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Can we stop harassing people over / acting like people are horrible for unfollowing someone? Please? Especially the infighting over it.

Seriously, if you're getting shitty that someone unfollowed you for being ableist, calling them ableist because they don't agree with you, there's a fucking problem, and you should probably take that as a sign as to why they unfollowed you in the first place.

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Looking for spoonie blogs to follow!

I’m trying to cope with my illnesses more, so like/reblog if you’re a spoonie blog and I’ll follow you from my main ( @devilishbarisax ) 

Looking for all blogs but especially

Any kind of coping blog

Bedridden

Chronic pain

Chronic abdominal pain

Chronic migraines

Undiagnosed

Hypermobility

Positivity

Any mental health coping blog

Also feel free to shoot me a message! I would love to make some friends :)

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Thank you for correcting Anon.

To give further depth into the question, this stems from misinfo and oppression of systems, and singlet kin really, really need to stop appropriating system terms (like "fictive") and trying to use our spaces, because they're not for you, no matter how many kins you have.

A system is, to incredibly simplify the concept (so this is not 100% true in 100% of cases), a group of people who share a body; we can be kin, but we are not inherently. The idea that you can "become" a system through kinning shows you (and many, many other singlet kin) don't actually know what systems are—and you should really do your research with resources by systems before asking these kind of questions. The answers are all available to you, so please go find them.

Asking these kinds of questions in the wrong places is what gets further misinfo spread—thankfully, you didn't, but I've seen it happen far too many times where it did, and it's dangerous. If you absolutely need to ask this question, go to a blog about answering system-kin questions that is run by a system; not doing so shows that you don't care (at least, not enough) about boosting our voices, and that's a huge problem.

How many people can you be kin with until is considered a system?

Kin does not mean system, no matter how many kins you have.

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moodboard: Cecil Gershwin Palmer | Welcome to Night Vale

feat. psychosis

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Hey, Kevin! I know this is a super old post at this point, but I’m a mod in a WtNVkin server, so if you’d like the link, shoot me a DM!

Catch me.... not smiling as hard.... because I cannot find a WTNV based server and I so desperately want to talk to source-mates! And hear their memories!! And draw their canons and just have people from the desert around in general...... This is just like being alone again. - Kevin

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You terrified me, but I would still love to chat, Station Management!!

I'm kin with Station Management from wtnv, and I feel like nobody really would like to find me.

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Okay, but it’s honestly true ~ Mod Cey

this is what the chat is like -mod hh

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good night, night vale.

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Things I've learned since becoming ill...

• It’s nobody’s fault. It is genetic. It just happened.

• Do not be too proud or stubborn to ask for help. You need it.

• Brush your teeth and wash your face (even just with a baby wipe) everyday if you’re able to do so. It makes you feel more human.

• Shower or bathe whenever you are able to. Good personal hygiene is good for your mental health.

• Some people will leave. You don’t need those people. Others will stay and they are wonderful human beings.

• You are not a burden. You are not useless. Do not be guilty. Please. Guilt will eat your insides.

• You have not lost who you are. You just now have to make adjustments to accommodate this new thing.

• Accept the fact that you have an illness. Being in denial will only make your mental and physical health worse.

• Clean pyjamas are a divine gift. As are clean bedding and blankets.

• Self care is entirely subjective. If you want to do yoga then do it, if you wanna sit and eat takeout in front of the TV in a squirtle onesie then that’s fine too. Whatever makes you feel good, or at least better.

• If you are tired then rest. Do not burn yourself out. It doesn’t matter what time of day it is, if you need a nap then you have one.

• Talk. Write. Sing. Paint. Draw. Dance. Do something to express your feelings. Don’t keep them inside. You’ll explode.

• Don’t worry if you can’t adjust right away. It takes time. A lot of time.

• Do not feel ashamed or embarrassed. Unfortunately illness often has embarrassing symptoms or such. It isn’t your fault. People who allow you to feel embarrassed about such things are terrible people.

• Keep your sense of humour. Some days it’s the only thing that gets you through.

• There will be good days. Grab them with both hands and enjoy them. Savour them. Spend them doing things you love, things that you can’t do on bad days.

• Prepare yourself to the best of your ability. Like…always have a hospital weekend bag packed for emergencies, keep a bed day drawer or bag near to where you sleep, have food or snacks close by, always have a water bottle…

• Take your meds. Please. If you have a serious illness for the love of god don’t listen to the “big pharma” conspiracy theorists. You need your meds. They keep you alive. They enable you to function.

• Research your illness. Keep yourself informed. But don’t dwell on what might happen. Please don’t scare yourself.

• It’s okay not to feel positive all the time. It’s okay to feel down. It’s perfectly natural. But try to be as positive as you can. For your own sake.

• Your own health comes first. It’s not selfishness it’s survival.

• Be kind to yourself.

• The bad days can be horrific but the good ones are beautiful, and so worth holding on for.

• Don’t give up on love. Just don’t.

• You are a badass warrior.

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This is SUCH an old kinfession, but I’m kin with Diego, so I’d be happy to chat, if you ever see this!!

Im kin w/ the Smiling God, & I just get a little saddened by the fact that I see so many Nightvale kin & few-to-no Desert Bluffs kin-- not to mention that most WTNVkin would probably hate me considering who I am. Id love to chat with people but,, u_u

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Not a fictive, but a kin headmate; I’m Cecil and Diego!

Are there any other WTNV Fictives out there in the deep blue? I’d like to make some friends from similar universes. So I suppose even kinfolk would be nice to speak to! ☀️

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hello naughty children it’s gay time

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Kevin: I take great comfort in knowing that one day nothing anyone does will ever matter! We’re temporary beings in a permament existence! Ultimately, in the grand scheme of everything- we’re useless and meaningless!

Carlos: Depression, Kevin. That’s called depression. You have depression.

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*Cecil Palmer voice* you aren’t a true Old Woman Josie fan unless you’d physically fight a satanic beagle puppy in the arby’s parking lot

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This is a story about Michigan, said the man on the radio. And you were afraid

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@kevinismycopilot

hello teeth my old friend