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14/12/24

Hello geng! It is currently 9:47 PM.

My day has ended.

Today is a pretty chill day. I went out with my brother and mum to a school event/carnival. I met several people who knows me personally, and it was nice as fuck.

Then my mother went home, and my fiancé picked me and my brother up. After sending my brother home, fiancé and I went out a tiny date and talked about how life is going.

That's basically all! I am now extremely tired on my bed and will cry myself to sleep. Goodnight.

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14/12/24

Hello,

This what I plan for my routine today,

Clean-up my room, take a shower, maybe play some games, take a nap even and then maybe go to the event my little brother's school is holding or if I can't make it my fiancé and me will be going on a date. I will update you all when the day is over ! Stay safe, and remember to always love yourself♡

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First how to avoid pregnancy,

Today, we are going to talk about, how to avoid unwanted pregnancies, barrier methods of contraception: condoms, diaphragm and cervical caps.

Obviously, there's a lot of methods you can choose from, and I'll tell you the side effects, the cons and pros from it.

First of all, there is barrier methods of contraception.

What is a barrier method of contraception, you ask?

Barrier methods of contraception are devices or substances that physically block sperm from reaching an egg. 

Meaning, it's a physical object.

Your options are,

Condoms, they are male and female condoms.

Remember, if your partner doesn't want to wear a condom it's best to refrain yourself from any sexual intercourse as it'll higher your chances in pregnancy. I will also mention this as someone had ask me.

Even if your female partner do not get an orgasm and you do ejaculated in her vagina, there is a high chance she can get pregnant.

Diaphragms

A diaphragm is a dome-shaped bowl made of thin, flexible silicone that sits over the cervix, the part of the uterus that opens into the vagina. It covers the cervix so sperm can't get in and fertilize an egg.

This a safe method too and it's safe to use while breast-feeding.

If your using a diaphragm,

Make sure to check for weak-spots and wrinkles. Always make sure there are no holes.

Fill up the diaphragm with water just to be safe.

This method is also, less expensive than hormonal birth-control.

Make sure to also use spermicide.

There's also a cervical cap.

What is a cervical cap?

A cervical cap is a flexible, rubber cup-shaped birth control device that prevents pregnancy by covering the cervix and stopping sperm from entering the uterus

How it works?

A healthcare professional fits the cap to ensure it fits snugly over the cervix, then it's filled with spermicide and inserted before sex.

How to use it?

Leave it in, for at least 6 hours but no more then 24 hours.

Also check the position of the cap and always add spermicide everytime you have sex.

What are the advantages of the cervical cap?

Can be inserted up to 6 hours before sex, and you don't have to interrupt sex.

What is the disadvantages?

Doesn't prevent pregnancy as well as IUDs or hormonal forms of birth control, and doesn't protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs)

What are the side effects for this, you may ask ☹️

Strong odors or vaginal discharge, allergic reaction, changes in the cervix, toxic shock syndrome, sunburn-like rash, achiness, fever, diarrhea, vomiting, dizziness.

( lady and gentlemen pls do give your partner a hug and comfort them if they are using any type of methods to prevent pregnancies )

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Hello, my name is Harvey. I am a new blogger who's based in Malaysia.

Malaysia is located in the south east of Asia.

The reason why, I've made this blog is,

to share with people my personal experiences and to teach people about self-love, Sex-ED.

SEX-EDUCATION.

The reason why I want to educate people about sex-ed is because my country's education system do not teach Sex education as much as it is educated in a lot of countries. Meaning, there's alot of cases where teenage pregnancy happens and the mother would throw away the new born child.

There's only a handful of people, in my country knows about these, meaning they don't know what STD's are and how would you get infected by it.

Self-Love

I used to struggle on how to love myself and how to be confident.

I know what it's like to lack self-love or self-respect. I'd constantly would let people walk all over me, and call me such nasty names, but over the years I've learn how to avoid such things, and that is when I learned how to love myself.

I'd like to help others to love and heal themselves. I want others to know that they are not alone. There will always be somebody who will tell you that, you are perfect just the way you are, you are beautiful and unique in your own way. That's what makes you, you.

Personal Experiences.

I will update my audience daily of what goes on in my life, and what I do in my daily basis. One of my hobbies are playing games, so you'll hear a lot of new games and the games I currently play!!

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14/12/24

Good morning, geng! It's currently is 6:47 A.M. I woke up around 4:45 A.M. I didn't realise I fell asleep as I waited for my fiancé to get home. I am extra clingy, so I'd usually just wait, I guess I was tired.

Well, I woke up and chatted with my one and only close friend, which I consider a brother for a bit and he went to sleep.

Yesterday I didn't really do anything, but play games and chat with some friends!

I wonder what adventures await me today!

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Goodnight geng🤗

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13/12/24

I woke up around 9:04 A.M.

Today is going pretty alright ( despite that episode ). I woke up and got ready and went out for breakfast. Breakfast was bussing as fuck not gonna lie.

Then I got home and played games with my brother and fiancé. We played Overwatch 2 and Supermarket Togather. Both games are good as fuck. I really love playing supermarket together, though.

Now, since I'm hosting a barbeque this 24th. I was planning that, too. Since it'll be on Christmas, there will be a secret Santa. I was planning to build a tiny house out of popsicle stick for my friend. It'll be a cute little tiny house, and I think he'll like it, so YIPEEE.

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Anyways,

It's currently 4:04 PM. and just had a whole episode. Maybe I'm just still hurt about everything that has happened. I blame myself for everything still. I wish I hadn't met anyone I knew.

Even after all that, at least I have my fiancé, I have my soon to be brother in law. It makes me happy knowing that I have these 2 bastards in my life. They don't even know that they're dumb jokes, and they're brain rot humor. Do get to me. They make me laugh so hard every time we're playing a game.

I miss my brother in law, and my fiancé too. My brother in law leaves Hella far away from me and my fiancé but I am grateful that he'll be visiting this month.

I thank them, for making me see the positives of life again.

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Life update #2

I don't even know what to feel anymore, every day I wake up I am reminded of the people that dragged me into a life of despair.

Not only did my former lover call me a bunch of nasty names this year, but he's also dating my former best friend. How low can you get?

Of course, my first reaction was to go and drink !! Who wouldn't to be honest. Like I'm fine now and I no longer drink but holy shit this year had been lowkey insane.

At the start of the year, I had a full set of friends, and now I have a completely new set of friends. It's insane how I even lived through this year, and sometimes I wish I hadn't. Yeah, I survived it, but for what? To not be able to cope with the aftermath of so many losses?

I sometimes feel alone, I know I have my fiance now, but I feel lost, shocked, angry, and depressed. I have no idea why I'm so stuck in the past.

Hopefully, I'll be alright soon.