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if i had to explain what tumblr is like i’d only show this

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Abortion pills by mail in every state.

please share this even if you don’t need them, because it could find its way to people who do!

I’d also like to say that what abortion is, is health care and basic human rights for those who want it for reasons that aren’t nobody’s business but their own

what abortion isn’t, is a man’s business. so you may keep your opinions away from my body. thank you

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The Daily Show | Nov. 6 2024

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a reminder that there are trans, people of color, women, children, elderlies, disabled people, queer people, immigrants, people who did not vote for Trump in those red states that you wish natural disasters upon.

a reminder that there are innocent people and animals living in those red states that you wish natural disasters upon.

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To all the trans people who see this tonight, no matter what happens, we will survive. Trans people will still be here 4 years from now and 10 years from now and 100 years from now and tomorrow. We have always existed and we always will. The world cannot unlearn about us; we are too public, too loud, too beloved, too present. Ill be here tomorrow. Please stay here with me.

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what if vampires are like mosquitoes and only the ladies drink blood

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If your apology involves degrading yourself, calling yourself shit or insulting yourself, its not an apology, try again.

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Hey queer people living in the USA.

No matter what happens, no matter who wins.

Please don’t kill yourself.

You are all so beautiful, and nobody can ever take that away from you.

You don’t deserve to die.

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Being an actor keeps me sane. Yeah I have to work a day job but know what? When my day job is stressful and I want to scream I get to go hey wait. I have a scream scheduled at 7:30 tonight. Gotta save up. And then I go back to what I was doing.

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My favorite thing to come out of season three of Heartstopper is encapsulated in a quote I wrote down right after it was said because I knew I was going to want to talk about it: "I think sex can be all sorts of things."

Charlie asking Nick if what they did was sex when it was just touching was so close to an actual conversation between one of my partners and I. Growing up I found that so much of the discussion around sex treated it like it was the One Specific Thing and everything else was just foreplay, not Real Sex, and I think that kind of mindset really muddles that way we think about sex and intimacy.

I loved that conversation and that quote for explicitly giving sex room to be defined by the people having it and nobody else. For a lot of people, queer identity factors can make sex look so different to what we're taught sex "is." For me as someone who went into it with complicated boundaries stemming from the overlap of dysphoria and Complex Ace Feelings, it's really important for sex to be talked about this way. We have more nuanced and productive discussions about sex when we let people define it for themselves and embrace these experiences in all their diversity.

Really I could say a lot about how sex is handled in the show and comics but that scene, along with the Paris trip exchange about how they'd never have sex if the other person didn't want to, really is a standout among a lot of solid writing on the topic. Not for the first time, I wish I'd had this show when I was a teenager.

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Hey. Hey. If you like I Saw the TV Glow (well, even if you don't):

Please stop misgendering Jane Schoenbrun

I have seen so many posts along the lines of "only trans women can make horror this good", "well duh the trans guy didn't understand, only the trans girlies really get it", and so many uses of she/her for Shoeburn.

Jane Schoenbrun is a non binary transfem individual who asked nearly TWO YEARS AGO to STOP being called she/her, they have stated explicitly they are NOT a woman and use they/them. Please stop misgendering them and erasing their identity!

They quoted, "I am a dissident of the sex-gender system. I am the multiplicity of the cosmos trapped in a binary political and epistemological system". Later saying "'she' was a necessary oversimplification to ease myself thru the taxing cis gaze on me during early physical transition. I am stronger now!"

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Hey. Hey. If you like Saw the TV Glow (well, even if you don't):

[bold and big text] Please stop misgendering Jane Schoenbrun [/end bold and big text]

I have seen so many posts along the lines of "only trans women can make horror this good", "well duh the trans guy didn't understand, only the trans girlies really get it', and so many uses of she/her for Shoeburn.

Jane Schoenbrun is a non binary transfem individual who asked nearly TWO YEARS AGO [link] to STOP being called she/her, they have stated explicitly they are NOT a woman and use they/them. Please stop misgendering them and erasing their identity!

They quoted, "l am a dissident of the sex-gender system. I am the multiplicity of the cosmos trapped in a binary political and epistemological system". Later saying [bold] "she' was a necessary oversimplification [/end bold] to ease myself thru the taxing cis gaze on me during early physical transition. I am stronger now!"

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i just. when owen tried on isabel's magic dress and maddy blushed and smiled and hid in her hand. the intimacy in how she drew the symbol on the back of owen's neck. an out lesbian showing those feelings for a closeted, pre-transition trans girl who doesn't even seem to know that's true of herself yet. knowing her before she knows herself. don't speak to me i'm literally dust on the floor

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When I was a kid, my dad hated when I hung up anything on my walls. My art, band posters, movie posters, anything. Not with taxks, not with tape (it “ripped the paint off”) not with anything. At one point in 5th or 6th grade he came in my room and found me hanging up a Diary of a Wimpy Kid poster with tacos and he was like “EVERY HOLE YOU PUT IN THE WALL TAKES $10 OFF THE VALUE OF THE HOUSE.” so when I was mad at him, I’d insert tacks into the wall in places he couldn’t easily see just out of spite. Whoever owns the house now is probably wondering about it.

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i will never understand how people have the heart to hate Jason even after they found out that his Ambrosia tastes like fucking sawdust. Ambrosia being tasty is like one single happy thing a demigod can have despite their tragic lives, because it reminds them of the home they once had, but lost. And Jason doesn't even have that, he doesn't even have a home to lose in the first place.

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Because I remember disinformation being spread around the last few elections and I’m sure assholes will bring it back:

YOU CAN’T VOTE ONLINE.

YOU CAN’T VOTE FROM YOUR PHONE.

IN MANY STATES THERE ARE LEGAL CONSEQUENCES FOR PHOTOGRAPHING YOUR BALLOT.

DO NOT WEAR CAMPAIGN GEAR TO THE POLLS.

DO NOT TRY TO PERSUADE PEOPLE TO VOTE FOR A CANDIDATE AT THE POLLS.

DO NOT ENGAGE IN ANY KIND OF POLITICAL DISCOURSE AT THE POLLS.

NO ELECTION IS EVER A SURE THING, EVEN IF YOU’RE IN THE BLUEST OR REDDEST OF STATES.  IF SOMEONE TRIES TO TELL YOU THAT YOU CAN SIT THIS ONE OUT, THEY ARE EITHER IGNORANT OR MALICIOUS.

VOTE.

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in honor of dashcon's 10 year anniversary i need to remind everyone that the dashcon schedule with panel names and descriptions is still up

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y'all not to doxx myself too hard but irl i have spent some time in my life in mental health recovery, and i am here to tell anyone who needs to hear it that people with multiples & schizophrenia & psychosis & BPD are fun and interesting and lovable people and my friends