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are you at the end of the aro spectrum?

yes, i am fully aromantic

no, i am on the spectrum

nuance

results

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Italian aros, how do you pronounce "aro" in italian?

[Aro] like an Italian word written like that

[A R O] spelling it with Italian pronunciation

[Eirow] like you would pronounce it in English

[Ei Ar Ow] spelling it with English pronunciation

Other

I don't say it

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Aro people, which identity term did you first hear of (not necessarily identity with, just that you were aware of it)?

Aromantic

Asexual

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I'm lithromantic myself and everytime I see lithros mentioned, the poster usually only includes one definition of lithromantic instead of both definitions. I'm curious how other liths/akois feel about the multiple definitions.

Lithro/Akoiromantics, how do you feel about there being two definitions for "lithro/akoiromantic"?

-Positive

-Neutral

-Negative

-See results

And for the record: the two definitions (as per AUREA identity terms glossary) are as follows:

Describes a person who can feel romantic attraction towards others and enjoys romantic relationships in theory, but does not need that affection to be reciprocated or to be in a relationship with the one the feelings are directed towards.

Describes a person who may stop feeling romantic attraction once in a relationship or stop enjoying it.

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poll redo after anon clarified !

Aros, do you think the aro community has a problem with sex-negativity?

yes

no

unsure

see results

im gonna be honest i don't really get the wording of this one, could be interpreted as either

is the aro community sex negative?

does the aro community dislike sex negativity?

im a lil confused so if u see this anon, pls clarify and i can redo this poll <3 /nm

or maybe im just stupid, idk guys please tell me what this means

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Do you feel excluded/disconnected from the aro community?

1. Yes, and I'm non-partnering / fully uninterested in romance

2. Somewhat, and I'm non-partnering / fully uninterested in romance

3. No, and I'm non-partnering / fully uninterested in romance

4. Yes, and I'm open to romantic and/or queerplatonic partnership

5. Somewhat, and I'm open to romantic and/or queerplatonic partnership

6. No, and I'm open to romantic and/or queerplatonic partnership

7. Yes, and I have a partner

8. Somewhat, and I have a partner

9. No, and I have a partner

10. Other

11. See results

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aros that don't want to have a qpr, are you aqueerplatonic?

yes, fully aqp

yes, aqp-spec

no

unsure/nuance

results

"aqueerplatonic" refers to someone who experiences little to no queerplatonic attraction or lacks the desire to join a qpr with anyone

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Genuinely do not want to stir up decade's old drama but ever since I started identifying with this particular identity, I have always been curious.

Akoi/Apo/Lithromantics, how do you identify and which of these identity terms had you first heard about?

Akoiromantic; First heard about Akoiromantic

Akoiromantic; First heard about Aporomantic

Akoiromantic; First heard about Lithromantic

Aporomantic; First heard about Akoiromantic

Aporomantic; First heard about Aporomantic

Aporomantic; First heard about Lithromantic

Lithromantic; First heard about Akoiromantic

Lithromantic; First heard about Aporomantic

Lithromantic; First heard about Lithromantic

See results

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Do you want a life partner (or partners) of some kind that you share a home, finances, long term commitments, etc with?

Yes, and I am aromantic

Yes, and I am arospec

Yes, and I am alloromantic / not on the aro spectrum

No, and I am aromantic

No, and I am arospec

No, and I am alloromantic / not on the aro spectrum

Unsure, and I am aromantic

Unsure, and I am arospec

Unsure, and I am alloromantic / not on the aro spectrum

See results

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Aropsecs, would you like to be in a romantic relationship? If you are currently in a romantic relationship, answer with how you felt before that relationship or how you would feel if that relationship ended.

No, I am actively repulsed by that idea

No, I don’t like that idea

Not actively, I’m neutral, depends on circumstances

I’m neutral, but I would like to try it at some point

I would like one, but not enough to form a romantic relationship without feeling attraction

I would like one, regardless of if I felt romantic attraction to my partner(s) or not, but not necessarily immediately

I really want a romantic relationship and am actively seeking one

Results / not arospec

*FULL ANSWER: I would like one, regardless of if I felt romantic attraction to my partner(s) or not, but not necessarily immediately

Had to shorten because of character limits </3

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Demiros, do you require a certain minimum amount of time to feel your bonds/connections that allow you to develop romantic attraction, before you can feel romantic attraction? I.E., do you generally need to have a non-romantic relationship with someone for at least a certain period of time before you ever feel romantic attraction.

No, I can develop attraction with new bonds as long as they’re deep enough

No, it varies too much for me to say that

Yes, at least a week long connection

Yes, at least a month long connection

Yes, at least six months long connection

Yes, a year or more long connection

Yes, several years long connection

I experience romantic attraction too rarely to say

Unsure

Results

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Hi there trans arospecs, do you feel safer around / have you had better experiences with alloromantic trans people or arospec cis people?

Yes, I feel safer / have had better experiences with alloromantic trans people

Yes, I feel safer / have had better experiences with arospec cis people

No, I’ve had about equally good experiences with both groups

No, I’ve had about equally bad experiences with both groups

No, my experiences / sense of safety has not been significantly impacted by the identities of people around me

Other / nuance (please explain further)

I have no idea

See results / not trans and arospec

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Hi Arospecs, do you also identify as transgender?

Yes, I’m trans

No, I’m cis

Nuance

See results / not arospec

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Fixed poll

Arospecs who use the split attraction model and have both romantic and sexual orientations, is either identity more important to you?

My romantic orientation/arospec identity is more important to me than my sexual orientation

My romantic and sexual orientations/identities are both equally important to me

My sexual orientation/identity is more important to me than my romantic orientation/arospec identity

I have another type of orientation that is most important to me

Unsure

Other / nuanced (please explain?)

See results / not SAM arospec

EDIT: i messed up the poll, will be reposting

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Arospecs who use the split attraction model and have both romantic and sexual orientations, is either identity more important to you?

My romantic orientation/arospec identity is more important to me than my sexual orientation

My romantic and sexual orientations/identities are both equally important to me

My sexual orientation/identity is more important to me than my romantic orientation/arospec identity

I have another type of orientation that is most important to me

Unsure

Other / nuanced (please explain?)

See results / not SAM arospec

EDIT: i messed up the poll, will be reposting

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Allosexual arospecs, how frequently have you had to clarify that you’re not asexual?

Very, very frequently

Basically every time I tell someone I’m arospec

Sometimes

Sometimes, but only when people know I’m arospec

Occasionally

Never, but I’m also not out as arospec so it never comes up

Never, no one has assumed or asked me specifically about that

See results / not allo arospec

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Arospecs, how do you feel about the word ‘love’?

I hate it on principle / I just hate it

I don’t like it because of how it’s been used societally/around me

I don’t have strong feelings about it, but I do NOT relate to/use the term in my experiences

I don’t have strong feelings about it, but I DO relate to/use the term in my experiences

I like it when it’s talking about non-romantic love

I love it when it’s talking about non-romantic love

I like it generally, regardless of the specific kind of love being discussed

I love it generally, regardless of the specific kind of love being discussed

My feelings about the word are completely contextual

Unsure

See results / not arospec

had to rephrase a bit to fit under character limits :)