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SANGYEON for MAPS Magazine Vol. 167

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kevin — thrill ride announcement

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oldest and youngest members. i’ll let the public decide who’s who…

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THE ONE AND ONLY

(hoshi from seventeen)

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sangyeon ➻ ‘drink it’ mv

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A reminder about sealioning

Had an anon (of course it was an anon) come into my asks last night with big sealioning vibes.

If you don't know, "sealioning" is when someone comes up to you "just asking questions" when, in fact, you have not agreed to talk to them, don't want to talk to them, and don't owe them any sort of conversation. The goal of the sealion is to trick you into answering so they can keep jumping up your ass as they continue to disagree.

They don't want a conversation. They just want the opportunity to show you that they're smarter than you. If you disprove any of their points, they'll claim they weren't talking about THAT.

The term comes from this fantastic comic from Wondermark:

Beware the sealion. They're really fucking annoying.

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[220701] everyone_woo Instagram Update

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THE ONE AND ONLY

(hoshi from seventeen)

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I am literally begging. BEGGING. Yall to just actually Google what the word "fetishize" means, even just one time. I know that nuance and context is a concept a lot of people on the internet don't understand, but here's the gist. Finding something attractive is not fetishization. Being turned on by something is not fetishization. Having kinks is not necessarily fetishization. Having a preference is not necessarily fetishization. Appreciating certain features, aesthetics, or behaviors is not necessarily fetishization. Reducing a human being from a complex person with their own thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs, down to one singular aspect of their character that you find sexually or otherwise gratifying is fetishization. Saying, "I really enjoy that my boyfriend, whom I love and enjoy sharing a life with, is well-endowed" isn't fetishization, saying "I don't care about who he is or what his life is like, he has a big dick and I use him for that" is fetishization. Men who only date Asian women because they believe the stereotype that Asian women are all submissive, childlike, and docile are fetishizing them. Embracing your partner's cultural background because you love them and want to appreciate all parts of their life is not fetishizing. Fetishization is the act of reducing someone to a single characteristic, whether true or perceived, and disregarding their other attributes as a human being. Not every fucking aspect of attraction or kink or sex is fetishization, you fucking walnuts.

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17/11/21 txt.bighitent TikTok update

Latte is Horse 😏

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The real measure of a writer is what oddly specific tropes show up constantly in their work and make you question What Happened

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I write fic and now you comment in exchange is a barter economy.

bells started clanging in my head when you said this. Finally I have words for why it bugs me so much that people keep making tumblr posts about how rude it is that people don't leave enough comments or reblog enough fic: I'm grandma baking cookies because I want to give my grandkids a nice present, but now half of them are scolding the other half on how rude it is to accept cookies without bartering something in return even though the cookies are explicitly labeled "Free! Please take one and enjoy!"

It's like they're guilting people on my behalf for not following standards I believe to be bullshit standards nobody should follow. It almost feels rude to devalue gifts by demanding the recipients pay for them in bartering, and that's not even touching the plague of gigification!

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literally if you’re new to tumblr: reblog shit

“it wont fit my aesthetic” make a sideblog. reblog to it.

“i hate tagging” don’t tag then. reblog it anyway.

“but my likes are public” ppl here dont fucking look at your likes. they dont do anything anyway. reblog it.

“you just want attention” jokes on you, I dont make shit anymore. I’m talking about other artists.

“it’s embarrassing” tumblr is an anonymous platform. make a sideblog if you’re too cowardly

“but on twitter its fine to have lurk accounts” well they suck ass here and are assumed to be bots. reblog.

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