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i hope a ceiling fan falls on the empty spot in the bed next to you and it starts understanding your needs

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"and that's what missionary work SHOULD look like" no it shouldn't exist at all actually. even within their own country. preying on homeless people and the ill is bad too yknow? can't believe that's something i have to explain.

the whole "just lead by example and people might be interested in joining" thing still fundamentally surrenders to the idea that spreading Christianity is good and important (it's not!)

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So, my spouse has been exploring his gender lately; he also just built himself a new laptop. Today he told me that he in an attempt to process some genderfeels through metaphor, he made a post on a trans forum along the lines of: "I'm a lifelong Windows user and I think I'm pretty good at it. I want to find out what Linux has to offer but I'm afraid I wouldn't be any good at it. And how do you choose the right Linux distro, anyway? Do you have to try them all?"

The responses, he said, were a mix of useful advice about feeling out your gender and useful advice about choosing a Linux distro.

I love trans people so much

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so called mental health advocates after you forget stuff, say stuff you don't mean, lash out, dissociate, are paranoid, have violent/ bad thoughts, don't care about others, have mood swings, constantly crave attention,dont want relationships with people, isolate yourself, literally just display signs of your disorder

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five random social “skills” i learned due to life experience

it’s okay to bring up your own experience when someone is telling you about their experience, as long as you circle it back to them. “is that what you mean? is that similar to your experience, or was yours different? what did you think of xyz?”

follow-up questions are always okay! when someone is done explaining something to you, ask them something along the lines of, “so, I just do this & that? / and then [result] will happen?” soo many people will appreciate your effort to understand and it’s also a good way to end a conversation instead of the slightly awkward “oh, okay, thank you– yes, thanks. got it! thank you.”

remember the details about people to refer to later. even if it’s just small talk. if you think it might be awkward, you can casually be like “wasn’t it you who told me about this..?” which indicates that what they told you was, in a way, important to you.

never underestimate the power of compliments. not only will you make someone feel good, but chances are they’ll expand on the conversation by adding where they got something, how they feel about something or simply how much they appreciate you noticing.

make kind honesty a habit (even more so than brutal honesty). tell people about the things you admire about them, express your gratitude even when it’s for mundane reasons, give advice to help others be better and not just to be critical, take a moment to tell someone you appreciate their presence, conversation, etc. be open and generous with your love and watch it find its way back to you.

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i have like $8,000 in my savings account !!! yay

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Some people are really out here like "I like horror, but not jump scares or violence and gore or topics that make me uncomfortable or scared in any way". Brother I hate to break it to you but I don't really think you like horror

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Remember quarantine when every9ne was broke and jobless and dressed like shit and ugly and diseased and dying and we got a little glimpse of what life is supposed to be like

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oh shit that might have been traumatic lmao

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WHEN ON PERIOD:

do not crash out

your feelings are NOT valid

do not send that text

don't kill yourself. lock in

do not act on negative emotions until at least 2 days have elapsed

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I'm just saying but I think they missed a crucial piece of Will Graham's character by not giving him pierced nipples

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is twitching whenever ur cold or taking medicine or something like normal or should i get that checked out

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I love that I share my house with one of the most efficient apex predators millions of years of evolution could produce. I love that two of nature’s most prolific machines met and were like “hmmm. We should lay around and do nothing together”. Now we’re both fat and happy and full of meat. The hedonism of it all

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how do Innocent Woobie thomas Sharpe people reconcile the fact that he's literally the only reason Edith is in that position to begin with

like

the target was Eunice, if the investment pitch failed. Lucille even tried to change his mind when he proposed switching gears to Edith. she reminds him that he "chose her" after they get back to Allerdale

"but he loved her already and couldn't bear to leave her!!!" is dragging someone into a murder plot really such an argument for the Purity and Wholesomeness of his love, though? he had so many chances to call it off, even accounting for the sunk cost fallacy after Lucille killed Carter. arguments that he couldn't stand up to Lucille fall apart when you remember that, again, this was not her idea! he insisted! he literally did stand up to her and that's why Edith almost died!

so like. I think about that sometimes

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minecraft monsters are so fucking funny weve got

zombies which look like the default player character. this has no lore implicatjons

skeletons. inexplicable they carry bows.

spiders that are two metres wide and hiss like snakes (imagine how fucking terrifying this would be in real life)

walking bush that wants nothing more than to explode while standin next to you. also theyre afraid of cats

three metre tall guy with social anxiety so bad they try to kill you if you look at them. also they can teleport

really sad ghost

zombies 2: underwater edition

spiders again but now they poison you

fish that kills you with a mind beam