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Yes, though in the case of these systems the internet use is either their current best option to do so or a part of their disorder they haven't yet managed to meet their recovery goals on. They're using it as an escapism and dissociation technique. It's a symptom. As I said in the last reblog a disorder doesn't disappear due to knowing its a disorder. The same goes for individual symptoms.

SC and fakeclaiming are plain cruel. It kicks people while they're down and likely at their worst, in many cases just for the fun of it. For many it's extremely hurtful emotionally and for many others it increases denial (which is a symptom and can be harmful). Then there are all the other kinds of bullying systemscringe engages in. People shouldn't be bullied or harmed. Most people frequently posting to systemscringe and the subreddit itself have been informed many times how they cause harm. It's people's right to be upset about the bullying and things that harm them, especially when it continues after people have been saying it is causing harm.

Someone struggling mentally to the point of exposing themself to bullying isn't an excuse to bully them. Bullying is wrong and the bullies are still the perpetrators and at fault, not the victims.

Little baby teen "systems" crying and throwing a fit over being fake claimed or posted to syscringe and FDC.

I've had 4 blogs that talk about my DID. 2 of them were once "larger" system accounts. And still not once have I been fake claimed 🤔. Its almost like .... You can mostly detect true vs untrue systems 🤔

That's not to say true cdd systems haven't been fake claimed, because I've seen it first hand with some friends here. The difference is there's no better system detector than a Dx system themselves.

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Severe dissociation comes in many forms. DID won't look the same for everyone.

It isn't faking to be unstable, it's struggling. The people posted to sc are struggling. They don't deserve added bullying coming their way simply due to the way they express their pain. You may not understand how certain traumas may lead to reactions different than your own, or why someone would post to the internet at that time, but it happens and they do. The internet is a great way to escape a scary reality. Turning off their screen and interacting with the real world is likely just as painful if not more.

People's brains work different than yours and have been through different things. Simply not viewing spirituality the same way as you could change how their denial presents to believing they're a medium and not a DID sys.

Mental illness doesn't poof away just because you now know it exists. Especially not one involving dissociation. Believing one is a spiritual medium or endogenic are symptoms. Not showing whatever symptoms you want them to show to consider them real in your eyes and showing symptoms you don't understand instead isnt faking. The first I have explained already and the second is called masking, and sometimes people only mask the parts of something that hurt most.

Nothing systemcringe claims as a sign in of faking really is. It's a sign of having it really, really bad. Lots of people with DID are going to act the exact way that people on sc think is faking because of their DID.

Little baby teen "systems" crying and throwing a fit over being fake claimed or posted to syscringe and FDC.

I've had 4 blogs that talk about my DID. 2 of them were once "larger" system accounts. And still not once have I been fake claimed 🤔. Its almost like .... You can mostly detect true vs untrue systems 🤔

That's not to say true cdd systems haven't been fake claimed, because I've seen it first hand with some friends here. The difference is there's no better system detector than a Dx system themselves.

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Then you are a hypocrite, full stop.

Someone else expressing things you felt on the internet is suddenly a sign of faking? 95% of what I see posted to systemscringe could easily be attributed to severe dissociation. Tons of introjects? Escapism. Joking and acting like everythings fine and perfect? Could be denial, or amnesia, or a way to dissociate from their problems. You are a hypocrite and maybe completely lacking self awareness.

Little baby teen "systems" crying and throwing a fit over being fake claimed or posted to syscringe and FDC.

I've had 4 blogs that talk about my DID. 2 of them were once "larger" system accounts. And still not once have I been fake claimed 🤔. Its almost like .... You can mostly detect true vs untrue systems 🤔

That's not to say true cdd systems haven't been fake claimed, because I've seen it first hand with some friends here. The difference is there's no better system detector than a Dx system themselves.

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All this tells me is you've never been so dissociated you firmly believed yourself to be connected to spirits.

That you've never believed your endogenic because people are yelling from every angle telling you the only people who have ever loved you are symptoms of some horrible disorder. That they indicate how broken you are. That all they can ever be is a reflection of your horrid past, that they aren't real people to love back. These were the only people you could safely love back.

That you are online at your best, or at least at your average. Not your worst, for the whole world to see you break and act "crazy".

That you can still trust the medical field and psych field enough to believe them about something, even during the time you were the worst. That you didn't have to dismantle your false beliefs about it caused by very real pain.

That there were things that could bring you joy and you didn't have to turn inside to find it. That funny system antics and jokes and names weren't all you had to survive.

Lift the people in your community up, even if you don't understand them. How they could live the way they do and say the things they do.

If you still don't get the point, I hope you visibly piss yourself while public speaking in front of hundreds of people.

Goodnight.

Little baby teen "systems" crying and throwing a fit over being fake claimed or posted to syscringe and FDC.

I've had 4 blogs that talk about my DID. 2 of them were once "larger" system accounts. And still not once have I been fake claimed 🤔. Its almost like .... You can mostly detect true vs untrue systems 🤔

That's not to say true cdd systems haven't been fake claimed, because I've seen it first hand with some friends here. The difference is there's no better system detector than a Dx system themselves.

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Well, I named this blog after Betta fish but that was because it was the first fish to come to mind as I read about them earlier. But I really like Koi they're really pretty and watching them swim in ponds is relaxing.

I wish the syscourse tag was removed from fucking Tumblr.

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I wish the syscourse tag was removed from fucking Tumblr.