aromantic-mlm

[aromantic-mlm]

I was just going to ghost this blog like i usually do (sorry for that haha) but this absence may be longer than my temporary breaks usually are so I thought I should make it official. I’m currently working through some mental health things and I need a break from this blog to figure things out. I don’t know when/if I’ll be back, but just know I appreciate all of you and thank you for following/enjoying my content. I hope I provided you guys with some positivity. I know it meant a lot to me to curate this content while dealing with uncertainty and shame surrounding my identity. But right now my sexuality is the furthest thing from my mind. I hope you guys understand, and that you have a marvelous day 💚 💚💚

[aromantic-mlm]

alloaro

[aromantic-mlm]

if an aromantic person is more comfortable with using crush then the aro equivalents don’t yell at them. someone saying they are aromantic and have a crush isn’t directly contradictory as they could just like the term more. crush doesn’t always equal romantic attraction for people so be mindful of other aromantics experiences.

[aromantic-mlm]

i just hope that aroallo ppl know how loved and appreciated and supported they are, and that not experiencing romantic attraction doesn’t make you less important, less amazing or less magnificent. there is nothing wrong with being aroallo and being aroallo is something to be proud of

[aromantic-mlm]

Me: *does literally any mundane task*

Gay brain: But what if there was a boy doing this with you??

Me: omg what if there was a boy doing this with me??

[aromantic-mlm]

Shout-out to LGBTQ+ people who fit stereotypes! To butch lesbians, flamboyant gay men, feminine trans men, masculine trans women, young and hair-dyed nonbinary people, polyamorous and sexually fluid bi and pansexuals! To young and awkward aros/aces! To visibly intersex people! To people who do feel special and different because of their identities sometimes. To the people who's identities did or do change over time, in phases.

There's something so radical and beautiful in being who you are when the world wasn't built for you. You are incredible. You are loved. You are valuable.

It can be incredibly painful to fit the stereotypes people use to dehumanize you, to look at derogatory caricatures and sometimes see yourself. We don't talk about that much, but it's hard and that's real. But you are so wonderful and worth so much.

[aromantic-mlm]

i wanna try new things with a boy. go rollerskating, skydiving, eat crazy ice cream flavors, climb trees and build a treehouse. do things that we’re scared of, but it’ll be okay because we’re doing it together.

[aromantic-mlm]

The intimacy and tenderness of helping your partner with their hormone injection 😳😳

[aromantic-mlm]

You only have to explore your identity or figure out labels as long as you’re interested. If you’re satisfied with things as they are, you can just leave them if you want to.

[aromantic-mlm]

Tag yourself, Voidpunk edition

I’m Robot/Alien

[aromantic-mlm]

Shout out to gay aro men!! Every single one of y’all is wonderful and deserve to be treated with dignity and worth!

Gay aro men who feel they are fitting into stereotypes, it is not your job to subvert them. You are not perpetuating stereotypes by living authentically.

You are not “less gay” because you are aromantic. Your identities are not meant to be restricting!

Being comfortable in your sexuality is not wrong! You can enjoy being gay and being aro. Your existence doesn’t need to be measured with suffering.

[aromantic-mlm]

to all the non-binary gays reading this post: y'all are amazing and extremely valid! your identities don't contradict each other and can coexist. you deserve positivity and appreciation. sincerely, a fellow enby mlm 💜

[aromantic-mlm]

Lust is not a sin

Sex and sexual attraction without any kind of emotional bond is not wrong

You can be a kind, caring, gentle person while still wanting sex without romance

Sexual attraction without romantic attraction is normal and healthy

*Anyone can reblog but this post is specifically about alloaros, do not derail

[aromantic-mlm]

hey fellow aro/ace/-spec mlm & nblm you’re fantastic and wonderful and valid and you deserve the world

[aromantic-mlm]

It’s OK if different types of attraction are jumbled up for you. It’s OK if you’re not sure what type of attraction or attractions you’re experiencing.

[aromantic-mlm]

Sending good vibes to all my aroallo men out there, especially to those of color!

Happy Pride; I love y’all! No romo, tho. ;)

[aromantic-mlm]

me, making direct eye contact with a cute boy in target: