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Victim?

I’ve never been comfortable with the term “victim.”  I’ve never seen myself as a victim. I don’t know if I’ve ever seen myself as anything really. When it all came together for me, it was like a flood. It was like bits of old 8mm film that had been disjointed and now it all showed in one piece. That was the first time I was even tempted to use a term at all.     Before that all the pieces lay separately. On their own I knew they weren’t right. My wife would tell me that any one of them would count as horrendous abuse. But I didn’t get it. I didn’t feel it. For me it was just my life. It was the life I had, the only life I’d ever known.  But the day they all came together changed everything for me. In that moment, I remember sitting devastated, sobbing helpless in my back yard as it played over and over again. All the images, the memories, the film that was my childhood.  What I cried for wasn’t me the man, but the boy I had been….and what grieved me? Not so much what was done…but how could a mother and a father be so committed to the destruction of one they were supposed to care for.  Even then, I didn’t see my now-self as a victim, and I didn’t see my then-self as a victim. I just wept for what was done to a little boy who had no way to fight back….it is that feeling of injustice that still drives me.

http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/victim/

Poetry by Dr John A. King

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Misty Moore Reviews #dealwithit

Misty Moore reviews  #dealwithit  . I was greatly encouraged by how practical Misty found the book, that was my aim.  I didnt want this to be a book by another Dr Firstname Only that promised you unicorn, butterflies and a quick fix.  I want this to confirmed to you that yes your life suck…but it will get better, here is how I did it and if I can make it, so can you.  You can connect with Misty on instagram @mistymae21  Get the book  #dealwithit  – living well with PTSD  www.drjohnaking.com   #drjohnaking ,  #dealwithit

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Fake It Till You Make It

Fake It Till You Make It . Sometimes you just have to get off you butt and drag yourself back on the field of life and play hurt. . You have to fake it till you can make it . Get the book #dealwithit – living well with PTSD www.drjohnaking.com . #drjohnaking, #dealwithit

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Motivation vs. Habit

http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/motivation-vs-habit/

By Dr John A. King

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When abusers use their mental illness to justify their behavior

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