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The struggle with PC culture

In reference to Tim Allen’s new docudrama endeavor and the countless other complaints from the likes of Ben Shapiro, so called “free speech” advocates, and heterodox academics that our culture is becoming “too” PC....

Thoughts? Am i wrong? I’m open to criticism and debate.

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Hypocrisy can only exist at the individual level. Institutions, organizations, and movements are diverse.

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Spent 7 hours on this, spread over 4 days. Yes Doofus Rick is featured in two of the pictures. Better video on twitter: http://bit.ly/2yG7mjf

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Reblog this post if you have or have had a good idea for a podcast but haven’t known how to get started

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Summary of the decision and fallout surrounding Roosevelt’s Executive Order 9066, signed in 1942. Public xenophobia resulted in overwhelming pressure on the government to act without evidence.

75 years later, seems appropriate to remember and learn from the actions of our past...

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What matters most...

It's really not up to a bully or other non-participant bystander to decide if an action is considered bullying or not.

What matters more is if the bystander checks in with the victim to make sure they're ok. What matter's more is if the bully recognizes and apologizes for their actions when feelings are hurt. And those actions all hinge on what matters most, which is if the victim felt targeted or bullied.

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“’The root of the disease,’ in the words of the ecological thinker William Ophlus, ‘is not defective public policies but a defective public philosophy.’ If both locals and tourists do not respect or understand the meaning behind the law, the law or policy is irrelevant.��

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Three days after the 2016 election here and i was responding to and thinking about the topic of exercising voting rights, which kinda relates to expressing opinions/standing up for rights in general.. when this thought about assumptions, inclusion, and acknowledging realities crossed my mind:

Just because people don't want to voice their opinions, does not mean we can assume to know what they are thinking and what they believe within their own minds and hearts. Those choosing to stay silent do have to live with the real consequences of their inaction though.

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4 days late for Women’s equality day 2016, but still important to share. Check out the initiative here and the organization website here!

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(left to right: Peter Norman, Tommie Smith, John Carlos)

For those that find ourselves in positions of privilege, here’s how to be an ally. (click the picture for the jump)

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Thank you Glenn Beck...

.. for shifting individual responsibility to “the government of Africa” and simultaneously revealing that you don’t know the difference between continent and country.

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I spoke with Roald Dahl’s daughter, Ophelia, about her father’s 1988 letter urging parents & children to get the #measles vaccine.

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Stupid dying - 1. dying as a result of lacking in appropriate health infrastructure 2. aka death by a system-wide failure to provide equitable and equal access to health services for the marginalized and destitute populations of our world

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Some ‪#‎Ebola‬ updates:

On Monday, Ban Ki-moon expressed concern at the recent restrictions put in place in several countries and localities applying to people who have travelled to the main Ebola-affected countries, which have put particular pressure on health care workers.

“Returning health workers are exceptional people who are giving of themselves for humanity. They should not be subjected to restrictions that are not based on science. Those who develop infections should be supported, not stigmatized.” Read more at: http://j.mp/1wCShqu

Photo: WHO/S. Bolton

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Five Ways to Improve Development Assistance- 1. Reward aid institutions and staff who localize aid dollars. 2. Prioritize implementation with national counterparts at every step of the process. 3. Do not conflate weak systems with corruption. 4. Challenge common assumptions about what is considered sustainable and cost-effective in fragile settings. 5. Prioritize the transfer of aid functions to local authorities.

http://www.humanosphere.org/2014/02/catholics-taught-public-health-leader/

-Farmer

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By: Rebekah Campbell NY Times, March 11th, 2014

Recently, I caught up with one of our angel investors for lunch: Peter is a brilliant entrepreneur from England who has lived all over the world. He has built several businesses and now lives a dream life with a house on a harbor, a happy family and a broad smile.

As our conversation drifted from an update of my company to a deep discussion about life itself, I asked him what he thought was the secret to success. I expected the standard “never give up” or some other T-shirt slogan, but what he said took me by surprise. “The secret to success in business and in life is to never, ever, ever tell a lie,” he said.

That stumped me. I know that lying is bad and telling the truth is good — we learn that as children. But the secret to success? I looked at Peter, confused and skeptical. He nodded and assured me, “Complete honesty is the access to ultimate power.”

As we spoke, I started thinking about the little lies I tell every day — often without thinking about it, but not always. I have been guilty of exaggerating a metric here or there or omitting facts for my own advantage. Each time, there is a little voice inside my head that tells me it is the wrong thing to do. I have wondered whether everyone does this or whether it is just me. Could this be what has been holding me back?

I did some research and it seems most of us lie quite a bit. A study by the University of Massachusetts found that 60 percent of adults could not have a 10-minute conversation without lying at least once. The same study found that 40 percent of people lie on their résumés and a whopping 90 percent of those looking for a date online lie on their profiles. Teenage girls lie more than any other group, which is attributed to peer pressure and expectation. The study did not investigate the number of lies told by entrepreneurs looking for investment capital, but I fear we would top the chart.

Most people lie about little things to make them look good. A study by a film rental company found that 30 percent of respondents lied about having seen “The Godfather.” It’s a classic film, we assume everyone has seen it, and we lie that we have too, because we want to fit in. People lie to stave off the consequences of making a mistake, to buy more time or to spare someone’s feelings. Their hearts may be in the right place, but they are still telling lies.

Peter has invested in hundreds of businesses. Every time he sees a pitch, he waits until the end of the presentation before asking the entrepreneurs to go back through the deck and point out every lie they have just told. There are always plenty. As soon as the entrepreneurs open up with the truth, they can start managing what to do next.

Peter maintains that telling lies is the No. 1 reason entrepreneurs fail. Not because telling lies makes you a bad person but because the act of lying plucks you from the present, preventing you from facing what is really going on in your world. Every time you overreport a metric, underreport a cost, are less than honest with a client or a member of your team, you create a false reality and you start living in it.

You know the right path to take and choose another, and in so doing you lose control of the situation. Now, rather than tackling the problem head on, you have to manage the fallout from the lie. I know people who seem to have spent their entire careers inflating the truth and then fighting to meet the expectations they have set.

Like me, Peter reads Buddhist philosophy and applies it to business. One of its lessons is to remain in the present, a more peaceful, creative and productive place from which to operate. Every time I tell a lie, I know that I am no longer present. I feel a tightening in my chest and sweat on my palms — just a small amount because I only tell little lies. But lies they are. They place me in a false future, increase my level of stress and prevent me from being as creative as I can be when I’m fully present. Stress saps our energy and causes nasty consequences for our bodies. We know that lying creates stress; polygraph tests measuring blood pressure, perspiration, pulse and skin conductivity can pinpoint a lie with tremendous accuracy.

I recently discovered firsthand the corrosive effect of lying. For several years, I have worked as a director of a nonprofit organization. We do great work in the community but as a team we have always floundered. A few weeks ago, I caught the leader of our group lying — not whoppers, but a series of tales about why he was late, why someone could not make a meeting or why emails had not been read. I confronted him and he justified his lying, saying that it avoided unpleasant consequences.

It was obvious why our team wasn’t working: People didn’t trust each other. The result was a culture of obfuscation and backstabbing in which we achieved less than we were capable of achieving. Staff members and volunteers became disheartened and eventually left. The leader’s constant lies, no matter how insignificant they seemed to him, had caused a breakdown of integrity and trust in the organization, and without integrity and trust nothing worked.

Since my meeting with Peter a few months ago, I’ve thought about truth and its relationship to creativity, peace, and ultimately success. I decided to test his ideas by trying to be 100 percent honest and transparent all of the time, even when I did not have to be. It was harder and more frightening than I expected. It is embarrassing to admit that I caught myself telling many more lies than I realized, most to protect myself. Telling the truth can be a tough option, and it made me feel much more vulnerable.

But the results have been striking. In an investor pitch six months ago, when I ran through our financial model and budget, I was open about where money had been spent poorly because of mistakes I had made — even though there was no way the investor could have found this out on his own. I was nervous, but the majority of investors I pitch say no anyway. So I decided to try an experiment: the total truth. At the end of our conversation, he said, “I really appreciate how transparent you’ve been with me, Rebekah. Give me a day to think about it.” The next day he called back and invested. I was stunned!

I’ve stuck with this philosophy ever since. It’s transformed my sense of peace and coincided with our company’s most productive period ever. Coincidence?

If you are reading this post and thinking, “This doesn’t apply to me — I never lie,” you are probably lying to yourself. If you try being honest and transparent about everything, I’m confident that you will find it both difficult and rewarding — and that it will make a measurable difference in your business.

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The male mind, the Berliner; the female mind, the Viennese. The female mind has grace, the male mind has efficiency. And of course in the long run, if there is a constant fight, the graceful is bound to be defeated and the efficient mind will win, because the world understands the language of mathematics, not of love. But the moment your efficiency wins over your grace, you have lost something tremendously valuable: you have lost contact with your own being. You may become very efficient, but you will no longer be a real person. You will become a machine, a robotlike thing.

"Intuition: Knowing Beyond Logic" -Osho