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I can’t stress this enough

Mistakes are part of growth but there is a difference between mistakes that just occur while your intentions were good or simply out of not knowing

And the mistakes you make that you know aren’t good for you

One will guide you forward and the other will set you back significantly

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snoopy encourages you to buy a new book!

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Meditations 

by  Marcus Aurelius  

Hourly and earnestly strive, as a Roman and a man, to do what falls to your hand with perfect unaffected dignity, with kindliness, freedom and justice, and free your soul from every other imagination. This you will accomplish if you perform each action as if it were your last, without wilfulness, or any passionate aversion to what reason approves; without hypocrisy or selfishness, or discontent with the decrees of Providence. You see how few things it is necessary to master in order that a man may live a smooth-flowing, God-fearing life. For of him that holds to these principles the Gods require no more.

“Though you should live three thousand years or as many myriads, yet remember that no man loses any other life than that which now lives, nor lives any other than that which he is now losing. The longest and the shortest lives come to one effect. The present moment is the same for all men, and their loss, therefore, is equal, for it is clear that what they lose in death is but a fleeting instant of time. No man can lose either the past or the future, for how can a man be deprived of what he has not?” 

And the end of fame is to be forgotten

“Man must consider, not only that each day part of his life is spent, and that less and less remains to him, but also that, even if he live longer, it is very uncertain whether his intelligence will suffice as heretofore for the understanding of his affairs, and for grasping that knowledge which aims at comprehending things human and divine. When dotage begins, breath, nourishment, fancy, impulse, and so forth will not fail him. But self-command, accurate appreciation of duty, power to scrutinize what strikes his senses, or even to decide whether he should take his departure, all powers, indeed, which demand a well-trained understanding, must be extinguished in him. Let him be up and doing then, not only because death comes nearer every day, but because understanding and intelligence often leave us before we die.” 

For the soul is intelligence and deity, the body dust and corruption.

For, it is a man’s duty to stand upright, self-supporting, not supported.

The world is a succession of changes; life is but thought.

While you live, while yet you may, be good.

Whatever is beautiful at all is beautiful in itself.

So does the truly beautiful need anything beyond itself? No more than law, no more than truth, no more than kindness or integrity. Which of these things derives its beauty from praise, or withers under criticism?

“Occupy yourself with few things, says the philosopher, if you would be tranquil. But consider if it would not be better to say, Do what is necessary, and whatever the reason of a social animal naturally requires, and as it requires. For this brings not only the tranquillity that comes from doing well, but also that which comes from doing few things. Since the greatest part of what we say and do is unnecessary, dispensing with such activities affords a man more leisure and less uneasiness. Accordingly on every occasion a man should ask himself, Is this one of the unnecessary things? Now a man should take away not only unnecessary acts, but also unnecessary thoughts so that superfluous acts will not follow after.” 

You have seen the other state, make trial also of this. Avoid perplexity; seek simplicity. Has a man sinned? He bears his own sin. Has aught befallen you? It is well; for all that befalls you is an ordained part in the weaving of the destiny of all things from the beginning. In sum, life is short. Make the best of the present in reason and in justice. Be sober in your relaxation.

Love the art which you have learned, humble though it be, and in it find your recreation. 

All things are for a day, both what remembers and what is remembered.

So the olive falls when it is grown ripe, blessing the ground from whence it sprung, and thankful to the tree that bore it.

Remember, therefore, for the future, upon all occasions of sorrow, to use the maxim: this thing is not misfortune, but to bear it bravely is good fortune.

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Don't let the process become the punishment.

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Maybe you don't need to be strong enough to say no [rigid against them] but compassionate enough to say no [loving towards yourself].

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I will not accept a life i do not deserve

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I love when women take up space.

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Oh to live a simple life,beautiful and fulfilling

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Answers come to you when you’re willing to listen- Luke from his “I went to Non-Touristy Italy” vlog. Really made me self reflect.

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Oh to be living in this world with myself! I love!

Need to go to university. Woke up one about 1.5 hours early so I could spend some quality time with myself. Cleaning my room,drinking warm water and feeling pretty! Listening to my new fav song and looking forward to a good day. I am so grateful that I get to spend this lifetime in this body.

Future me, hope you always remember how loved you are. In this moment,remember I loved you so so so so much. All love songs for you!!!!

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This is me!!!!!!

loving is not enough i need to hold it so tight that something breaks

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catch inspiration before it becomes jealousy

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i know we're all sick of self-care being a marketing tactic now, but i don't think a lot of us have any other concept of self-care beyond what companies have tried to sell us, so i thought i'd share my favorite self-care hand out

brought to you by how mad i just got at a Target ad

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get into the habit of thanking yourself regularly. thank yourself for showing up, for doing the bare minimum, or for doing nothing at all. thank yourself for just being here.