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Remember to make space for the heteros this month too - yes, really.

Lesbians who became straight men

Gay men who became straight women

All straight drag artists (note that not all of them are cis!)

People with complex identities who thusly encompass multiple orientations (like genderfluid and multigender people who, yes, are sometimes straight, or even simultaneously with other labels)

Hetero aro and ace people. Especially. Seriously.

People with fluid orientations

Gnc people who find joy in their straightness

Many queer people are also straight. Queerness is note solely reliant on gayness. These people too, are a part of pride. Remember that.

[All discourse attempts will be swiftly blocked. Exclusionists fuck off]

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Really need to be cuddled with all my stuffies made into a lil babygirl nest surrounding us 🥺

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Reblog if you think asexuality is a legitimate sexuality.

I'm trying to prove something.

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A relationship where we both agree on fixing our issues because we can’t lose each other >>>>

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D/s relationships 101: It is inappropriate to ask someone you’ve just met to be your submissive.

D/s relationships are based on trust. You can’t trust someone who you are just meeting for the first time. Trust is earned, and it takes time to build trust.

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Learn how to take care of your subs.

Rules like "you can't cum without my permission" or "you have to be on your knees in front of the door when I get home" are really great and I think everyone likes them.

But when you make rules like that, don't forget to make rules like "you have to eat three meals a day, drink enough, and go out for at least half an hour."

Take more care of your baby boys/girls/subs, including in everyday life. Show them that you care about them, that you like them and that you care if they do well. Make sure your sub can always come to you if something is difficult for him/her and they need help. Make it clear to them that you only want the best for them, even if your relationship is only sexual.

Also, if your sub has a safe word to let you know that you should stop immediately because they don't like it, they should have also another word that they can say when they particularly like something. Many subs are too shy to say it out loud or can't communicate well, which is why we should try to make it as easy as possible for them to express their feelings.

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Reblog if you're LGBTQIA+ (Yes Trans people and people on the ace/aro spectrum are also valid, shut up)

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if you’re going to use her like a slut, check on her afterwards; hold her, talk to her, read to her spoil her, whatever it takes; just make sure she feels like a princess again it’s important.

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Littles can be any gender. 💖

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I cannot stress this enough:

Kink is meant to be fun. It is meant to be enjoyed by all parties involved. There's a lot of romantic symbolism in suffering for your D/s but in reality, if the s-type isn't finding joy in the scenes you do, you need to make changes to it.

Having limits or complicated feelings about certain (even common) kinks does not make you a less worthy submissive. The power exchange is granted by the sub, not taken by the Dom.

Please honor yourself and make sure your terms are being met before giving someone a right to your body that they have not earned.

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Love making meals for my Daddy 🥰🧡

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I love ending all my sentences with <3 as a punctuation mark⋆ﾟ⊹

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I hope next year treats you kindly, but above all else, I hope you treat you kindly.

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being a pet and a little means I have more things to play dress up with 🐾👑

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Lowkey debating making this blog active again cause I kinda miss having a strictly nonsexual space