't isa.

Alam kong mahirap ang ganitong kalagayan, pero laging tandaan na ang buwan ay parang isang tagapaghatid ng ating mga damdamin. Nandito lang ako, pero palaging kasama mo sa puso. basta Huwag mong kalimutang laging tumingin sa buwan kapag nami-miss mo na ako.

It's been an incredible month ( 1month since the day I confess i love you) filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable late-night conversations. Our time together has meant a lot, and I’ll cherish the memories we've made. While it's hard to say goodbye, I know that every ending leads to new beginnings. Wishing you all the best as you move forward. Take care and keep smiling, because you have a light that brightens any room. Goodbye for now, and who knows, maybe our paths will cross again someday. 🩷

Take care, and know I'm thinking of you.🥹

ILOVEYOU ALLEN, I ALWAYS HAVE AND  I ALWAYS WILL 😭 Im sorry 😭

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Thank you for understanding my situation. Super brave mo kasi sumugal ka din kahit walang kasiguraduhan sa dulo. I owe you so much lalo na sa mga oras na walang wala ako, na pakiramdam ko pinabayaan ako ng isa. Salamat kasi pinadama mo yung isang tunay na gf, wife material sakin. Sorry if nafall ako, sorry if i told you " i love you too" pero lahat naman ay totoo kasi di naman tayo magsasabi ng ganun kung trip lang. Mamimiss ko mga midnight trips natin while talking sa phone. Super gaan lang sayo, kapag ikaw kausap ko walang pressure sa ano mang gagawin. Sana mameet kita sa next life para wala ng drama na ganito. Kung mangyayari yun wala ng option options. Focus lang ako sa magiging family natin. Sobrang lost ng guy or ng asawa mo, sorry to say, pero lost niya yun kung bumitiw ka, kasi you are a keeper na. Please wag ka muna hanap iba, focus ka na muna kay zach, baka magcross ulit landas natin kahit hindi pa next life. I loved you che che. As in! :( i always love you MAHAL KO. Kung sayo yung moon, akin hangin. Na kada sa byahe mo sa motor or kung anong sasakyan pa, kapag humangin lagi lang ako andiyan sa paligid for you. If you need me, dito lang ako. Mamimiss ko movie night, kape nights and deep talks natin. It seems may finish line itong love story natin. Im always by your side love. I love you so much Monica 😭😭😭😭

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still in trauma 💔

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MANATILI KA SA LALAKING MAS MAHAL KA, HINDI SA LALAKING MAS MAHAL MO!

bakit ? because the guy that loves you will go to the end of the earth for you, but the guy you love will only love you on his terms, girls are too sensitive na kapag sila yung mas nagmamahal mahihirapan silang ihandle yung relationship kaya naghihiwalay talaga kadalasan!

kapag mas mahal ka nung tao o lalaki, alam nila kung paano ka ihandle, cause they're stronger emotionally than girls, mga babae kasi nadadala sila sa pag ooverthink, iyak pero yung lalaking mas mahal ka gagawin nila ang lahat mafeel mo lang araw-araw na pipiliin ka niya!

there are relationships out there na palagi nilang sinasabi na mas better talaga na mas mahal ka nung lalaki, kasi kung pantay lang kayo o mas mahal siya ng babae hindi yon mag wowork, di'ko nilalahat pero ito ang madalas na nangyayari! :(

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KAYA MO BANG ISUKO ANG RELASYON NIYO KAHIT SOBRANG MAHAL MO PA YUNG TAO?

may mga taong gusto ka kasi kapaki-pakinabang ka pero deep inside hindi ka talaga niya mahal, mahal ka lang niya sa paraan na lagi kang nandiyan para sa kanya :(

Why is it so difficult to cut the relationship? 

dahil ang tunay na nagmahal lang ang nakakaalam kung gaano kasakit ang maiwan o ang pag alis

lalo na kung binigay mo sa lahat don sa tao, binigay mo lahat hanggang sa wala ng matira sa'yo, may mga taong nang iwan pero sila yung mas nagmahal at matagal nila naisip, matagal sila nagising bago nila piliin yung sarili nila!

cutting people and situations that hurt us from our lives is an act of love, especially for you kasi karapat dapat lang na mahalin mo din ang sarili mo at deserve mo na maging masaya so please appreciate the person na hindi ka iniwan kahit sobrang sakit na para sa kanila pero nanatili parin kasi mahal ka ❣️